spicymary

@spicymary (558)

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Do you answer the phone if you don't know the number or unknown number?

Ricki Dillane @ricki_911 (21625) • Toronto, Ontario 18 Jan 16

I get a bunch of calls and the shelter never changes my number. Well I am not even answering my phone unless I know the number. I am just tired of talking to people and just annoying really. If they know me they know I don't...

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spicymary I don't answer the phone if the number appears as secret. But if is about a number that I just don't know it, yes. Usually it's about something professional, like a call from some company where I applied for a job some time ago. I wouldn't like to not know why...

18 Jan 16

The Perks of Dating Other Nationalities

YoghurtGal @flapiz (23299) • United Kingdom 6 Dec 15

Australia has a pool of very culturally diverse residents. This makes dating more fun and exciting. In my stay here I try to keep my dating choices as diverse as possible. I've dated an Australian, German, American, Irish,...

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spicymary You are right. It did happened for me a few times, and it made me more aware of the cultural thing in general and my own culture in particular. You feel responsible to think about it and give the best answer, to find the differences, to tell the funny stories...

18 Jan 16

Sometimes love is not enough.

Ashley Beukers @thequestioner (83) • Italy 15 Nov 15

I think that somentimes love is not enough, even if two people really love each other. There are some situations in which you can try to work it out, but it's too hard and you need to give up. In your opinion, can a relationship...

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spicymary I think that when you choose a (life) partner, it is important that you two see the world in a similar way. Small differences might be hot, but the big ones can become problems that can't be solved, not even with love. I mean, ok, you have the chemistry and...

18 Jan 16

Do you still believe in love?

Big Money Talk @BigMoney25 (1286) • Philippines 18 Jan 16

After all that I've been through I honestly have doubts whether love is true or not. I mean no matter how much effort you do if your current partner is not for you things will happen that will separate the two of you. I mean I...

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spicymary Love is certainly not an easy concept. Some people believe that love exists, others think that love is impossible. But from what I saw, everybody has a different definition of it. And most of the times, in discussions, I notice that when we talk about love, we...

18 Jan 16

To believe or not to believe?

kotia057 @kotia057 (171) • Greece 9 May 13

I ask my 70 years old granpa to look at his life and say if he is happy with it. "No" he responce without even think about it. Hes not believe in God, he work all his life, he lose his health and basicaly dont earn anything. So I...

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spicymary This is exactly my point when I talk about the reason behind my faith in God. Without a real meaning, something that really matters, like eternity, like a supra-natural plan, life doesn't have any sense. Ok, it may be pleasant, but for what? Than you die, and...

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Having a relationship is all you need in life

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 30 Apr 13

A friend was having this discussion on Facebook, and I found it interesting the number of responses. Now she is single, and very independent, we are just way too much alike. Now about 95% of the responses said you need a...

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spicymary It is indeed a complicated discussion. It depends on many things, but there are also certain patterns. I think that, most of us, really need a family in order to be happy and complete. It may be connected with the feeling that you did something in your life....

30 Apr 13

3 minutes brushing the teeth.. do you really follow??

scubapro @scubapro (1049) • Gifu, Japan 14 Apr 13

whenever we go to the dentist and after doctor checked our tooth, they always give us an advice about it. but do we have to brush our teeth exactly 3 minutes? is it a must? who decide it? by the we all work hard and...

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spicymary This is related to the health obsession of our times. It's almost unbelievable how many things we should care about to increase the chances to be healthy and decrease the chances to have serious diseases. We preserve life and health with so much care, that...

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Being depressed and having a blues in life

alpha9180 @alpha9180 (301) • Malaysia 23 Apr 13

Most of us will occasionally gets the blue or feels sad and down. We normally experience mood changes ranging from feeling happy and content to feeling restless and dissatisfied. Some of these normal shifts in mood are the...

affective disorder

being depressed and having a blues in life

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spicymary Depression it's more intense and last longer. It's also something you can't actually manage, that's why it is an illness. It's not like "I feel a little blue, but I am going to buy new shoes and all will be ok." Depression affects the way you eat, sleep,...

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Why do you love walking?

ihopper @ihopper (97) • Philippines 22 Apr 13

I love walking. It always helps me relax. I would usually choose walking over riding a taxi or a tricycle. Why do you love walking? :)

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spicymary I love to walk too. It helps me to think while I also do something with my body. And I like how the scenary changes and I see different building, different people, different streets. Sometimes I listen to music while I walk, but most of the times I prefer just...

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Is there one true religion?

marsh1elle @marsh1elle (48) 17 Apr 13

I was confused about religions but doesn't mean that I don’t believe them. Are they really true-- the Gods, Goddesses, Lords, Kings and Queens? Or is it only about faith that builds the religion to people? What religion do you...

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spicymary They can't be all true. This isn't religion anymore, it's relativism, which is by definition against religious teachings. We can't know for sure which one is the right one or if there is one to be true. We just believe, according to various reasons, like...

22 Apr 13

Fighting for the one you love

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 20 Apr 13

I'm currently in the type of situation where I'm trying to figure out how I should handle things and how I go about doing something in a certain way as far as relationships go. Early this morning I talked with my boyfriend about...

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spicymary I think guys (but also girls) are afraid that the other becomes desperate in the dating period. They don't like it, because if one becomes desperate, this ruins the seduction game and makes the things go faster, when they should be more slowly. But in a...

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What is are common points that we learn by all of religions?...

sri @gamyam (530) • Hyderabad, India 15 Apr 13

I put trust in all of the religions.... Christians prays for others... it is very nice! Hindus pray for number of gods... The fear of god prevents them not to do bad things... Richest Muslims helps poor people and gives respect...

color of blood

common things

good things in religions

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spicymary Important points are different, no matter how people try to make them look similar, and combine all religions in a single better one. To believe in all relgions is the same as believing in no one. Maybe there is a common point... the opposition to relativism....

15 Apr 13

Go shopping by my own.

jricky1 @jricky1 (6797) • China 14 Apr 13

Sometimes it is quite lonely if i go shopping by my own but i suppose it is funny sometime,i need my own private time but i found it hard to deal with it always alone.So what do you guys think about it and i'm looking forward to...

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spicymary If I want to spend a lot time to just search for something interesting, I prefer to do it alone. When I go with somebody, I easily feel the need for a coffee, and I don't achieve my goal. Also, can be catchy to look for stuff, and I don't feel the need for...

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The Enforcer!!!!

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 12 Apr 13

Holy books have their rules. People think their holy book comes directly from God. Do people feel they should be the Enforcers of these holy books and rules?? Does God really need Enforcers?? Does God really want...

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spicymary I didn't noticed any good change in the process of world development. And it's not about religion here. Also, I don't talk about ages, I am just referring to the period of my life, which is not very long... I see how my freedom diminishes, I see that people...

14 Apr 13

first date... was it an unforgettable experience?

dagami @dagami (1158) • Rome, Italy 13 Apr 13

i have a lady friend who is in her mid thirties, single, with a very high paying job, pleasing personality, etc... her family and friends have been egging her to get married. she wants to have a family, yes of course! if she can...

first date

first impression

long distance relationship

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spicymary I don't think it's about table manners, but about those small things you really hate and that they relly turn you off. I guess everybody have some, and it doesn't matter how small they are, if you look at them rationally. I certainly have :) Also I don't...

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The Enforcer!!!!

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 12 Apr 13

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spicymary It's not about enforcing the teachings... It can be a big discussion here about what religion as a belief system is and which was the destiny of the church. And all facts shouldn't be understood with our modern minds and eyes, but trying to understand also the...

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Does counting calories really work?

Brooke @o2bnocn (2992) • United States 11 Apr 13

I signed up for a website where I can count my calories and according to the plan I will be able to lose weight. It is difficult at times because I don't know exactly how many calories are in something so this website helps a lot....

counting calories

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spicymary I heard that we lose or gain 1 kg (2,2 pounds) at every 3500 calories consumed or accumulated. It may happen in days or months. I never verified this theory, but I think it deserves a chance. It makes weight so much easily to control.

11 Apr 13

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Love thoughts

spicymary @spicymary (558) • Romania 8 Apr 13

Most of us, men or women, say that we want a self-confident partner, one that has personal passions, life, career, friend, one that has his/her own personality. We can't love somebody that is not in the first place a...

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spicymary Everybody knows that he/she has to love oneself. But when those feelings appear, auto-distructive attitudes can be too tempting. They are intense and might be beautiful, so the health of the soul doesn't really matter anymore. It's a difficult challenge to...

11 Apr 13