Anyone admire or have a crush on someone at MyLot??

Valdosta, Georgia
December 14, 2012 11:00am CST
I love one person here, not like I would cheat on my husband or anything. LOL. I just think he is a great person and I love talking to him here. Have you ever had someone you admire here or do you have a crush on someone here at MyLot? Shhh, we won't tell! Lol.
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
14 Dec 12
Well, I've made a lot of good friends.. but they're all female. I've honestly never met anyone online that I had a crush on.. but I've pretty much been married since before the internet was so popular.
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@sriroshan (2585)
• India
7 Jan 13
I have many male friends here at Mylot and on other social Networking site, but having crush on another person - it's never comes to mind. It may be because I love my husband and children.
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
Me too, I am so grateful for MyLot! I love it here. =) I have met so many awesome friends here. And I met my husband online too. Lol. I have a crush on a certain Lamb/Grinch!
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Dec 12
I think there is a long queue for that one
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
So your keeping yours a secret then? Hmmm...
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Dec 12
I don't see where you mentioned yours here either
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
Very good point... I will you mine if you tell me yours!
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
Hmmm...not sure if I have any crushes here but definitely admire some, and not in that way I believe, but if I did, I wouldn't dare say...My girlfriend might be stalking here again and I'd be out of this site for a long time again. (I wonder if people could still remember that fateful day) But knowing yours is simply refreshing...was actually wishing it was me instead...
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
A special place in your heart sounds very good to me. Likewise! I definitely admire you and appreciate your friendship along with many others here. Don't worry, as soon as I develop a crush on somebody here, I'll be back to this discussion and update you.
• United Arab Emirates
14 Dec 12
Whoa, Choybel and other guys with stalking girlfriends, how cruel can that be; that a virtual world like Mylot still gives people troubles at home. Though, it quite easy to understand, why insecurity is a major problem, with so much news we are hearing of how twitter, facebook and other dating sites are helping single find real love in virtual relationships.
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
I absolutely admire you 100% choybel. You are a great friend here to me and I appreciate you so much! You have a special place in my heart. =) I wish more of you would tell me your crushes, but I understand that you can't because of your girlfriend, I don't want you to lose her over it! And I definitely don't want you to leave MyLot!
• United States
14 Dec 12
What a hysterical discussion! You guys are having wayyyyy tooooo much fun here and I really don't want to intrude, lol!..just kidding of course. I did at one time...not so much a crush, but someone I really, really enjoyed talking to and for some reason "cared about?"...how strange it was. You wouldn't know who he was so no sense mentioning names, and he's been gone for a very long time. I do miss him though and still wish he was here to chat with. But, I was a young chick back then, only 59!
• United States
14 Dec 12
LMB....I can tell you're having a BLAST!!! This is one of the funniest discussions I've seen here on the lot. Now you KNOW I was only messing with you when I said I didn't want to intrude..that was just a joke. I would intrude anywhere here on myLot and you should know that by now! I wish they were still here too...he was just a lot of fun and very intriguing I must say. A lot of the people who have been here for a long time would probably remember him. Shynepapin...Why thank you! I know I'm not intruding and I said that as a joke so I guess I did add some humor, lol! He has been long gone for many years, but was lots of fun to talk to. He had quite a few friends here so I wasn't the only one who liked him a lot. He was one of my first friends back then six years ago.
• United Arab Emirates
14 Dec 12
@Kash, A young chick at only 59; quite desirable for a long of young men out here or there, LOL. You are not intruding, you are only adding humor, this discussion and with people who are highly conversational when it comes to Mylot are making my night. Nothing to do and more so it puts a stipend in our pockets. @Kash, I really do wish you can catch up with him soon, he must be missing you too, or else he is a jackass, which he is not.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
We are having a BLAST!! No intrusion of course kashmeresmycat! Your always welcome here. Aw, that is so cute that you felt that way about someone here! I wish they were still here so you could enjoy their company. I feel that way about Lamb, I care so much about him and I enjoy every minute I get discussing things with him here...I am glad you understand how I feel. =)
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Dec 12
not telling
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Dec 12
maybe somebody else will drop in and spill the beans
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
I know there's plenty of us that want the Lamb/Grinch around here...
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
Y'all are killing me! Someone has to tell me something!
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@AidaLily (1450)
• United States
14 Dec 12
Lol. What a fun discussion. I can admit I have a little crush on someone here, surprisingly not female. XD. However, I can assure you that it isn't the same as yours but I love talking to this person in discussions and more when they are on. Not telling though. :P
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
Isn't it though? I am loving it! Lol. You have to tell me, the suspense is killing me from everyone! I told everyone mine, ugh this is SO unfair! Tell me, tell me, tell me!! Please! I have one other crush who is also a female but she is with someone...Lol, shhh don't tell anyone but its... Nah, can't tell!
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
Well it was you...until...I thought you were mad at me in one discussion... So, I had to find a new crush!
@AidaLily (1450)
• United States
14 Dec 12
See now I am curious about the female. Lol. I was curious about the one in your main post, but I figured that out through reading the discussion. I will say they are older than me which isn't hard. I am about to be 25 on Monday. Now the suspense is killing me. That is unfair. lol
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
14 Dec 12
No crush....but some very special people I feel like I know inside and out.....and it makes my visit here everyday just even more fun!
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• United Arab Emirates
14 Dec 12
Same as me, really haven't seen one that might be that special one because it might lead somewhere else, a show stopper.
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
Yeah there are some amazing people here that I feel super close to here! =)
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
i never really thought of this.. hmmmm let me think ok? lol
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
I am a bit curious, too.
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 12
Ok think and definitely get back to me when you think of who it is!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
Yes, I do... But I won't tell
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
lemme think.. Guess I forgot the username already
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
AAAHHHH! You HAVE to tell me! PLEASE!?! I have to know... Lol. I told everyone mine, please please please! Okay your making me beg here!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 12
You did NOT forget! You have to tell me...please! Everyone knows mine now. Spill the beans!
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
15 Dec 12
Hi lovingmybabies I have honestly loved every friend I have on my friend-list here just as my friends in real life. Almost all of them have taught me something or the other and that is what I admire in all of them. I read through all the discussion here. It was really great to know many things. But yes, I would not deny I admire a few lotters more - Our Dear Ms Hatley - she has always been so very loving, caring and I admire her because at her age, she is still so very active here at MyLot and even in real life. Then, there is our MysD - she has been one of the pillars here at MyLot. Wonder where many newbies would have been if she wasnt around with her sage discussions and suggestions. Then there is a lotter by the name - HardworkingGurl - been inactive for so many months, but I miss her really. She was a great lotter and I learned from her, that despite all odds, if you want to fight back, you can always do so. And I cannot miss mentioning Saphrina - She was my first friend here (after the one who referred me this site) and she helped me overcome the fear of using Emoticons. As I said, I have a long list if people whom I love and admire
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
15 Dec 12
As I said, I have a long list if people whom I love and admire. A safe way of escaping from calamities
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
15 Dec 12
#Sreekala: Didi, I was just mentioning some of the lotters whom I think LMB knows about
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
14 Dec 12
Hey this is something good news you have given us. I too like some person comment they write on my post and other members post, but never think like to have a crush on them as such. I knew to have a crush on someone you need to spend lots of time online which I do not have. Any way I like sharing your feeling here. Good luck my friend and all the best.
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@sriroshan (2585)
• India
7 Jan 13
And it should be secrete only since otherwise it will come to know to all members here. Any way I am sure you must had the crush on the right person
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
Lol, I do have a crush on someone here. And so do many others but they won't tell me who it is!
• United States
14 Dec 12
I have lots of people I admire. I really like SpikeTheLobster. He has been gone a long while but I saw him the other day and I was so glad to see him. I have lots of female friends here that are like sisters to me. One such sister friend lives in Germany. She sent me a beautiful cat devotional and a dog devotional. They are beautiful and uplifting.
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• United Arab Emirates
14 Dec 12
Spike is one of those amazing people here on Mylot, likewise MYSD and you too Pointless. You have made some serious discussion with very elaborate viewpoints and humor. I am looking up to be like you all, be prominent and as clear as you all have been in discussions. Mylot, way to go.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
I like Spikethelobster too! I have not seen him around in SUCH a long time! I miss him. I have lots of friends here too and I love them! =)
• United States
14 Dec 12
Thanks so much Shy. Yes, I love Aunt D, and Aunt Hatley. These are dear to my heart and I consider them family.
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
14 Dec 12
Gosh stop talking about me (no need to lie, and tell everyone I'm a man so they wont judge you ). I can't saay I have a crush on anyone here on MyLot though.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
Everyone here knows I swing that way ricki, might wanna be careful what you wish for! If you didn't know, you do now! LOL. =) Your sure you don't have a crush on anyone??
@blogandme (379)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 12
i have read your discuss, and i think, i found lot of happyness with each other here.. ^_^
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Dec 12
We have found a ton of happiness here! =)
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Dec 12
hi Lovingmybabiers a nd also I got my really good lau gh of the night from Bogandme. ha ha ha ha. I will never look at myh old shoes the same.
@matersfish (6306)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I can't say I admire anyone, at least in the sense that I'm taken aback or anything like that. But I can make a LONG list of people whom I wanted to reach through the screen and smack. Baiters, cowards, liars, nitpickers, grammar Nazis, the guys who REPEATEDLY tell you that you DID or DIDN'T say something that not only do you KNOW you said, BUT THERE'S PHOTOGRAPHIC PROOF RIGHT ABOVE THEM!!! These people I loathe. They're scum in my estimation. They use different tactics to "win" an argument on a site like this, my guess is so they can feel better about themselves. But I highly doubt they'd even open their mouths in a public setting with that type of hogwash. Yeah. Plenty of people I genuinely want to punch in the teeth. One guy even said "If you say that again, I'll come there and we will fight." Umm. Okay. Friend me and I'll shoot you a PM with my addy and pay your bus ticket in. Subject quickly changed. So, does crushing someone's nose count as a "crush"? If so, I have a list of about a dozen to drop -- the tools who are purposefully dishonest and intentionally belligerent because they cannot argue their way out of a wet paper bag.
• United States
16 Dec 12
Nah. My list is built mostly from the religious and political section. I'm okay with disagreeing or arguing. But once someone lies and says "you didn't say blank" when I KNOW I said blank, because blank is listed directly above them, I just want to playfully put my fist through their face. It's purely on principle. If what someone is saying is truth and principled, they should not have to lie. The fact people lie blatantly, stand by it, and then continue to repeat it, just says to me that they deserve to be pummeled in real life for being genuinely bad people. It's my favorite kind of crush!!
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 12
oh no! You have a lot of people you don't like around here... I hope I am not on that list! I don't ever remembering any problems with you and I. Well that is a different kind of crush but that will work.
@allknowing (130064)
• India
15 Dec 12
I too have a crush on someone here but he totally ignores me!
@allknowing (130064)
• India
16 Dec 12
Poor guy. How will he know I silently admire him. So let it be. I like it that way!
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 12
I want to know who your crush is and why does he ignore you??? That's not nice. Maybe he needs a time out! Or a spanking?
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
23 Dec 12
Well, there are a few girls I have or had a crush on here and on other sites. But is it really necessary to mention names or nicknames? I think we all like some people we interact with everyday on MyLot and other sites as well. I really enjoy talking to all of you. But I do, like someone here. I will not mention names. But it is only a crush and nothing more. I have a girl friend and love her very much. Also you have to remember that we can grow feelings for people we interact with. It seems only normal and we are only human.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
23 Dec 12
I know. But I also know deep down you would like to know who it is. LOL. But I just don't want them to know if you know what I mean. This is a fun discussion and I read a lot of the responses. This was a good choice for a discussion.
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Jan 13
How about you tell me through messages here? Just saying...it would be private that way! Lol. Its your choice though...
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Dec 12
Well of course you don't have to mention names if you don't want to. It was just a fun discussion is all. I understand, crushes are just crushes nothing more and nothing less...
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@Orson_Kart (6114)
• United Kingdom
15 Dec 12
Damn! I thought it was me, and I now am crushed (again) to find out it isn't! There are a few people on mylot I admire, but I don't think I have a crush on any one person. Depending on the time of day/month or mood, I find myself more than a little attracted to a number of females on mylot. Your cousin is rather tasty, though I haven't officially been introduced yet. Which just goes to show how shallow I am. lol
• United Kingdom
15 Dec 12
Crushed again! You sure know how to hurt a guy. So why exactly is your cousin OFF limits? *rubs chin and goes off in search of said cousin*
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 12
Shhh, your not supposed to tell our secrets Orson! And my cousin is OFF limits, you cannot cheat on me with her!! Shoot, hope the Lamb doesn't find out...
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• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Dec 12
Your my first love here Lamb...
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
16 Dec 12
I admire lots of people here on Mylot. I always liked HWG who is inactive these days. I always learned many things from her. I feel sad and impatiently waiting for her to come on to site.
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Dec 12
I admire a ton of people here too. I miss hardworkinggurl so much. I think we all do! Everyone that knew her misses her now.
@mutchy126 (317)
17 Dec 12
I don't.
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Dec 12
Well I am sure you will find a crush here one day.