The First Time In Years...Weird.

Valdosta, Georgia
March 5, 2013 4:07pm CST
My husband is now working for the cab company here, he started tonight. So, he is working the late shift. 5pm-5am. My mother asked if the kids could stay over night tonight because she wants to spend time with them... So, I will be all alone tonight in the house. By myself...... weird. I have not been alone without my kids and husband since I was in the hospital having my youngest daughter 4 years ago, Lol. Empty house, me and the dogs. I have no idea what I will do with myself. I cannot even picture it right now... Looks like you all will be keeping me company tonight.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
6 Mar 13
I know the feeling of being alone at home. I was alone for three years after the evil ex left. It did feel weird. No one there. I was so used to the kids being there. But it took me some time to get used to it. I know how you feel. But the difference is your significant other and children will be coming home. So enjoy you time alone. Relax and MyLot for a while.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
13 Mar 13
Imagine going through that night after night. Thats what I do. It is not a good feeling. But I do call my kids every night and speak to them. But it still is no consolation to having them here like it was before. Consider yourself lucky, believe me.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
I know how it feels to be alone. Good that you're in mylot today, at least you're not totally alone. Take care.
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• India
6 Mar 13
Hehhehe....friend not only mylot but I am also with them because whenever anyone feel alone I jump in their discussion and talking, walking and laughing hehehe....I read a book laughing is the best medicine of any decease.
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
Yeah, it was very strange! I am glad my kids are home with me tonight though. =) I wasn't alone I was with all of you.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
5 Mar 13
From a full house to an empty house! Only seems a few days ago when you had a house full, looking after children and now you find yourself alone! Think of it as quality time to yourself, do things you can't do when you are not alone, and grab this opportunity, maybe to pamper yourself, have a long soak in the bath with no interruptions! That is what I used to do when my partner was out and I had the house to myself, I would unplug the phone so I could relax. Or you could cuddle up on the sofa and watch your favourite movie, again with no interruptions! Enjoy your time alone, use it wisely my friend!
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Mar 13
Yeah, I am used to having a full house! My kids, dogs, my husband and other people's kids too. So this is something very different and strange to me. Lol. I am thinking about taking a bubble bath and doing my nails since I don't get to do those often... I will try to enjoy it and not worry too much about my kids and my husband.
@much2say (53959)
• Los Angeles, California
5 Mar 13
Wow - and I mean WOW. You'll have to have another discussion on your me, myself, and I evening!! My two kids are 8 and 3 . . . and I've never had an empty house to myself for that long in their entire lives. There have been times when hubby took them out for a couple hours during the day - but that's about it - not a whole entire evening. Hee hee - I honestly can't picture it for myself either! If I knew well in advance, I think I would think of something to do to go out. Not necessarily with friends either - it's rare that I go anywhere on my own. Dare I go grocery shopping on a night like that? Hee hee. I just know I would doing something "domestic" like that - or clean up the house. I'm not one to eat candy bon bons and sit in front of the boob tube for hours on end. Hope you enjoy your me time - whatever you decide to do!!!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Mar 13
I know, right?!? Like I said the last time I was alone like this is right after I gave birth and was in the hospital! LOL... I have 3 kids, 7, 5 & 4 years old. Never been alone before like this. I usually have my kids, my husband, dogs and other people's kids here too! It will be SO weird! I think I might take a bubble bath, do some reading, spend a little time here, clean up a little and then go to bed early...Lol, woo hoo I know I should not party so much!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
7 Mar 13
So, how was it? I hope you didn't have any problems overnight. That you were safe until your hubby came back. It's rare that I get to be myself alone at night. When I do, like you, I find myself in front of the computer.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Mar 13
It was okay once I got used to the quiet! Lol. I just watched my favorite show, came here on and off and relaxed. It was nice once I gave it a chance. Lol. But I am glad it is back to normal now. Too much of the quiet would have just been weird! I am happy with the way things usually are. =)
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
5 Mar 13
Well, maybe I company, to you I would keep it willingly! Seriously, it feels strange to find you alone, perhaps because to you, it's never happened before. To me it really like to be alone. Alone with myself, and no one else! I alone do not have accountable to no one. I do what I want (always respecting the etiquette of life!), I eat sleep and no one bothers me. However, know with certainty that there are people, in fact I would say that the majority of people, alone they are sick. I hope that is not for you, the case tonight!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Mar 13
I use to enjoy being alone when I was younger and single. Now that I have a family it is just weird being alone. I guess because I am not used to it anymore. I will be thinking about if my kids are having fun, if my husband is safe at work, etc... But I will try not to worry and enjoy my one night alone.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
6 Mar 13
I remember when I would have given almost anything to have an entire evening to myself, when the kids were young. Pamper yourself. Eat what you want, put on some comfy pajamas, do whatever you want to and don't feel guilty about it!
@peavey (16936)
• United States
6 Mar 13
I understand.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Mar 13
Yeah, I felt that way too before tonight. I didn't think it would ever happen actually I guess. Lol. Now that it has happened it is weird. I am going to try to enjoy it but I realize I would never want to be without my kids and husband for any length of time...
@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
7 Mar 13
I hope he gets enough fares to make a good income. Do your kids enjoy spending time at your mother's? I know a few people who will be here all night.
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Mar 13
He does better working as a taxi driver than he did doing construction! Lol. My kids LOVE going to their grandmas. Usually it is every Saturday night and they go to Sunday School and Church with my mom on Sunday. =) It is a tradition and they miss it if my mom is sick and cannot take them one week.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
9 Mar 13
Welcome to my world. That's how my life is always...no-one but me, the goats, the dogs and the cat. I love it.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
9 Mar 13
Yeah, I know what you mean...you get kinda attached to them. I've been on my own for a long time now and it took some getting used to.
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Mar 13
I used to love being alone when I was younger. There could be a room full of people and I always wanted to be by myself. Now that I have my own family though I miss my kids and husband when they are not around.
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• United States
7 Mar 13
Oh girl! I hope it went ok. What did you do?
• United States
9 Mar 13
I'm glad you enjoyed yourself.
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Mar 13
Once I finally got myself to relax I did have a good night. I watched my favorite show, took a bath and came here on and off. I would not want it all the time but it was a nice change. =)
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
7 Mar 13
Hope you enjoyed it. I'm home alone a lot during the day.. but I haven't been home alone at night in years.
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Mar 13
Once I allowed myself to relax I did enjoy my "me" time. =) I have not had it in years so it was nice. I am still glad it was only one night though.
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Mar 13
I, for one,would be glad to keep you company. I would spend the evening doing things you can't do with all of them there. Turn the tv up or the radio and dance to some music, take a bubblebath or give yourself some spa treatments. Take advantage of it because it may not happen again. And you might have wished you had.
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Mar 13
Quit with the guilty feelings. Just enjoy your time to your self.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Mar 13
=) Thanks celtic! Yeah, I am glad it is only one night. I miss them all already so much. I will try to enjoy it but it's weird without them here...I am not used to being the only person in my house. I am used to having my kids, the dogs, my husband and other people's children here as well. So, having it so empty is very different. Yeah that is true, it might never happen again so I know I should enjoy it while I can. I almost feel like I might feel guilty if I enjoy my time alone...
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• United States
5 Mar 13
Hopefully, your husband will be safe in his job. Driving cab can be risky--especially those drivers who work at night. I'm certain that you shall be fine home alone with the dogs. It is good to sometimes be home without the husband and kids. This will give you a chance to do things without the usual busyness of the household.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Mar 13
I hope he will be safe as well. I cannot do anymore worrying though, I have been worried sick about it because when he gets tired there is no stopping him from sleeping. It scares the life out of me. But I don't want to think about that... I am sure I will be fine too... Just weird since I am not used to it at all.
• United States
6 Mar 13
I feel ya. When hubby started this job and started working nights again it took a long time to get used to sleeping alone. It's creepy by yourself some times and other times it is total heaven
• United States
13 Mar 13
My friend does that, sleeps on the couch when hubby works nights. I would rather my bed and I am used to it now. In fact some nights when he is home I miss having the whole bed to myself... shhhhh
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
Yeah, it was SO weird sleeping alone. Matter of fact I couldn't sleep in our bed because I had so much trouble sleeping. I slept on the couch while watching my show... I will get used to him working nights, guess it will take some time...
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
6 Mar 13
I was a single parent for years....in the summer my mom and dad would take the kids for a week....I would have the house all to myself...and I got sooooooo lonely! LOL....instead of enjoying the time without them, I missed them so much! Hope you enjoy your time alone!
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
Yeah, I am sure that was so hard. It was hard for me for one night! Lol. My mother told me to stop calling that they were fine. Lol, oops! I tried to relax, I watched my favorite show for a while and I was here on and off... I'm glad the kids are home tonight.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
6 Mar 13
Hope you enjoyed it. I always loved those kind of nights and mainly because they were so rare in my home. They still are. Seems there is always someone here even though I am single and my girls are all grown.
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
I tried to relax, it was tough though. Lol. I watched my favorite show and actually could hear every word of it which was different! Lol. I was here on and off too. =) I am glad my kids are home with me tonight...
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
6 Mar 13
I know what you're saying. Back when had my first two, my in-laws wanted to take them out for the day. Hubby wasn't around and a friend of our stopped over. We sat and visited and finally they said "why are we just sitting here". Because I didn't realize I could actually leave the house because the kids weren't there It IS an odd feeling. And you loose yourself in the daily routine enough to not even know what to do with yourself when you get that free time. I cherish that alone time now (kids are in their teens), but when the kids were young and you're just busy being mom we forget that we had interests and hobbies of our own after a while.
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
Haha, Lol. I have done that too! My husband would say I need to go to the store, I got so used to not being able to go with him unless we got the kids all ready and everything so I usually just stay home, and then we realized the kids weren't here and I could go with him! It was a strange feeling. But I did get to watch my show and I actually got to hear it too! =) So that was a nice thing. Maybe next time I will enjoy it more if I can get used to it...
@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
6 Mar 13
I probably understand you, because I rarely I am alone in my house. We as family almost always stay together in home and when we go to visit relatives we too go together. There was only few times when I have stayed alone in my house. Maybe try to enjoy this night alone doing some relax bath lying and maybe watch your favorite movies so you will not feel alone. I hope you will not get bored today.
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
I am never alone in the house ever so it was so weird to me! Lol. I tried to relax and watch my show but it wasn't the same without them.
• Indonesia
6 Mar 13
ah... yes! it's weird and scary to stay alone with dog only. the good thing, you can do anything you want, a freak thing or the crazy thing that will make your day becomes different
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
Yeah it was weird and a little creepy too! Lol. I am glad my kids are home with me tonight. =)
• United States
6 Mar 13
I bet you will hear every bump and creak in the house. I used to when I was all alone. When my family spent a few days in North Carolina I heard lots of noises at night. It was just the normal noises that occur when the house cools during the night but the sounds were still eerie.
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
I did! It was creeping me out a little bit too. Lol. I turned the TV extra loud so I didn't have to hear it!