Helen Mirren Says 'No Cuddling'

@Rollo1 (16676)
Boston, Massachusetts
September 15, 2015 12:42pm CST
Helen Mirren is a talented actress, an attractive and intelligent woman and a feminist. I admire her greatly - as an actress. Wait, maybe I should say "actor". Because sometimes Helen Mirren's feminism reaches crazy levels on the PC scale. For instance, her latest proclamation that when a man puts his arm around a woman's shoulder, it's "like ownership". Yep, you got that right. Men putting their arms around their significant others is a sign of ownership, not affection at all. She doesn't seem to consider whether or not the woman wants the man to put his arm around her. Some of us women like that sort of thing. Interestingly, the article in the Telegraph features a photo of Helen and her husband with his arm around her and she is leaning on him with her hand on his chest. Looks like a claim for mutual ownership to me. So, what you do think? Should a man be told to keep his hands to himself in public, or do you think it's okay for a man to put his arm around his girlfriend or wife? Is this a valid issue, or does feminism make people go just a little bit psycho at times?
Dame Helen Mirren has declared that when a man puts an arm around his girlfriend, it's 'like ownership'. What's a man to do, asks Martin Daubney
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@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
16 Sep 15
This is a silly statement. I think that this is different from woman to woman. Some like to be cuddled, even in public, others not. I like if my husband put his arm around my waist.
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@rebelann (117268)
• El Paso, Texas
12 Sep 19
I agree with you. I think each woman has a different idea of what is tolerable in public.
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@rebelann (117268)
• El Paso, Texas
12 Sep 19
That makes sense @LadyDuck I do not like those strangers who feel the need to hug or touch me in some way, it is unnecessary
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@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
12 Sep 19
@rebelann It also depends "who" put your arm around your waist, or touch your hair. I accept this from my husband, I would not from a stranger.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
15 Sep 15
ownership is a two way street i would say, what a silly thing for her to to go around saying.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
15 Sep 15
Yes, it is a bit silly. Now, if a strange man came up to random women and was "claiming" them by putting his arms around them, that would be a different matter.
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@xfahctor (14113)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
16 Sep 15
@Jessicalynnt or a good right hook, lol.
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• Centralia, Missouri
15 Sep 15
@Rollo1 that would also probably end up involving the police, lol
@xfahctor (14113)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
16 Sep 15
I demand a trigger warning in your post for the word "feminism".
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@xfahctor (14113)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
16 Sep 15
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
16 Sep 15
I thought pretty much everyone here could handle the topic alright.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
15 Sep 15
I personally love any affection like that. I would be happy to have my mans arm around me. I think it shows caring. I do not think in most cases that men do it out of try to own their women. I am feeling very lonely lately. I would love nothing more then to have a man to cuddle with me and make me feel better. I love to cuddle.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
15 Sep 15
I think it's a sign of affection and most women appreciate that.
@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
15 Sep 15
I think it's entirely up to each indiviual couple to decide what's right for them. I'm perfectly happy to have my husband's arm around me.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
16 Sep 15
She seems happy to have her husband's arm around her in that photo, too. I guess it's just other women who shouldn't let men put an arm around them.
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@xFiacre (14797)
• Ireland
15 Sep 15
The Dame should stick to acting, reading from a script rather than making up nonsense of her own.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
16 Sep 15
It seems a modern problem that actors believe their celebrity status automatically confers intelligence and authority and that we are all waiting for them to tell us how to live our lives.
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• United States
15 Sep 15
Chuckle.... I have to laugh at these feminists sometimes. They think the world should follow them and bow to them but they need to start making a little sense. Sure, it could be construed as ownership, but there might be some ladies out there who wish some man would claim them in such a way...they might even be in relationships but are not getting the affection they desire. I'm happy when my man claims me as "his". He has that right being my husband. That tells me that he's content with me and won't be wandering elsewhere.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
15 Sep 15
I am sure most couples are used to one of them putting an arm around the other. And if they object, they have the right. But I don't think women need Helen Mirren to object for them if they don't object themselves.
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@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
16 Sep 15
I saw a discussion re this on TV this morning. All I can say is sad, silly lady, she doesn't know what she is missing out on.
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@rakski (156682)
• Philippines
16 Sep 15
Depending on the person itself. Some person are just showy and some are not. Of course, we women usually but not all loves to be cuddled. It is not a sign of ownership but it is a sign that the person hugging you loves you and is comfortable with you.
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@Fleura (35092)
• United Kingdom
7 Oct 15
It does sound a bit silly but I know exactly what she means, I've certainly been in situations where a man has put his arm around me and it has felt like some sort of claim. I don't think it's the same when it's mutual.