I am watching this movie....And this is why you shouldn't just cheat.....

@trisha27 (3494)
United States
February 10, 2013 8:51pm CST
With anyone. Because some people can just go crazy and they get obsessed with you and then they will never want to leave even when you try to end the relationship. Well that is why you shouldn't cheat period. But even cheat with just anyone like I said. In this movie, this lady cheated on her husband because he was always away from home working and he never spent time with her. So she found love with this guy that was a plumber. And well she had an affair with him. When she finally decided that she wanted to try and work things out with her husband and let him know that she had an affair. She decided that she was going to end the relationship with the guy. But the guy didn't want to end the relationship with her. He still wanted her and he still wanted to be with her and claimed that he was in love with her. He found out later that she was going to tell her husband what was going on with him. And he was very upset about that and he planned to kill the husband so that he could be with the woman forever. See what I mean by crazy. That is why people can't just cheat with anyone (or cheat period) because when you want to end the relationship that was going on some people will go crazy.
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@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
Yeah Murphy's Law is always applicable when it comes to cheating. "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong." No human is insensitive to that prior to doing it. It's just that they want to follow what their lust tells them. Their lust eventually get them in trouble.
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@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
11 Feb 13
So true when you follow a lust it will get you into trouble and that is why sometime we just should ignore what lust is telling us.So we can stay out of trouble. But some people just can't stay away from temptation. I on the other hand can.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
11 Feb 13
You have to be careful . Someone like that is likely to kill the one he cheated on as well or at least blame her for the crime. By the way, in the movie, did he kill the husband? I want to know how it turned out.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
12 Feb 13
So his scheme backfired. Oops! I wonder if the father-in-law got charged or was it considered justifiable homicide.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
13 Feb 13
Like me. I also want to see what happens next. It seems in some movies, they just have the ending and you do not know what happened to the characters. I guess if the movie showed the whole story, it would be part 1, part 2, etc. and like one of those mini-series or the movies I used see when I was young. They were often about two hours long and you had an intermission where you could eat a small meal or something.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
11 Feb 13
That's crazy. I think it's even scarier that there probably are people like this in real life. At least in this case it was in a movie.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
11 Feb 13
I know good thing it was in a movie, but I think maybe things like this has happened and also things like this could happen. That's why people have to be so careful and in my opinion, just don't cheat period.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Feb 13
hi trisha I agree that it can really get out of hand but thank God I would never have cheated on my hubby as he loved me and I loved him.We both trusted and respected each other. I guess life can mimic movies too lol. or is it movies mimic life anyway cheating can be dangerous.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
11 Feb 13
I'm glad I'm too in love with my hubby to cheat. I wouldn't want to lose him to someone else who could be crazy. and a murder'. And I always make sure I avoid temptation as much as possible. I would never put myself in a situation that would cause me to cheat. I think it is the movies that mimic real life and cheating is definitely dangerous. You never know what you will get yourself into who you are involving yourself with.
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
It reminds of me of the movie of Richard Gere and Diane Lane, I think the title is The Unfaithful, something like that, sorry I forgot. Yes, you are right, we should not cheat with our partners. I'm married and I love my husband even though there are times when I feel so disappointed in him. I still love him and can't imagine myself cheating. I hope he also not cheat on me, if he does, I'd break his fingers, lol! Just kidding! We should not cheat because it's morally wrong. I know there are a lot of cheaters out there, and I am not in the position to judge them because I am far from perfect, no one is perfect, of course!
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
11 Feb 13
Lol, I think if my husband cheated on me I'd break off more then his fingers. Kiddng myself (I'd just kick him to the curb.) Anyways you are so right that we shouldn't judge those that cheat because no one is perfect. I love my husband as well too much to even want to cheat on him. Yeah you are right about the movie, it is called Unfaithful. This movie that I watched was kind of like a play setting and was called What my Husband doesn't know. It was a good play. But you are right as well that no one shouldn't cheat because it is morally wrong.
• United States
12 Feb 13
A movie made you realize why you shouldn't cheat? Glad you're not my girlfriend.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
12 Feb 13
No it didn't take a movie for me to realize that I shouldn't cheat. I knew from a long time ago not to cheat and I don't want to cheat on my hubby anyway, he's too good of a guy for me to do that to him and plus I love him too much. So of course I wouldn't cheat on him. My advice was for other people that they shouldn't cheat those people who like to cheat. Reading your comment made me laugh a little though. No it would never just take some movie for me to realize that doing something not right is wrong.
@celticeagle (159129)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Feb 13
I think it is very important for people to take relationships very seriously. The one she had with her husband was number one. Jumping into another one when a person is on the rebound and not ready really emotionally or mentally can make for chosing someone that is less than a good match.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
12 Feb 13
Relationships take on so many different twists and turns. When we cheat we just throw more fire into the equation. It can spin out of control and take your life in a direcion you never planned on. Cheating is something you cannot take back in a relationship. Take care in what you wish for. You just might get it and lose something even more special to your life.
@spicymary (558)
• Romania
12 Feb 13
I think this movie you are talking about have a wider teaching. It's not even about cheating, but about choosing parteners. The plumber wanted that women forever and couldn't control his feelings. He would reacted in the same way if the woman would've been single and would've decided to end the relationship from other reasons. You say don't cheat because your lover might go crazy when you want to end the affair. I don't agree with cheating, from a lot of other points. But this is not a reason. The husband you want to leave, the boyfriend with whom you want to break up, the friend with benefits from whom you don't want the benefits anymore can do exactly the same thing. You don't have to be a cheater to stir up the ugly part of others. However, trying to choose reasonable partners should be a responsability. But future dangerous behaviors of that partner don't talk about a fault of yours. I mean, threatens with killing or other infringements of the law can't be seen as something else than they actually are. No matter what happened, nobody is entitled to break the law. And no matter what moral issues someone have, if he/she is a cheater or not, this doesn't justify a criminal or violent behavior of somebody else.