If you could say one more thing to them...
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
Valdosta, Georgia
July 18, 2012 8:49am CST
If you have a loved one that has passed away and you had one more chance to say something to them what would you say?
I would tell my "Papa" I love and miss him and I wish I had more time with him before he passed away. I would also tell him I know it wasn't my fault now.
What would you say to your loved one? Have you seen them since they passed?
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@celticeagle (189896)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Jul 12
I was just thinking about my mother the other day. I usually think of my grandmother and my mom both. I think they are around watching over us. If I could see them again I would tell them how much I miss them and that I hope we are making them proud. I sure miss them!
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@celticeagle (189896)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Jul 12
He sounds like a very dear man indeed. I bet you have some great memories.
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
18 Jul 12
I would love for my grandmother to have seen my children. I would say to her that they are beautiful children and then show her a picture of them. Or if I could have my kids with me so that she could see them and hug them.

@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
18 Jul 12
I would tell my mom she was right. I did blossom. But then again I Know she has seen it with her own eyes! Is she Still proud of me? I do not know.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jul 12
Aw, I am sure she is proud of you! =)
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
18 Jul 12
Of course. My late grandfather. he passed away on April 7th 1995 and he meant the world to me. If I could say one more thing to him - "I love him and miss him so much. I would like to thank him for everything that he did to shape me, my thoughts, my life", without him, I am sure, I would not have been what I am today.
As for seeing him, yes, it is at least once each month that I have nightmares about his last days and how much I wanted to take him to the doctors. I and he were all alone in the house then, and I was only 20. He wouldnt listen to me - everytime I asked him - lets go and meet the doctor, he would say he was fine, and somewhere within I knew he wasnt.
The only regret - I am too egoistic in my beliefs and have no other regrets yet - I could not earn anything when he was alive. I wanted to buy something for him when he was alive, from my earnings.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jul 12
I'm sorry. My papa meant so much to me too. I would say the same type of things to my Papa. He was such a good man!
I am so sorry that you have nightmares of him like that. I have good dreams about my Papa. I could not handle having nightmares like that...
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
18 Jul 12
I truly believe they already knew that we love them more than everything. And our love hasn't finished for them, we still have it even if they are in another world.
I have my grandmother and aunt who passed away two years in row, same date, same month just two different years. I know my granny took my aunt be with her in Heaven and that's all I need to know.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jul 12
Yes I am sure they know that also. I love my papa so very much!
Oh wow, that is crazy that they passed away like that.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
18 Jul 12
Hi LovingMyBabies..I know exactly what I would say to any and every
one of my loved ones who has passed on...
"THANKS for being a part of
my life for the time you were here, and that I love them and miss
them so very much, and my hope is that I will definately see them
in the not so near future"
,,,[/b]
"THANKS for being a part of
my life for the time you were here, and that I love them and miss
them so very much, and my hope is that I will definately see them
in the not so near future"
,,,[/b]2 people like this
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jul 12
I completely agree with you. I would want my Papa to know how grateful I am for having him in my life and how much I wish I had more time with him! =(
I am sure we will all be reunited again soon. =)
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jul 12
Aw, I am sorry you lost your best friend. I have also had dreams of my papa. He has come to me several times that way.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
19 Jul 12
I would want to show my kids to my cousin. He was 15 when he passed and so excited I was pregnant (we grew up very close more like siblings as we where in the same house even for a few years,), and couldn't wait to see the baby made me promise I would leave one hospital to go to the one he was in the day we left to go home. Well when I was in labor they put him into an induced coma. The day I left the hospital he passed away. ( he had childhood leukemia) He would have loved to see her
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. @alaskanray (4636)
• United States
18 Jul 12
There is so much I would want to tell my mom, I cannot write a tenth of it. Mainly I would want to hold her in my arms and hang onto her forever and never let her go. She is with me every night in my dreams so I know she is never far from me. Still I miss her and her wisdom, her love and support. There is no one else in this world who gives like a mother. Sadly, when we are ready to give in return, too often, she is gone.
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@alaskanray (4636)
• United States
20 Jul 12
Thank you for your kind thoughts. If I didn't know I would see my mother again, I don't think I could go on in this life.

@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jul 12
I am sure it is horrible losing your mother. =( I cannot imagine the hurt that must cause. I understand you wanting to hold her and never let go.
I am sure she is always there with you. =) I know my Papa is here with me too.
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@sherrybelle (707)
• United States
18 Jul 12
I would thank my grandma for all the ways that she blessed my life while she was here and...
for all the ways that she continues to bless my life.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jul 12
Aw, that is so sweet. I am sure she is watching over you every day. =) I know my papa still looks over me.
@TheIzers (680)
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18 Jul 12
I will tell my grandpa how much I love him and I want him tobe around and healthy in another hundred years for me. I miss him so much. I have a lot of good memory about my grandpa and I miss him. I dreamt him once but he did not talk in my dream. 
he just watched me.

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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jul 12
Yeah I miss my grandfather so much, we used to call him Papa. I wish my Papa could still be here but he passed away when I was 11 years old. =(
I had a dream of my papa too, two times. He came to me that way because he didn't want to scare me. I saw every year of his life in my dream, I guess he was telling me he had a good life and it was okay.
I miss him so much though. 

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