It's my danged perrogative thankin ya muchly!

Walk a mile in your shoes, eh? I think that when a discussion is set up on here I will give my opinion and try to do it in such a way that it doesn't come off as looking down at you or anything like it. In reality I would probably ask if you were aware or whatever and if you said you were then I would back off. If I feel a friend is ranting I do try to give some good advice. I can certainly understand that a person such as yourself does not want someone elses opinion unless you act as if you need it.

Hi SomeCowgirl, there are some people in this life who thinks they have all the answer, why, I don;t know but I am relative private...You wlll never see any of my private life on mylot, its just me.. But as nice as I feel I am I have no problem asking people to mind their owm business..especially when they have no idea what the hell they are talking about...

It sounds like people forget you are a grown up.

There are always people who are more than willing to give their opinions on what we should do in our lives. Of course, you know what they say about opinions... I've been in the position before of having people act like they could push me to do things just because I was in a tight spot at the time. If I would have done the things that they pressured me to do, I would have ended up in an even worse position and would never have been able to pull myself out of it. Some people are just a******s.

I know how you feel, sometimes though, especially when it comes to here (MyLot) you can't control peoples opinions and advice and most of the times they mean well when they comment. Now if it's someone in your personal life, tell them to take a flying leap off of the tallest object near you, or to fix the issue for you. Or at least that is what I do. I know in my adult social brain, that I am wrong for this but I once was having a VERY bad day and I had stubbed my toe, which was just enough to start me bawling like a little baby. Well this lady I knew on a first name basis told me stubbing your toe was nothing to cry over and to grow up, she not knowing how bad my day was. So I took a deep breath and stomped her foot, HARD. Then I proceeded to tell her if I needed her opinion or help I would have asked for it, and that her presence in the same STATE as me was unwanted, and then I told her to get ALL of the information before speaking or bad things happen like stomped on feet. She actually apologized to me and a few days later thanked me for reminding her that she doesn't always know everything, and that people don't always want to hear her talk. I apologized too and we are still friends.