I regret.....but It is OK..

@ryanong (9664)
Vietnam
June 14, 2012 1:52am CST
My company organizes a travel for all staffs in the end of this month. The trip will be 3 day and 2 nights and for sure it is free for all staffs who join it. Seeing its schedule, i think that trip will be very enjoyable because people have a chance to spend nice time and join many activities on a beautiful big island in HaLong bay... However at that time i can't go, i have to go to my hometown for my dad's first anniversary of a death. I regret being unable to join that travel...but it is OK...I have no choice else. Have you ever missed a free travel like that?
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13 responses
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Aww. Don't worry you will get to see your family anyway. Smile. :-)
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
14 Jun 12
Ya, it is nice to see my family members also...i can have many chances to get travel later..
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
15 Jun 12
Have you every missed any free travel?
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Yup! That is true! :D
• Indonesia
14 Jun 12
Hi Ryanong, wow a free trip is sound nice but yes your family is more important. Just have faith that someday you will get another free trip, who knows probably you will win a grand prize. Does your company give compensation to everyone who cannot go to the trip? If yes, you can use the money to have some short trip later. I too missed a free travel, actually my family is going for a vacation and Im home alone. I have to stay home because I cannot leave my university, huftttt its okay education is my priority now.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
14 Jun 12
Oh, then next time, you can ask your family take a vacation when you are off in university such as summer or winter break. so that you can enjoy with them. ya, I can get compensation if i won't go to travel with my company but it is around 40% of money for travel expense. You are right, i can use that money for my short trip later...in fact i am not unhappy about it, just regret a bit...because traveling with company, it is a chance to know more and be closer to others colleagues
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• Indonesia
14 Jun 12
40% is better than get nothing at all , Im not sure when they will go to another vacation when I have university break my brother started his school, our schedulle did not match to each other. hey dont worry, you will have another chance to get to know your colleagues better, its not like you will quit working tomorrow right? so enjoy your time, there is plenty times and chances to be close with your work mates, hang out on weekend maybe?
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
14 Jun 12
You are right, i have many chance later to be close with my colleagues so that it is fine.. Ya, 40% is a good amount also...plus with money that i just got, i will have a nice amount to buy gifts and saving also...today is still my happy day...
@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
15 Jun 12
I once missed a free trip to Lituania. At that time I took a psychology class and our class was going to Lithuania for 2 weeks. We had to work in orphanages, homes for people with special needs, kindergartens etc for two weeks, but we also had some free time where we were able to do some sightseeing. When I heard about the trip I was really excited, because I had never been to Lithuania before and I thought that it would have be amazing to work there for a couple of weeks and explore the country with my classmates. I was telling my mother about the free trip to Lithuania and how excited I was about going there and she asked me: “When does the trip take place?” I told her the date and then she said: “Haven’t you forgotten something? Your brother’s confirmation takes place that week!” I had totally forgotten that, but I didn’t want to miss the ceremony and my brother’s party, so I didn’t go to Lithuania. I never regretted that decision. My classmates had a great time in Lithuania, but I knew that my brother’s confirmation was only going to take place once and I didn’t want to miss it.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
16 Jun 12
Ah, i see. You did right...and for sure you bother was so happy when you was attending his party. If i were in your shoes, i would do like you too. Ya, your brother’s confirmation was only going to take place once but you still have another chance to go to Lituania later, right?
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
15 Jun 12
wow! you are blessed employees to have a wonderful benefit from your employer. I dont have any free travel from our company. It is ok for you to have missed that opportunity because you are putting your family first before anything else. take care and I am sure there will be more of those trips in the future.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
15 Jun 12
Really? in here most companies will support a free travel for their staffs 1 time a year in summer time. I think your company should do like that also, so that all people in the company will be closer after traveling. Ya, you are right, it is ok for me and i may get free travel later..
• India
18 Jun 12
Mostly i used to join all the trips organised by my family members but once i was the one who missed a trip to veega land. The trip was really intresting and i miss it a lot. My examination was the reason to miss it. Anyway past is past and i make sure that i don't miss those such memorable moments again.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
19 Jun 12
Oh, i understand...if i were in your shoes, i should do the same. We could not give up the examination, right? I believe that you will have another chance to get a wonderful trip...
• Indonesia
21 Jun 12
When I was in university, I joint a club. We will make a trip to some places and I was so eager to go with all my friends and just having fun. But then my mom called me to go to hometown cos we had burrial ceremony for my uncle :( I went hometown, and feel so unlucky cos I lost the moment with friends.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
25 Jun 12
Ah, i understand..but at that time you had to go to hometown..and you had no choice for it. I am Ok with it because i think i will have many chance later to join a free travel with colleagues.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
14 Jun 12
No, I've never have been given a free opportunity to travel. But I understand that I would do the same as you.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
15 Jun 12
Oh, really? sometime i can get free travel like that. Ya, i will go to hometown..it is ok, i may get a free travel later...
@toniganzon (77288)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Couldn't remember. I was always present in each travel our company used to have. Well it looks like there will be a lot of fun and you would be missing it. But family is more important.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
15 Jun 12
Ya, i think so...family is important..then it is OK. I will have another chance to get free travel later..
@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
I missed a trip once to a relative's fish pond when our family was invited, where they will feed, harvest and sell fishes using their motor boat to the market. I was left cause nobody would watch the house so my wife, mother, kids and our family driver went plus a relative of my wife so their would be 2 drivers because it was a long land trip. I felt a little sorry but it was more important to me for the kid to experience what life is in the province since they grew up in the city so it was just fine.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
14 Jun 12
Oh, you are such a nice father...I understand your feeling since you had to watch the house and could not join fishing in the province with the others members. I hope next time you won't miss a trip like that..
@kkaria309 (297)
• United States
14 Jun 12
Not really, so I cannot empathize. But I can offer my sympathy, I would hate to miss an opportunity like that. But your reason is valid and unavoidable, so nothing can be done. I am sorry about your father, my condolences.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
14 Jun 12
Thank you... ya, that's why i said i regret it...but it is OK..
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Yes, few years ago I missed a free vacation with my patient family because I needed to attend to my husband company outing. I think his company outing was more fun and I did enjoyed his co-workers because they are friendly and accomodating. There are times that we need to cancel some of our activities to prioritized our famiy first. Family first before anything else, after all there is always be a next time.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
14 Jun 12
ah, i see. You missed a vacation with your parents but you joined another outing, then it is fine...
• Indonesia
14 Jun 12
yeah i that ever happen to me once, all my family go to out country, while me still must go to school, my parent didn't want me miss the leasson.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
14 Jun 12
oh, i can understand your feeling at that time. We all love traveling ...but sometime we have to miss it.
@aribdee (133)
• United States
14 Jun 12
Yes, I have tried missing some fun when my friends try to invite me. But for me, It would be happier if you put your family first before others. And there is no point in regretting something like that because being with family is much important than being with friends. hehe
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
14 Jun 12
ya, you are right, our family is the first. I don't consider about going to travel or going to my hometown. I have to go to hometown...