How difficult it could be to say goodbye

Philippines
March 20, 2012 10:16am CST
I never felt this kind of pain for a long time. But it's kinda nice for me to feel it again. The pain of having to say "goodbye" and doing all the best to not take that word back. It's difficult. The fight and the pain are killing me. But I can surpass this. I know I can =)
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@celticeagle (157563)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Mar 12
There is a pain to having to say goodbye to people isn't there? I haven't said it to anyone in a long time. My BFF lives in Oklahoma and we chat on Facebook every few days. We used to talk on the phone but I got so frustrated with the lack of being able to hear her very well. So goodbyes for a long time.
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Yeah I think that's frustrating too. Actually, the distance is one of the reasons why I am deeply sad at this moment.
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@celticeagle (157563)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Mar 12
I can sure understand that. Sometimes I remember when my BFF lived here and I took her for granted, thinking she would always be here. I didn't go see her all the time. Now that she is gone away I miss times we could have had.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
26 Mar 12
Yes, it's never easy to say goodbye especially to people who has been around in our life majority of the time. The moment we said the final goodbye, it means forever goodbye, a clean break from whatever happened in the past. Pain can be really painful but it's all shortlived. Think further ahead and u might even feel relieved when u look back to the past. Short termed pain and suffering in return for long term happiness, it's all worth it. No pain can be forever.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
9 Apr 12
Appreciate it
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 12
Hi eybyjen, Are you breakoff with your boyfriend? When you say "it's kinda nice for me to feel it again" It make me feel weird about it. How can someone feeling nice to feel pain. But then, from what you said, I know that you are really strong and can handle it bravely. What I can say is tomorrow will always better and there are always hope out there for us.
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Thank you for that. I never felt this kind of pain for a long time and it really feels nice to feel something deep (although painful) for awhile. It makes me more human and it makes me stronger. Thank you for those kind words anyway =)
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
20 Jun 12
There are times in life when you have to stretch your hand and say goodbye to friends or lovers or loved ones are times when you have to fall. I wish I did not care when I probably lost a chance at happiness. I played with everything we played, we try every trick and our destiny at a time is to not have any ace up his sleeve. We'll just be some people with empty eyes. It was foolish to play by the rules, rules that say we have the right to build something and then we daraman with so many foolish pride. There are times when you feel that the man next to you is changing, but really is nothing more than entering a day when only find something does not know. And there's a moment when you realize you can not live with what you start to know each day and still have to put out when you do not, you still love.
• Trinidad And Tobago
20 Mar 12
Ok a little backstory would've been nice. Uh who are you saying goodbye to?? School friends, family, a boyfriend, a pet???? Because you can definitely experience pain with all those scenarios right there :), must admit I'm also curious as to why you consider it "nice for me to feel it again." But considering, and I'm not going to guess who you're saying goodbye to, saying goodbye is indeed painful, yes this too shall pass and you'll be just fine with time. Time heals all wounds, and it'll definitely heal the pain that you're experiencing right now. Best of luck to you my dear :)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
I could not elaborate more on the pain and who/what am I referring to. I'm sorry for that. I just wrote this to ease my feelings and for the pain to be not burdensome on my part. Thank you for the kind words anyway =)
• Australia
22 Mar 12
It is hard closing one door and not knowing what on the other side of the one in front of you. I know the pain you speak of well. It gets better
• Philippines
24 Mar 12
Thank you. Sometimes you just can't express things. But I agree with you, it gets better =)