And while we're on the subject of what I won't do...

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Last Thursday the ex was supposed to remind Dearra to talk to her counselor about changing her appointments once school starts. He didn't do it because she came out of the session with tears, and he figured he'd just let her decompress, and deal with it next week. I get home that same day, and there's a message from the counselor. She forgot to mention that she won't be available at the usual appointment time this week or next week. Fantabulous... So I give Dearra the information, tell her to call and reschedule, and also bring up her school schedule while she's doing that so she can arrange appointments for school also. I let her dad know what's going on also. Fast forward to Tuesday, and nobody's done anything, so I call the counselor and leave a message with Dearra's cell phone number. I am not calling to arrange anything. That's up to Dearra, who is an adult now, and her dad, who takes her to appointments. I'm doing enough by paying for them after having found the counselor. I know Dearra has anxiety, but she needs to start doing some things. Her dad isn't working and I am, so if he can't help with money, he can help with time and support. Puts foot firmly down.