Good people are boring!
@allknowing (153530)
India
16 responses
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
I don't know because all my friends and people around me are bad ones
Honestly- who are righteous then?
Even the righteous ones are prone to make mistakes.
Who can stand and say that he/she never did something wrong or been bad once in his/her life?
As long as we know our limitations and we never kill people to achieve something- life must go on
Honestly- who are righteous then?
Even the righteous ones are prone to make mistakes.
Who can stand and say that he/she never did something wrong or been bad once in his/her life?
As long as we know our limitations and we never kill people to achieve something- life must go on
@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
You are one lucky person having so many bad people around you. Must be having a great time arguing, debating, finding fault, correcting them....

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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
Oh well, I ignore them.
I don't have time to argue with nonsense matter 



@allknowing (153530)
• India
11 Nov 12
That is the best thing to do - not to have any one to bother with!

@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
oh, yes, i'm one of those boring people in the sense that i did not experience serious hardships, but at the same time, not very adventurous either even if i have the freedom to do so. that's how i'm different from my siblings.
that's why now when i'm out, i don't hesitate to talk to strangers, say if we're together waiting for something, or even to common workers like salesladies, cashiers, maintenance and messengers, because i get to learn things from them.
i know it's never the same as going through them yourself, but at least you have an idea and get practical tips or a glimpse into the lives of other people and their character.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
I know what you mean. You are the odd person out in a group where there will be problems and issues discussed and they will find you boring there as your life is simple and smooth
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.@allknowing (153530)
• India
11 Nov 12
Getting into a discussion has its own hazards in that your view point may not be acceptable leading to arguments and if you are willing to go through that then you are a bad person!
by my definition!
by my definition!@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
not always. sometimes, because you're the only one who doesn't know, you get to see things differently, ask great questions that livens up the conversation, or give good observations that they never realized. and for that reason, it also seems to make you a good adviser because of that outsider viewpoint.

@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
10 Nov 12
I am sometime consider the bad one when people get to know me but I think I am the good one lol . I dont like to argue but I am always willing to if it mean making a change for the better .
When in a business group I enjoy playing the devils advocate , I like to see changes taking place and I like to argue that change but you have people that want everything to be the same and I find that boring and non progressive but I also have to argue on those sides sometimes.
I think everyone have their own mistake in life , but the difference is how they handle it . Some people share everything with their friends and cry in self pity while others take control of what happen and the responsibility. I dont consider them to be boring , I consider those people to be strong and independent .
I cant take friends that always nag about the same problem and never do anything to change it.
Where more than one is gather , their will be argument ,and disagreement again its how its handle that make the difference .

@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
10 Nov 12
I am a little of both , I play the role I feel fit the situation . I am bad when I must.
I am good but I am not boring I am a mixture . I am like the powerpuff girls , sugar! spice! and everything nice 

@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
Make up your mind Silver. Are you bad or are you good or are you between the devil and the deep sea!?
But rest assured a little bit of bad in you will make you an interesting person and I am sure you will not bore anyone. We need that little naughtiness around us to add spice as it were!
But rest assured a little bit of bad in you will make you an interesting person and I am sure you will not bore anyone. We need that little naughtiness around us to add spice as it were!
@pals101 (2003)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
On the contrary, I beg to disagree, Not all good people are boring. I have a lot of friends who are good person but they know how to handle humors and jokes. It's part of our life..
And also, I don't believe in what you say about people "who never make mistakes", there are no such people.. People makes mistakes from small things to large ones, either you are good or bad person, everyone makes mistakes. The point is how you handle those mistakes and take it as part of your lives. 

@pals101 (2003)
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
This is what we called as "Pride". Deep inside they have this character, not to be need by anyone or not needing anyone. But this kind of attitude will not last long, for sure the day will come when they will surely ask help from persons whom they truly trust. Just pray for them...
. Our Lord has planned for them. 

@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
The kind of good people I have in my life will never argue, never ask for favours, never want help. They will agree with whatever is said. Too sweet to my liking!


@Dominique25 (9460)
• United States
10 Nov 12
I would actually have to disagree with you. I have a lot of friends who are good and aren't boring. I also know a lot of acquaintance who would be considered the life of the party and their life looks to be very complicated, dramatized, and unfullfilled. It just depends on the individuals.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
11 Nov 12
So you do not agree with me. I like people who offer me an opportunity to debate and discuss and that is what myLot site tells us to do - discuss! When I say good people it is those who stay away from trouble as being part of their character. They play no role in livening up a debate or discussion and therefore from my point of view they are boring!

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@allknowing (153530)
• India
11 Nov 12
I don't agree with you
Debates are not a waste of time. I remember I was made a judge at a debate and I had gone there with my set thoughts but a particular participant was so convincing that I changed my thinking. No doubt she got the first prize. Debates are meant to convince those who think differently. And to do that they have to be effective and at times even raise their voice. The goody goody people will not be able to do that!
Debates are not a waste of time. I remember I was made a judge at a debate and I had gone there with my set thoughts but a particular participant was so convincing that I changed my thinking. No doubt she got the first prize. Debates are meant to convince those who think differently. And to do that they have to be effective and at times even raise their voice. The goody goody people will not be able to do that!
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@Dominique25 (9460)
• United States
11 Nov 12
Yeah mylot is a great place. I enjoy it as well. Staying away from trouble is a good thing. Just because a person stays away from trouble doesn't mean they wouldn't be up for a debate or discussion. To a lot of "good" people they just feel it would be a waste of time to debate things. In general when people debate it is just that-a debate. No one really changes their mind and are set in their own ways so nothing gets accomplished. In that way "good" people are intelligent. They don't waste their precious time and use it for more purposeful pursuits.

@Life11211 (452)
• India
14 Nov 12
Hi,
You know everything so well, (i loved your user name, as completely sync with you)
100% agree with your discussion as good people are so boring.
In our house sometimes discussion goes on for TV Serials, and they say, now this new character is very very bad, so i tell them, if everything is good, then you will surely switch of your TV as what other they can show in the serials, if they keep showing only goody goody things, they need negativity so that positivity wins over negativity and with each bad character, or new twist and turn serials goes for another year.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
14 Nov 12
That user name was more to mock at me as one day I was arguing (bad person you see!
)as though I knew everything!
You are agreeing with me so readily. Does it mean that I am interacting with a good person?
)as though I knew everything!
You are agreeing with me so readily. Does it mean that I am interacting with a good person?
@Life11211 (452)
• India
15 Nov 12
I considered myself very boring, which you have observed the way i interacted with you till today. (lol)

@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Nov 12
I think they must be bored as well as boring. You have to take chances in life to grow. I find that the people who claim to never make mistakes often have never done anything challenging either.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
These good people are too scared to even opine for fear of getting into a debate or argument. They adopt the line of least resistance and with this attitude one cannot expect them to be interesting. I have met such people in my life and therefore can confidently make this statement!

@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
11 Nov 12
Well I can say my life is not boring at all because I have The good,The bad and The ugly! and it's make a very interesting mix there is always an argument going on[ friendly]which add spice to our life...we tend to mix every thing, politics,religion,education and languages...I tell you our get together are always fun boredom have no place in our group.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
11 Nov 12
Good that you have a perfect mix that ensures a boredom free life!
@allknowing (153530)
• India
11 Nov 12
These good people in an effort to remain that way miss the fun of being bad!
Who wants to be good Jen. I love that freedom of being able to make mistakes, argue, debate - its so much fun and I see that you too belong to that category!
Who wants to be good Jen. I love that freedom of being able to make mistakes, argue, debate - its so much fun and I see that you too belong to that category!
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
Yeah! That could be true. We need a little bit of spice in our daily life to make each day exciting and something to look forward to. Even when things seem to be a routine, we want something to change that course. So definitely, we need some distractions some time to stimulate our minds!

@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
And what better way to change and add that spice than by debating, disagreeing, having differences of opinion.....
. Here in myLot if you differ then you are given a minus rating. Funny users, really!
. Here in myLot if you differ then you are given a minus rating. Funny users, really! @natliegleb (5173)
• India
10 Nov 12
ya for sure after some time it will be so boring even to talk and chat with them

@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
You agreed with me and so you are a good person. You did not want to argue with me!

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@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
10 Nov 12
Hi allknowing! So you mean natliegleb is boring?
@ nat: peace!


@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
10 Nov 12
Have you ever found and was able to interact with such kind of people already? I mean those who do not make mistake? A person maybe good but it does not necessarily mean that he/she does not commit mistake.
Have a nice day!
@allknowing (153530)
• India
11 Nov 12
There are tons of them! They will stay away from trouble specially when there is a heated but interesting debate going on. myLot I am sure would welcome those who would be ready and willing to have such discussions. That is what myLot is all about

@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Nov 12
Hi friend, good people are not boring, but it is really hard to see a person without any mistakes and faults, "To Err is human", so every person did some mistakes in their life with or without their knowledge and learned a lesson from it, they will become good after realizing their fault and this kind of persons will guide others based on their experience.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
So you are advising me and having an argument with me. Welcome to the fold of bad people!

@Sindelle (824)
• United States
11 Nov 12
I could see how people with faults are a little more interesting in some respects however I don't feel that good people are boring. You can not make mistakes or need advice but be absolutely hilarious. Also sometimes people have hobbies and talents that make them interesting. Some examples would be acting, painting, and singing.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
11 Nov 12
Honestly they are a misfit in this wild, wild world, Sindelle. May be they are talented but just going on the stage or having an art exhibition will not make them interesting. Mixing and mingling is not possible if one is faultless. Also dealing with 'good' people is like walking on egg shells - the prim and 'propah' kind I mean!

@Professor2010 (20156)
• India
10 Nov 12
I don't agree; good people are never boring
Rather they make our life happy and peaceful; there are tons of bad people who make life 'hell' not only for us, but for themself..
Arguments, disagreements are like little salt in sweet foods, they make it more tasty
Rather they make our life happy and peaceful; there are tons of bad people who make life 'hell' not only for us, but for themself..
Arguments, disagreements are like little salt in sweet foods, they make it more tasty
@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
You don't agree? Then you are a bad person!
These good people will say yes to everything so that they do not hurt anyone. You are absolutely right.[i]Arguments, disagreements are like little salt in sweet foods, they make it more tasty
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These good people will say yes to everything so that they do not hurt anyone. You are absolutely right.[i]Arguments, disagreements are like little salt in sweet foods, they make it more tasty
[/i]@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Nov 12
These good people will never want to take risks and those who do not take risks could be quite boring.














