JUST FOR FUN... Who among you ex(s) did you missed? Why?

@aejey322 (1004)
Philippines
July 11, 2012 1:36am CST
I have an ex-boyfriend in my college days. (16 years ago. whew!) We only have been physically together for 2 months. But he went home to his hometown but we continued communicating through snail mail and long distance calls, then he came to visit me once. We have been exchanging letters for almost 2 years. Until our communication just went off... Well, I considered him as sincere because he gave all his efforts in sending mails and sending surprise gifts through courier. I'm just wondering how he is now...
9 responses
@desiree91 (515)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 12
Well I'm 21 and I never have a boyfriend. Just saying haha.
• Malaysia
13 Jul 12
Haha clever. And that would be years from now I guess..
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
13 Jul 12
you can always come back to this forum if you already have one. hehehehe
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
I had one ex only and it was 8 years ago, we shared almost 3 months together and to be honest I almost forgot how we were before. We don't each other more often, only at work but after his mom's arrival from abroad he hardly sneak out. A mama's boy huh, I broke up with him through text and I saw him once after we broke up. I sometimes miss him and I recall the time when we were together, how he speak and how's my feeling towards him before. That's it but I hardly think of him, I'm happy now with my current bf.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
13 Jul 12
Yeah, I just laugh when I look back and I ask my self how did I had a bf who's 5 years younger than me. I'm such a fool.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
well, we really pass by some not-so-good experiences to make us mature and learn lessons from those things. but sometimes they are just there to make us laugh when we look back at them...
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
11 Jul 12
I got married at age twenty two years old. My marriage was to an Australian and it lasted six years before we got divorced. We had sail mail in the days we got together. Amazingly in 2008 I got a Face Book message off him saying hi. He is working as a teacher in China and I always imagined he was still living in Australia. Him living in China was a surprise for me. I would like to see him again and have a chat. I met a lovely guy at further education college when I was sixteen years old and we dated for two months. Those were two special and wonderful months. We chatted on Friends Reunited in 2003 and met up for a drink in Canterbury in 2003. He is married with two children. He works as a secondary school teacher. I miss him and don't think that I will see him ever again. How sad I think that is.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
13 Jul 12
Sometimes, it's just nice to reminisce good old days...
@arizen (152)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Glad to know that I am not the only one who's missing an ex boyfriend. I wish you would find out where your ex boyfriend is. As for me, I had a boyfriend 7 years ago. He is the type of boyfriend that seem to got out straight from the movie. He is fond of surprising me too, has a great sense of humor, and he is so sweet. We were together for ten months. It was the best ten months of my love life. Sometimes, it makes doubt if he ever really existed in my life. To this day, I cannot seem to have someone better than him. After two years of breaking up with him, I tried getting into a relationship but it just failed, because I consistently remember him. I miss the "movie-like" sweet times we had.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
I hope you still have the chance of making it up with him... 7 years is already a long time, but if you're really destined to each other, your paths will cross...
@arizen (152)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
He has this famous and gorgeous girlfriend to whom I cannot be compared. She is literally a beauty queen and he is obviously madly in love with her. I just wish that I can meet a man who will exceed what he has done. I know it's wrong, but I can't help wishing for it. And good luck to you. Try locating him through online.
@gracie923 (162)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
I only have 3 boyfriends my entire life, and I had a funny experience with my two exes. Actually I didn't consideer my first boyfriend as a boyfriend after I broke him up because my mother told me he was disrespectful and he doesn't know how to give respect on the phone... gush it was a Big turn OFF! Just for that and we break up. And I only have a day relationship with my second boyfriend after we were in a relationship we he travel far a day after and we broke up a week after. So I didn't missed any of them, hehehe.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
13 Jul 12
hehehe... hope the one you have now is really the one who deserves you. be happy!
@Chime221 (35)
• Togo
13 Jul 12
I'm missing my first girlfriend. actually we did not break up per say; the distance between us just can't get closer. the gap is too much that we really had to stop talking. I've not seen her in 12 years, I've not heard from her in 4 years.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
16 Jul 12
that is what happened to the man i mentioned above. he only worked in our city for more than a year. then her sister told her to go home to them so he can help run their business. we tried at first... we see to it we talk through phone at least once a week, we send letters, even exchanging surprises through sending gifts. and he came back once to visit me... but because of distance, it became difficult for us to continue with our relationship. and it just faded that way, without really some sort of what we call "closure"... that's why i can't help thinking what really happened to him... but of course, my left went on. it's just my curiosity that brought this up.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Hmm nope, i actually do not miss any of them..
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Actually, there are so many choices, lol! Seriously though, I guess it would be the first one who really made me realized what kind of a man I was back then, and how much I took her for granted. That was about 25 years ago, and yet I always think of her and would often check up on her facebook just to know what she is up to.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
wow you break my 16 years record. hehehe... but good for you facebook now exists...
• India
11 Jul 12
Nice to read your blog. 16 years have gone by...and you still remember him. It is even nicer on your part that you have left it for destiny to decide of your any unplanned meet. Do write to me that day. I had someone very special 3 years back. I cheated on her. I am not a bad guy. But i killed her virtually with that shameless act of mine. Today she is happy in her existing relationship (as she shows it to me). She does not respond to me anymore. I miss her.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
oh well, i'm not really hoping that day would come. but if it will, i will immediately tell everyone. :) some would say, it's a small world after all... as to your ex-gf, i hope she will already forgive you and accept you even just as a friend... or just for old times sake...