Sometimes All You Can Do Is To CRY :((

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi dear, One thing I admired you for I know you are brave enough If we don't commit mistakes we can't live our life to the fullest

Want to have a vodka weekend with you

saphrina

@saphrina (31552)

• South Africa

7 Sep 12

Vodka, whips and the 3 of us.

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Juliyan23

@Juliyan23 (600)

• Indonesia

7 Sep 12

When even the best words no longer be able to describe what I feel - I cry . And after that - we should move one. But sometimes it remains forever - a sorrow feel that I couldn't take it alone and somehow I need someone to share with. I guess I just haven't found that one yet

Have a wonderful day, Bahabycatch013

Thanks for the nice discussion

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi Juliyan, I am single and I have many true friend but there is one particular friend actually she is like a mom to me who always there to listen to my sorrow and pain and I am lucky to have her. Someday in right time you will have that someone

thanks for the response happy mylotting

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Juliyan23

@Juliyan23 (600)

• Indonesia

7 Sep 12

It is nice to have a very special friend that could accept you the way you are

Yes, maybe I just need to wait in line to have someone like that. Lucky you, Bhabycatch013

Have a wonderful day

celticeagle

@celticeagle (158485)

• Boise, Idaho

7 Sep 12

You're right! We do only go through this life once. Hardship and trials are hard to go through unless we have good support systems to help us through. Crying is actually of great help. Helps us to release the frustration, hurt and pain that life does tend to deal us at times. After tears we feel much better. After the rain there are rainbows.

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feel much better

good support system

release the frustration

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi celtic, Crying doesn't mean we are weak there are times we need to release our emotions through tears. thanks for the response happy mylotting

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celticeagle

@celticeagle (158485)

• Boise, Idaho

10 Sep 12

No, crying doesn't mean we are weak. It is healthy to release our emotions whether man or woman. Happy Mylotting to you too!

Jane

@jaiho2009 (39142)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

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Jane

@jaiho2009 (39142)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

Shall I join you crying?

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Jane

@jaiho2009 (39142)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

of course I am more than Superman...because I AM SUPERWOMAN

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

thanks Jai I know you are more than Superman who always around

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Jenny1015

@jenny1015 (13366)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

I try to see things that way too. I lot of negative thoughts do come in my mind sometimes because of the difficulties that I experience everyday. But talking to God sometimes relieve me from pain and worry. It just seems to be the most powerful medicine.

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life

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi jenny, I agree with you though I am not very religious one I still believe nothing is impossible with him thanks for the response happy mylotting

fatlex06

@fatlex06 (895)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

Problems and trials will always be part of our lives. We can't do anything about that. But it's how your going to carry the baggages in you. You don't have to suffer from problems that you have ow because it will be gone in the future. And like what you have said, after tears, there will always be happiness, laughter and joys. It's always okay to cry but not just the exaggerated and too much.

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi fatlex, So far I don't cry or howl like animals do Sometimes I just let my tears flow and after that I move on thanks for the response happy mylotting

HULYO

@julyteen (13252)

• Davao, Philippines

8 Sep 12

If you can resist your feelings. That's the time you should cry. I am not a crying man but I cannot guarantee I won't cry if terrible times happened. Like you, I always believe "there's a rainbow after the rain"

cry

HULYO

@julyteen (13252)

• Davao, Philippines

8 Sep 12

almost mabukolan ako. Yayyy

You are right. We are afraid to cry infront of any other people

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

8 Sep 12

hi julyteen, I rather see a man crying than drowning himself into bad activity such as drinking etc. thanks for the response happy mylotting

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

8 Sep 12

Oooopppppsss....bato bato sa langit ang tamaan may bukol

Well i think most men are like that

Jhez

@JHEZ924 (119)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

yes, that's the fact that really hurts... that in those cases, nothing we can do but cry, cry and cry still... problems will not be solved right then but one thing is for sure, you will feel better... and it will be a good start of getting things right. :)

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi JHEZ, Crying can relieve our pain and it is also a big help thanks for the response happy mylotting

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vanny

@vandana7 (98677)

• India

7 Sep 12

That has always been my theory..I used to say ok..today 10 am I am crying, tomorrow 10 am I will be happy so somehow I have to survive from 10.01 to 9.59 of the next day..lol. If happiness didnt materialize, i would convince myself that it is in the bank and like deposits in bank, it is earning interest. I would definitely be able to get it out someday. :)

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi vandana, Well I hope you can find your way out thanks for the response happy mylotting

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annavi23

@annavi23 (6522)

• Philippines

8 Sep 12

there's a rainbow always after the rain... just like the lyrics of the sond goes...

we are just human, born to make mistakes. and every mistake we make, we do learn a lesson. we have to experience sacrifices, hurts and pains to realize things we don't realize before. it helps us become a better person and it is true that crying can help when we don't know what to do anymore. After the crying, we may feel at ease and think positively once again. for we get to know, what to do next. it is good to cry at times, cause we are all human. letting it all out can help us make it through.

annavi23

@annavi23 (6522)

• Philippines

10 Sep 12

yes, but it also depends on what are we thinking before and after the tears had fallen... sometimes, tears can help us learn to realize what we have to do, but then there are people who always stick to being martyr or dumb to doing the same mistake again...

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

11 Sep 12

Yup!I don't know why they can be like this

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

8 Sep 12

hi annavi, Yes we do mistakes and we must learn from it Letting go of our feelings is such a relief thanks for the response happy mylotting

violann

@violann (436)

• United States

7 Sep 12

That is so true, sometimes all you can do is cry, because there are no words to be found. Tears are cleansing and I agree after the tears there is joy and laughter. You also have a great weekend.

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi violann, yup!we must cry once in awhile and we can start smiling again Trials just come and go thanks for the response happy mylotting

enelym001

@enelym001 (8322)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

HI bhaby, If we hold back the tears, it will be very hard to carry whatever problems we have. So crying really helps. Things aren't always good. Road will always be bumpy, we just need to learn how to keep going and find a smooth road to take.

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi en, I agree and it will always be matter of your choice I can't cry all day so I just need to release it for awhile thanks for the response happy mylotting

nupur

@nupur123 (392)

• Hyderabad, India

7 Sep 12

It is good to be strong but crying is not bad. If u feel like crying then u should do it as if u keep ur tear aways then it can lead u to depression and by crying u can release some of ur pain throw tears. so its better to cry when u r alone this will make u feel strong infront of others.

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toxic_lifestyle

@toxic_lifestyle (1213)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

Yeah I agree! There's a point in my life that I've experienced that feeling. I encountered so many problems that gave me so much stressed and in the result, all I can do is to cry because I've lose hope... :)

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi toxic, In every problem there is a solution You can always find way so don't lose hope this is just one bumpy ride in our life thanks for the response happy mylotting

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nupur

@nupur123 (392)

• Hyderabad, India

7 Sep 12

Yes as i also wants to cry because i am very worried about my brother . His bussiness parter dumped him due to which he is real trouble. I cannot cry infront of him as this is the time to be strong .

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

7 Sep 12

hi nupur, Sad to know this and you are right you can be your brother's strength now Hope he will settle everything soon thanks for the response happy mylotting

sarahruthbeth22

@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)

• United States

8 Sep 12

In the past two years I have shedded more tears of joy than in all my life. I finally know I have the right to express my feelings and I do! Sometimes there are tears of joy!

sarahruthbeth22

@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)

• United States

8 Sep 12

Thanks . Have a good weekend!

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

8 Sep 12

ho sarah, Yeah!even me if I laugh so hard my tears comes out but I am happy or If there is a good news thanks for the response happy mylotting

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williamjisir

@williamjisir (22819)

• China

20 Nov 12

When we feel something that makes us sad and heartbroken, there is no need for us to hide our emotion, which does not do good to us. To cry is in fact something that helps release our emotion, benefiting us. Take care and enjoy your life.

then throw back you r shou lders l

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

20 Nov 12

hi william, Crying is good cause we can all release our emotions You do enjoy your life too. thanks for the response happy mylotting

Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163781)

• Garden Grove, California

7 Sep 12

hi bhabycatch013 yes you are indeed wise as sometimes that is all you can do but I cried dried my eyes and surveyed to be happy again twice, once after I lost my beloved husband and three years ago when we were evicted and I had to come here. You cry,then you square your shoulders,.hold 'your head up and you survive then comes some joy and some laughter and you adapt again like you did before.life sure can throw some clinkers in our path but also it throws happy m aking t hings too'so heres to life and joy and happiness and fun to o.

cry

Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163781)

• Garden Grove, California

7 Sep 12

wrong word survived not surveyed darn typos. ugh.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

8 Sep 12

hi hatley, We all come into this phase of our life but we must not forget to smile again after the tears are gone thanks for the response happy mylotting

JamesKYTan

@JamesKYTan (1605)

• Malaysia

9 Sep 12

Hi, After hard work there is reward. So work hard. Of course we work smart too.This is part and parcel of life. If you are born with a silver spoon in your mouth you do not work. Just sit down and enjoy. I believe Bill Gate's children enjoy the fruits of his(Bill"s) labor. I also believe that his children have to prove that they are worthy of their inheretent.

JamesKYTan

@JamesKYTan (1605)

• Malaysia

13 Sep 12

Work hard. If you work for a boss you have to work hard to get promoted. Even though you are a boss you still have to work hard. Bill Gates also works hard. If you don't believe ask him.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

9 Sep 12

hi James, Yup!and I hope everyone can u understand that thanks for the response happy mylotting

asliah

@asliah (11137)

• Philippines

17 Dec 12

hi, yes,that is true in our life is full of sadness and happiness,many problems and trials but of course we need to endure all of them,and sometimes we need to cry it out to release the pain ion our heart even when we are depress,crying is the best to lessen the burden in our heart.

cry

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

29 Dec 12

hi asliah, I think crying is one of the best outlet to release our feelings thanks for the response happy mylotting

Kalyni2011

@Kalyni2011 (3496)

• India

4 Jan 13

Thanks for sharing Honey beti

I agree with what you say, lets forget differences and start a fresh, crying vents out emotions, i too cry at times. Hugs from Maa