Your thoughts just few days prior to your wedding.

It normal to feel emotionally before big changes in life. I'm sure you will be fine(and over the moon) I don't think it will ever happen for me ..I guess I'm getting old for these kind of celebration.

Maybe u should replacethe location to Indonesia. .Lol here the sun still shine hotly There is a `pawang hujan` here when someone want to celebrate marriage. Pawang hujan is a person who have ability to move rain to other place like sea or mountain so the ceremonial can go smoothly

Welcome to club shibham. You have few more days to enjoy your bachelorhood and you'll be signing on the dotted lines to shoulder a heavy responsibility as a husband and soon a father. Prior to my wedding I had mixed feelings of happiness and sadness. Sad because I have to face the untested married life and most of all I have to relinquish the carefree life that I so cherish. Congratulation and hope you have a blessed marriage.

Hi Shibham, Before giving my wishes to you, let me ask, today is September 19, and you are getting marry on 24, where is the invitation card for us. How you forget to invite us. When you fix the date on monsoon season, rain will be there dear. My hubby’s brother’s daughter marriage was on September 2, and you know there was heavy rain Kerala too, and almost 1500 people invited, but everything was arranged in greatly to avoid the inconvenience, giving the decorations and other works to specially talented people. Fortunately there was no rain on the day time on the marriage day. I can understand the frustration since you have to do everything by your own. Why could not arranged a hall, as it is rainy season? Hope the nature will understand your worries and co-operate with you. Best of luck. Wishing you a Happy and prosperous marriage life in advance.

We are lucky the weather that time was with us. No sign for rain coming. The only thing I was not comfortable, due to inconsistency of some preparations. Aside from that I my mother was not their, she passed 3 years ago. She wish to attend my wedding. I felt bad and wondering, how I wish she's there. My tears start to fall down.

Mine was an arranged marriage.The girl was selected by my mother who is no more with us.They had sent a photograph of the girl requesting my mother to show it to me.I saw the photo.She was really beautiful.I had a desire to keep the photo with me,but I kept silent due to my shyness.My mother kept it with her in her suitcase.After that whenever my mother was somewhere in the house talking to someone else,I would take out the photo from her suitcase,watch it with affection,kiss it and keep it in its place.I was so excited that I can't tell you about it.I was very eagerly waiting for the day I would get married.

Was there a reason behind choosing that particular date? I know that the rainy season there should be over soon. Choosing a September date there would be like choosing a January or February one here--except we would possibly have to contend with snow and ice, which would make things a bit more difficult than downpours of rain do. Hopefully, you do get a beautiful day for the ceremony.

hi shibham..congratulation for your wedding..eventhough its raining still you can celebrated your wedding unless its not a storm..according to some beliefs when its raining it means GOd is giving more blessings, maybe GOd give you a wedding bells for your marriage my friend so still be happy even its raining during marriage

Hello there mylotter, first of all Congratulations on your wedding my dear friend. You should not feel frustrated if your wedding day rains. Because it is a "blessing" when a wedding day rains. Rain and not typhoon !Lol! I too got married 16 years ago, and i still remember that during my wedding day, it really rain.. Old folks told me that if your wedding day rains it means a lot of blessing. And i believed that because having a responsible, understanding husband, loving and kind children are a blessing that God gave to me. I got married 20th september and still blessing pours... God bless.

Shibham beta I am aware of it, and i have saved a copy of the invitation card that you shared in face book One thing i tell you, if you have licked out completely, any sweets served in green leaf during your early days, then rain is sure during the marriage feast, i am not scaring you BEST OF LUCK AND WISH YOU A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE[i][/i]

I not get this chance to feel some before marriage because my marriage is performed with in 10 days. No time for thinking anything only shopping and preparation. I not think anything about my husband or my family members because full time busy in shopping and preparation. We have only 10 days and I think 10 days not sufficient for preparation.

hi shiby, You should have alternative ways for it I mean plan B since the weather is not good Well let's just hope for a good weather on your wedding day best wishes

few days before our wedding i can't remember me being worried with anything. may be it hasn't sink in on me what will happen on the big day. maybe because i was still busy with checking every supplies we needed. i understand how you feel having a wedding on rainy days and celebrating it outdoor. that must be a risky one but i do hope that the sun will shine. anyway raindrops are a sign of blessing but hopefully it wont pour much. congratulations in advance. have a sunny wedding day!

thank you for your good post!

Congrats on your wedding As long as the two of you get to make you life long promise with your vows in front of God then everything will be great! I am sure everything will work out.Is there a possible way of moving the celebration indoors?

I hope everything goes as you wish it to. It is one of the most important days of your life. You are learning one part of marriage right now--that is, you must overcome adversity with your eyes on your goals together. My thoughts a few days before my wedding were rather full of panic. Once we made the decision I began to think of all the big changes in store for us both. I was happy, of course, because I was madly in love with him but it was also such a big change in my life that I was scared, too. I hope it all comes together in a good way on your wedding day! Will you be sharing a wedding picture with us?

I have heard of a lot of people wondering whether they are making the right decision in the couple of days leading up to their marriage. I would always say that if you're not sure if he is right for you, then you're certainly making the wrong choice, because you shouldn't even have to be thinking about it. If you're comfortable with your decision, and you're looking forward to the wedding, then a much better thing to think about would be whether the weather would be okay, and whether the photographs would turn out looking good for you.

Hi shibham, Why thinking so much? Cover your yard and hire two/three cooks - in one portion you can orgnaise the stage for wedding and in one corner let them party...... Hope your worries will be wash away before the d day.... enjoy and have a great time. Congrats once again..

shib, Advance Marriage wishes to you. Enjoy your married life a lot. Don't worry, the rain will stop soon and you will see the sun, it don't take a long time for purchase, surely you will celebrate your marriage in a good manner and it will become the unforgettable day to every one. I don't have more thoughts before my marriage, in fact days are moved very speedy during my marriage time

First of all,give my best wish to you and have a happy marriage. And I think the most happy time for the marriage is not the marriage date but those days before it.You are preparing and looking forward to it,I think the mood full of anticipation is amazing,so pls enjoy your prepare time,best wish again.