Be ready to face surprises

@roshigo58 (4862)
Pune, India
April 13, 2013 5:44am CST
Hi, When we are struggling for living we have many questions and confusions in our mind. We try to find the answers to these questions and we get the answers. But life changes questions and we have to find answers to new questions. So I think that life is very complicated. So we shouldn't try to find the answers because when we find the answers life changes the questions. So we should be ready to face surprises.
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26 responses
@Pegasus72 (1898)
14 Apr 13
Life is full of ups and downs, good days and bad days, and lots and lots of surprises.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
14 Apr 13
You are welcome
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
14 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. Life is full of ups and downs. We should be ready to accept to face lots of good or bad surprises. Thank you for the response.
@mariaperalta (19074)
• Mexico
13 Apr 13
Everyday ones life is so full of surprises. never know what is going to happen both good and bad. have a great day there.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
14 Apr 13
Hi, Life is unpredictable and we should be ready to accept anythin bad or good. thank you for the response.
• Mexico
14 Apr 13
Sure is, its what makes everyones life so darn special. Have a super sunday there. :)
@wolfie34 (26772)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr 13
You are so right, life is extremely complicated, and it's not a rehearsal either, it's the real thing, so we have to make mistakes, we have to go through bad times as well as good and we have to learn new things. The world doesn't stay the same and neither do our lives, we think we are settled in our life, then something happens which throws us out of sync. It's how we deal with these surprises that measures us for how we can cope and deal with them. It's like we are being tested all the time.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
28 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. Sometimes we are doing well and some thing happens differently and we have to face problems. Sometimes we lose hope and everything happens favorable. thus we can't predict anything about our life. We should enjoy every moment of life. Thank you for the response.
@celticeagle (137150)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Apr 13
Life is very complicated. And it is way too short. So instead of letting it get complicated we need to take it a day at a time and not let things get to us. Hopefully parents have taught us how to problem solve and what is right for us. We can move forward accordingly.
@celticeagle (137150)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Apr 13
I think so. The parent's blessings would be with the children.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
14 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. We can solve the problems in life according to teachings of our parents. When we follow their teachings then our life becomes easy. Their blessings are with us. thank you for the response.
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@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
28 Apr 13
Surprises are always there, whether we want them or not. Therefore, one cannot be ready to face surprises, because they are always there. Actually, every new day is a surprise. Just the sun rising is a surprise. The seasons that change is a surprise. The previous day, there is heat and the next day,it is rain. This is a very big surprise. The case is the same in the human world. Some people are so good to us. Then suddenly one day, they become angry with us and leave us. Sometimes, we feel attracted and infatuated towards somebody. But when we at last go near that person and talk to him or her, suddenly we feel no more attracted or infatuated. All these are surprises.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
28 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. Every new day is a surprise. Nature always give us surprises. In relations also we get surprises. We can not predict how the person would behave next time. So we should enjoy the life whatever we have without worrying about future and thinking about present. thank you for the response.
@jenny1015 (13367)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
Life is full of mysteries. And people are innately inquisitive. A man would never tire to know the truth and learn and explore new things.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
15 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. we always want to know the truth and learn new things. Thank you for the response.
@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
14 Apr 13
I agree with you! One should be ready to face the surprises, whenever they come, whether they are good or bad.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
14 Apr 13
Hi, We should face surprises or challenges without any complaint or fear. thank you for the response.
@dismalgrin (2604)
• United States
14 Apr 13
I agree, that some things are better left unanwered. And sometimes when life is so hard it's better to not dwell on why our lot in life is so hard. But, to work to make it through each day and to make our lives better for ourselves and for our children.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
15 Apr 13
Hi, We have to work for ourselves and for our family. We should not get frustrated by unanswerable questions. We have to accept whatever happens to us. We should be positive and try to enjoy every moment of life. Thank you for the response.
@jricky1 (6801)
• China
13 Apr 13
Sometimes it just don't work out if we try to find out any answers for anything. It will increase our content somehow,isn't it? I try to have fun in my life with people I love and I found out life more enjoyable. So good luck to you and find your way of living,would be nice to you. Have a wonderful day and thanks for this topic.
• United States
14 Apr 13
Hi! Yes life does have series of challenges and if you have the right "team", some are not as insourmountable as they might seem right away. For example, if you know that your job is ending, try to join a coupon group, start one locally if there isn't one already, and perhaps only buy what is needed until things get better. Perhaps use the savings to pay bills? Clothes? Try a Goodwill or perhaps host a clothing swap with a few friends. In a way, you could make it your own What Not to Wear; if you need to, get others opinions. Is this what you meant?
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
15 Apr 13
Hi, Life is unpredictable. We have to ready to face challenges they may be difficult or easy. We have to accept everything which comes in our way while struggling for life. thank you for the response.
• India
14 Apr 13
I agree to everything you say except for the line that we shouldn't try to find the answers because when we find the answers life changes the question. How will we proceed in life without solving the puzzle that we are dealing with in the present? Life is complicated, but this is the beauty of it because when we try to solve the complication by seeking the answer we feel a sense of achievement which work as a driving force to face yet another challenge.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
14 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. When we find the answer to the questions in life we have satisfaction of success and it works as the driving force for facing another challenges in our life. thank you for the response.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
13 Apr 13
LOL, welcome to the real world...its called evolution...
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
14 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. It's called evolution. Thank you for the response.
@collie26 (25)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
Life is a big arena. You can play game, you can quit, you can continue, you can just like simply an audience. Life is a big challenge and on every steps you take, there is an equal reward you will get. So it depends on how you will react on every changes happens to your life. The gamer you are, the more challenging life is for you.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
14 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. Life is like a big arena. It is up to what to do to continue game, to quit or you can just simply an audience. Life can be compared to sea. Some people may like to gather pearls from it, Some may gather fishes or some may like to wet their feet only and enjoy the fun with sea waves. So everyone has different life and it depends on the reaction of the individual. Thank you for the response.
@tinayu (214)
• China
14 Apr 13
yes, there are many many uncertain factors in our lives.you prepare for something this moment,and it is going to change in next moment.that makes you things a mass .at the beginning,you feel powerless and very angry with that.gradually you get used to it.just do well in this moment.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
14 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. Every thing seems difficult in the beginning but after some time we become used to it. We should try to live in the present and don't worry about future. We should try to enjoy every moment in life. thank you for the response.
@savypat (20217)
• United States
13 Apr 13
A person needs to seperate one's self from life. You do this by setting goals for yourself and working towards these. If you allow life to rule you it's like trying to ride out the worse storm at sea with no boat. Laughter is your greatest defense, no matter how bad it gets, try to stand outside the situation to find your laughter. It's like watching an insect climb a hill, they try and they try the point is not that they climb the hill, but that you find enjoyment in watching them try. If you can get to the point that you are the observer outside life's problems, you will see the problem but still be able to seperate yourself enough to laugh at the performance. In truth we have control only of our point of view in this life, so chose to enjoy the play.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. Laughter is your greatest defense. We should try to sole the problem till the end. Try again and again and try to get the success. We should try to enjoy every moment of life. Thank you for the response.
@alottodo (3061)
• Australia
13 Apr 13
Life has a way to surprise us all the time...whether we are young or old as long as we are alive we will be confronted with every day challenges what was good yesterday may not be today! the only thing that will never change is the love for my family
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi, You are right. Everything will change but love for family or our closed ones will not change. Thank you for the response.
• India
13 Apr 13
Thanks for sharing , yes life is full of surprises and challenges, we must face boldly.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi, you are right. We must face surprises and challenges boldly. Thank you for the response.
@grvdubey11 (1880)
• India
13 Apr 13
That is right, we should be ready to face surprises, it depends on our efforts and destiny that those surprises are pleasant or unpleasant.There has been lot of instances in my life where i expected a lot but something unexpected happened,so these days i don't expect much,just flow along with life.Best wishes.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
hi, you are right. We should not expect anything from life. Try to enjoy every moment and and face the challenges come across. thank you for the response.
@prashu228 (37296)
• India
13 Apr 13
Hi yes is all about changes. Its inevitable. we should prepare ourselves to face the changes but it not so easy as we say that we should be ready and change . its very difficult at times to accept the changes as well.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi, you are right. It is not easy to accept the changes. Thank you for the response.
@olliekobra1 (1826)
13 Apr 13
this is interesting and i think that you are right, life is far to unpredictable and you never know what may happen from one day to the next. I think its best just to enjoy life you cant go through life questioning evey thing that you do and worrying about things.
@roshigo58 (4862)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi, Hi, You are right. We can't say what will happen in the next moment. So we should enjoy every moment of life. Life goes on questioning and we should give answers to those questions as per our understanding. thank you for the response.