Realize

@chum24 (569)
Philippines
March 23, 2013 9:40pm CST
Today is our monthsary with my ex boyfriend. After i read your advise i'm really thankful to all. I just realize i won't focus on my own emotion (on him), instead i will focus on my future to be especially my carrier, no more doubts and let him go. It just only one person who give up on me, there's a lot people who really loves me and never leave me, my family relatives and friends. Thank you so much. have a bless sunday
4 people like this
21 responses
• India
24 Mar 13
Good to hear about your decision. Finally you are in the right way. Ignore the person who avoids you and live for others who loves you a lot. As you mentioned you take this decision based on mylot friends suggestion. Mylot is a good place to get valuable and useful ideas.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
hi,.. you are right i really thankful to my lot..
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
You are right, you still have your family and friends around you. So why waste your time with one person who doesn't deserve your love. Yes, having special someone is a different kind of love and relationship- but we should know our importance first before the other.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
exactly!!! thank you
@champan (513)
• Argentina
24 Mar 13
That's great! I'm glad you say this. It's really important just to realise that. If you don't put value on yourself... who will do that? . So, great! Keep on going :)
• India
25 Mar 13
I was in your country so i know the term 'monthsary', others have anniversary that comes once in a year, your comes 12 times. You say after i read your advise, who is this 'your'.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
Good for you! Now at least you've moved out from that hole and decided to move on. That is just what we are supposed to do everytime we think that we have failed in our lives. There is always a better tomorrow in stored for us.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
25 Mar 13
Try to focous on yourself and it's calm down,you'll find out you are clear about what you gonna do.Past is past thus maybe we gonna need new relationships and careers.You enjoy the weekend as well,dear mylotter.
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
Its nice that we you able to move on, though its hard to let go of someone we love, but sometimes its more hurting if we insist on things that are not meant for us. Been to that kind of situation, letting go of someone you love. I really believe on the song " Some good things never last".
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
You are right, you should appreciate all the people who love you. Start to let go and be free from heartaches. Life is really full of fun and surprises.
@vexxus (712)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
That's the best decision you would never regret, past is past, and all you have to think of is the future, True Love never fades and won't leave your side, but if he can't be that so true, better let him do what he wants, Your the one who makes your life happy and I agree that Family will never leave your side in times of trouble and you have the assurance that they would love you unconditionally.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
24 Mar 13
Do not only focus on your carreer! There is so much more to do, to see, to experience. There are also so many ways you can improve and develop yourself. Perhaps you like to travel in future? I think you are a strong person so am sure you will make it. Please love and pamper yourself since you are worth it. If you do that for yourself you will see how many great people you will meet. People who do love and respect you for who you are, under all circumstances. I wish you a great Sunday but above all love. Remember: love is there in many ways and they all are worth to have/to know.
• Indonesia
24 Mar 13
Love is rational thing. Thus we need to be rational. Good thing you can move on. Because life is wide, not only love. So keep on going and cheers.
• China
24 Mar 13
I feel so happy that you start to get over your ex-boyfriend and move on,and I sure there are so many good boy in front of you and wait for you,because you are such a good girl,you deserve much better.
• India
24 Mar 13
is nice to understand that we have many other persons apart from lover, who really care for us even more in a selfless manner. Ve a gr8 day.
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
Good on you.. learning this lesson in life will make us stronger next time around..
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
Such realization is called maturity. I'm glad that you have come upon this. Good luck to you and hope that you will be more focus on what you want in life and love yourself more.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
24 Mar 13
you just need to realize and the matter of fact is is not just a carrier and at times the emotions run high always for sure
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Mar 13
I am so glad your moving on! =) Don't worry you will find someone who treats you well and loves you for you. And they will respect you and never want to let you go. It will happen for you! =) And for now you have plenty of friends here who care about you and your family too! Keep busy and do things you enjoy.
• India
24 Mar 13
Good to hear about your decision. Finally you are in the right way. Ignore the person who avoids you and live for others who loves you a lot. As you mentioned you take this decision based on mylot friends suggestion. Mylot is a good place to get valuable and useful ideas.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
i`m glad that you realize that.. always remember that there's a rainbow always after the rain.. you will soon be happy again but happiness cannot be found with someone else you can start by loving yourself and having an inner peace that is truly a happiness..
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 13
Hi chum...I proud to you. You can realize that your life and your future more important than your boyfriend who has hurt you. Forget him and go for your future goal. Your life does not depend on him but depend on yourself. I hope you success with your carrier and meet the best man to be your husband. Have a nice day.