Remembering back when an employer assumed I knew something.
By writersedge
@writersedge (22563)
United States
May 9, 2012 8:01am CST
I was working with people whose I.Q.s were 60 and under. The Director of one of the houses told me to go help a client take a taxi. I asked the Director who was going to help me? I'd never taken a taxi in my life.
Why? $26 each way where I live. Why would I spend $52 on a taxi when I have a car or could pay a friend $10? Also I could walk a lot of places. Back then, I could ride a bicycle lots of places.
So anyway, the Director of the house where they lived was pretty cool,"She actually knows how to do it. Just make sure she dials the right number, tells them our location and the location where she's going, and asks how much it is." The Director was right, the young lady I was working with did know how to do it. So I learned something from a client one day.
This came in handy later on. I lived in our local city for a short period of time. My car broke down and I still needed to get to work. So I called a cab and used the same outline. Just dial the right number, tell them where you are and where you're going to. How much will that be? So then you bring the right amount of money plus a little tip. So the experience did come in handy years later.
Did you ever have a boss that assumed you knew how to do something? How did that work out? Was the boss understanding?
I've since worked in places where bosses thought you were stupid if you didn't know how to do something. So no one wanted to ask any questions and that made for quite the disasters sometimes.
So what has been your experience on this topic?
5 responses
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
9 May 12
I had a supervisor who assumed I know everything about her and the job and I don't like that, I hate being a role model to others because I don't have confidence to be like that.
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
10 May 12
Yes but I turn down the offer because I like flexibility in my daily routine.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
10 May 12
That's why then.
I'm not really into being a supervisor either.
@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
9 May 12
I come back to the fact that you learned a practical skill from someone you were supposed to be helping. I have done that, more than once. I learned that whenever I get out of my car in a parking lot, I need to remember the number or letter of the aisle it is in, then it will not matter if I cannot see it from the store. I learned about getting a certain brand of prepaid online service for when I travel. I have been fortunate in many of my work situations all people were focused on learning and enhancing life, so if I did not know something, it was okay to ask. I do not enjoy working in hostile environments where you cannot all learn.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
10 May 12
I learned the number for the car thing after I lost my car. Not every parking lot had that so I park my car by a light post when there is no such thing. Then I can find it.
Yes, the temp service jobs we had, some were great and some you are glad it's only temporary. You learn which places you'd like to work and which ones you never want to work at.
@celticeagle (189880)
• Boise, Idaho
9 May 12
Most taxi companies are pretty good. I had a boss at the answering service I worked at that had me do the computer system maintenance at night. I followed his instructions and everything seemed to go fine. I was called into the office the next morning. Thought I was in trouble for sure. He was just wanting to tell me what a good job I had done and he was glad I knew what i was doing. I didn't tell him I had never done it before.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
10 May 12
You're pretty talented then to be able to do things just from the instructions and overnight on your own. That's great!
Yes, most taxi companies in my area are pretty good.
@TeamCholent (2832)
• United States
9 May 12
My boss assumes I know what what it is he is about to tell me to do without him even mentioning anything. We have a policy at work we never say no so I went to Barnes and Noble and bought myself a book to help me with this new project I have been assigned.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
10 May 12
That's a good idea, about the researching it in a book. I hope you're always able to find the answers. Thanks and take care.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 May 12
MY boss always assumes that i knew things at all time around the office. But sometimes, i would honestly tell her i don't know what to say about a concern which bothers her. Nonetheless, she would tell me what's on her mind , thus i will have to share what's on my mind about it too. 

@writersedge (22563)
• United States
10 May 12
So you give each other a piece of your minds, saying, slang here.
As long as it works for both of you.
Thanks and take care.






