I fall in love with a Gay .......never trust your webcam ^_^

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39182)
Philippines
January 10, 2013 12:32am CST
I just posted my first discussion today and suddenly a chat box from Facebook popped up. (That's the reason why I was not able to respond to my first discussion on time) A friend then asks me to accept the video call from Facebook so we can talk easily. Then he was laughing that hard and I was like "hey, did you ask me to watch you laughing like crazy"? He said..."sorry my dear, I just can't help it- I was scammed" (oh really?) Okay, here's what happened to my friend. He meets someone from the net and for many days they're chatting like there's no tomorrow. He said, the girl looks so hot with angelic face with a matching tempting bumper (chest). They've been chatting for a month and he thinks he's falling in love with her so he ask the girl if they can meet in person (the soonest possible time) The girl says a lot of alibis (for many times) and my friend become suspicious. He did some "detective works" and he found out that the girl is not a lady . Gezzz, now he said, never ever trust webcam. And I told him..."serves you right" How's your weekdays dear mylotters [u]jaiho® forever [/u] 1-10-2013 2:31pm Thursday PT
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27 responses
@julyteen (13254)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Jan 13
I think he is immature person. If you are a clever you can easily detect those individual who make a disguise about their gender. Better my webcam has a gender detector For me it's a funny experience he got. Next more careful in having a special friend online.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hello july, I don't think my friend is immature. See how lovely and pretty those lady boys compared to other girls. Who can never be fooled anyway. What makes me wonder is... " do I really look like a guy on webcam" (just kidding) I agree, some people look very pretty on camera and looks different from real/and in person. What more on webcam. And yah- let's install webcam with gender detector, you got it man
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@julyteen (13254)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Jan 13
I have this school mate during high school, I knew him a gay but after 10 years not seeing him, wow! she looks great She looks perfect but still I can determine him as gay even he looks 98% woman.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
That is given that you surely will recognize him since he is your friend. But for transgender you haven't met in your life or you didn't know before- that I bet.
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• Jamaica
10 Jan 13
Many people are doing this nowadays. Sadly I hope your friend doesn't wear is heart on is sleeve. because that guy might have been trying to steal from him or something, leading him on. It's sad that many people do it these days. It's the only bad ting about the internet. Oh and viruses
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hello lonie, Those cheaters are worse than the virus I guess my dear (right?) It's really sad that bad people are using the net catching their prey (but what to do) thanks for your comment and have a great day
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• Jamaica
10 Jan 13
Lol In some cases yes :D But the virus can throw my whole life outta balance just by crashing my hard drive :'(. And yes it is pitiful . Shame! Have a great day as well.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
I understand but still a painful life experience is crashing someone's mind and soul that takes time to restore
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@thanks1961 (7036)
• India
10 Jan 13
I just feel like laughing and what else make it better?? hahhaa
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hello thanks, Good heavens, until now I can't stop laughing thinking about it. I told my friend "go and keep on fooling yourself" He even told me that "You look like a guy on webcam, so maybe you can try and fool other girls too" and I said... " I wish to kill him right there"
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• India
10 Jan 13
We really needed some funny moments to laugh and this is the way it comes up. Good fun, though it hurts someone, but let it be... what???
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
Oh well- yes. There's so many stories to tell from the net. I prefer the funny ones and avoid the sad stories (I have had enough) so please I want to laugh my heart out
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@SIMPLYD (90956)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
It's good that your friend took the "scam" with a grain of salt. Others would get angry if that happened to them. Anyway, nowadays we can never trust the net specially when chatting on it. You never really know if what the other person is saying are true. But true enough that you can see his/her face on the webcam, but it's still not that reliable as to the real personality of the person. So, how did he found out that she's a gay, jaiho?
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hello D, My friend try to add some of his chatmate's friends and he sends them a friend request (in Facebook) He befriended them using another account and there he gathered info. He confronted his chatmate and his chatmate revealed the truth. Actually, I told my friend not to get angry with his chatmate, rather try to understand him (it's not his fault being a gay either) Maybe the only mistake this gay ever did is- he cheated my friend instead of telling him he is a guy from the start to avoid this problem. Well...hope everything ends well.
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@SIMPLYD (90956)
• Philippines
12 Jan 13
What a way to cheat and delude a man! I hope it will be well with them after that. So your friend should never rely getting a girl on chat room anymore.
@cupkitties (7438)
• United States
10 Jan 13
Do the people realize how hard much harder they make things for the others who are like them? Too bad that person wasn't honest from the start about who they are. If your friend was really falling for them maybe something could have developed or at least they could have had a closer friendship.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
hello kitties, I agree, if only s/he had told my friend about the truth from the start, maybe they could have ended with a different story. My friend is not disappointed that she is a he- he found it funny because he didn't notice about it. My friend is not against those gays- he has also had gay friends. Thanks and have a great day
@jagjit273 (1753)
• India
10 Jan 13
I was also involved in an internet relationship , but thanks god , that was a girl. But later on we could not continue with the relationship as l was more truthful than usual. So she left me. I felt very hurt at first and even cried . But now i made up my mind never to go for such relationships.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
hello jagjit, Sorry to hear that you've been hurt and been in such situation. It's hard to trust people on the net, what more to have a relationship or fall in love with someone from the net. I never recommend you to try it again- but I am sure not everyone is a fake. There are success stories of internet love that I know. Thanks and have a great day
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hi jai, We know that in net world everyone can be whoever they want At least mine are real miss yah
@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
at least I know you are real....real woman miss you toooooooooo
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
That's a funny one, thank you for bringing it up, it made me laugh. :D
@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
hello ax, My pleasure- at least this made your day and enjoy mylotting
@enelym001 (8323)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
Hi jai That's too bad... but good that they did not meet or else he'll be disappointed. I have fallen in love with gays too. One when I was in HS. I had a crush on him I didn;t know he's a gay lol. He doesn't know it, he's still a friend in Facebook and he is still cute but gay.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
dear en Actually I admire the other person- maybe he is not really a cheater. He just fear that maybe my friend will say hurtful words once he came to know that he is a gay- so s/he prefers not to meet him in the first place. Maybe s/he is just waiting for the right time to reveal his real identity- but it happens that my friend found it first. Anyway, thanks again for being here and take care always
10 Jan 13
ha ha! that's really funny! well, better luck next time and better be sure it's the real one, many now a days have those things and very misleading most of the time not unless they speak or see the whole thing
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
hello ino, It sounds funny and I am thankful that my friend looks it that way. I rather want him to laugh than to curse the other person. Maybe my friend finds it funny because he was cheated by the looks. Thanks and have a great day
@yoniarnon (1081)
• Israel
10 Jan 13
Lol actually from hearing it from the side it sound a fnny story, i hope you toke it easy..
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
hello yoni, It's my friend who has this experience Thanks and have a great day
• China
10 Jan 13
Thank for for sharing an interesting story with us.True,now someone registers the fake information and download the unreal photos on the website.It is even so hard to tell if the gender of the person we talk online. Have a nice day.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
hello sunshine, Yeah, some people are using fake photos and others are using other people's photo. We should not trust people from the net easily. Thanks and have a great day
• India
10 Jan 13
Jane beti You really scared me, so far i have not done video chat in Facebook, i think nothing is private there; well i chat in YM, Skype using cam only, never visited chat rooms, have never met a Gay in real or in net
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hello dada, You know me when it comes to starting topic/discussion. I always made mylotters confused and off the beat hugs to you and maa
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@airasheila (5455)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hi there jaiho2009, i guess this is the consequence of chatting to those people who are not really known to us. it is like ending up to a person whom we really not familiar with. anyway, i don't see anything wrong to fall in love with a gay, as long as the other can accept for what and who you are.
@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hello aira, I don't have anything against with gay people. Actually one of my best buddies is a gay and I have so many gay friends (team mates/officemates) They are lovable person and I like hanging out with them because they're the most positive people that I can count on. Maybe my friend's chatmate is not confident to tell about the truth (so sorry for him-her) Thanks for your comment and have a great day
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@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
I do not like meet gays. I just want to meet only for friends not for love.
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@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
15 Jan 13
Haha, that was funny and sad for your friend. I like the facebook because I can talk to my friends directly without using the phone. There are so many friends online at the same time.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
15 Jan 13
hello sanjay, I am using facebook too and I do not accept request from unknown people. It's hard to determine who are real and who are fake on the net- unless they show themselves on cam. Thanks and have a great day
• India
15 Jan 13
I have more than 400 hundred friends on facebook, but I talk to very less there. It is virtual world, so I have talks with very less people there. I have posted that I am in relation, so there is no point in flirting with anyone there, or anyone flirting to me.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
15 Jan 13
I am not active in Facebook, I only use to check for my friend and loved ones updates. Also to share my article's link.
@Mavic123456 (22027)
• Thailand
11 Jan 13
ouch... don't be deceived by the physical look. that's the moral lesson.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
hello Mavic, I agree, looks can deceive and we should be careful especially dealing people from the internet. Thanks and have a great day
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@Mavic123456 (22027)
• Thailand
12 Jan 13
oh yes.. oh yes.. and maybe the the person on the other end is really so godessly beautiful... ha! that's good for the person who looks more on aesthetic beauty. LOL..
@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
Reminds of the news about a husband who sues his wife after he found out that she gone through surgery
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• Calgary, Alberta
10 Jan 13
I have a feeling that Americans will find the title confusing , cos for them the term Gay is not directed to transexuals and crossdressers, You know they use the term gay for both gay men and lesbians. Well we Filipinos had used this the word for transgendered people. If an American feminine Lesbian woman tell a Filipino that she is gay, the Filipino person will think she is born male and have an operation. Back to the topic, A lot of Transgendered women( or Gays as we Filipinos call them) Look like biological women because they take female hormones before they reached puberty. I remember in Japan there is a Transwoman who became a model in Japan, she became controversial when she revealed her secret. she never had a surgery, she still have male organs but she looks exactly like a natural women.
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• United States
10 Jan 13
Thanks for the explanation. I was thinking " How did he have boobs?" Well, another thing is that not all trans people are homosexual, but can also be hetero, bi, pan, etc.
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• Calgary, Alberta
10 Jan 13
I remember on Tv they showed a "lesbian transwoman" who only dates women, "she" is born a man and finds only women as attractive but wants to live as a woman. she have her wife pregnant before she decided to have the operation, now they live as a lesbian couple.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
hello Capt, I know what you mean, but even in the international news they are commonly/widely known/addressed as "GAY and Lesbians" When I first saw "Kevin Balot"- s/he's so pretty and honestly I am proud of her. Thanks and have a great day
• United States
6 Feb 13
So the dude passed off as a lady? That's sad but now I'm singing in my head Dude Looks Like A Lady from Aerosmith.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
hello WildHorses, Thanks for your comment and sorry for my late response About the topic, it sounds crazy and funny as well. Thanks again and have a great day (^_^)
@suzzy3 (8347)
21 Jan 13
Poor guy.I feel sorry for him.That is the trouble with the net you only have the information they choose to give out.Saying that many people meet the love of their life on line.I suppose it is the luck of the draw tell your friend to put it down to experience and have another go. I truly beleave their is someone for everyone out there just keep looking.The more you look the better chance of meeting someone that suits you.It is a bit funny really.Mind you he will be more caustious in future.
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@jaiho2009 (39182)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
hello suzzy, He learned a lot and I agree he will be more cautious now than ever. It's really hard to trust people on the net. Some are using fake photos and now we can't even trust the cam. Not because we are seeing the real person- but we never knew if the person in front the camera has gone through surgery. Thanks for your comment and have a great day