Can you give your life instead of your lover(husband,boyfriend,wife,girlfriend,mother,children)?

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@mkrnex (785)
Bangalore, India
September 17, 2015 2:51am CST
I have heard so much of this thing that "I will bring stars for you my love"!!"I will give you my life for you"!! in films.Now I wanted to see these things happen only in reel life or people have such feelings in real life too?? So if you have loved ones give your opinions!!.And if you don't have one imagine one in the future and give your point of opinion!! Honesty will be appreciated !!
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@skysnap (20154)
17 Sep 15
I am a single person. I found that as you go towards 30s and remain single, everyone leave you. Parents don't care about you because you are single and not settled. Friends find you less interesting and more of threat because you are not married. Siblings think that you're wasted and not worth it. And if you approach lover or friend in relationship they dont want you for life. I don't have anyone to give my life for. So me and my shadow stand for each other. Based on the things that happened to me, i'd never give my life to anyone. Not even parents or wife or lover or kids. I know some people think it's selfish but they have not lived my life.
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@vandana7 (99118)
• India
17 Sep 15
And as you become older, they want to start transferring their responsibilities on you. Beyond that they start counting how much they will inherit from you since you do not have kids anyway. Some can be insensitive enough to ask you on your face.
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• India
17 Sep 15
@vandana7 I feel nothing but love and respect towards you. That makes me a probable inheritor, don't you think?
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@vandana7 (99118)
• India
18 Sep 15
@hora_fugit ..seriously, when they ask how much will you write to us, and grin, I could punch their faces. What is so nice or jocular about being told you die so that me or mine will be enjoy life?
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
18 Sep 15
since i am still single, my loved ones are my family - and i would gladly give my life for them i would not even think twice
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• Aurangabad, India
18 Sep 15
I have seen quite a few bachelors and spinsters lead wonderful lives. Looks like being single is not a handicap.
@mkrnex (785)
• Bangalore, India
18 Sep 15
@gregario888 yep.Being single I feel good as you don't need to keep in mind the likes of other person.There will be no nagging.In short no trouble .
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@mkrnex (785)
• Bangalore, India
18 Sep 15
@lady1993 it is so nice of you.You love your family a lot I believe!!
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
17 Sep 15
I will not do that. Not intentionally, at least. P.S. Yet to have a child to verify the last part...
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@mkrnex (785)
• Bangalore, India
17 Sep 15
Are you married @hora_fugit??
• India
17 Sep 15
@mkrnex No... but it's children only towards whom I am not sure about the extent of affection. They can surely kill you!
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@vandana7 (99118)
• India
17 Sep 15
@hora_fugit ...that is interesting. I believe you. They can kill with their sweet smiles and naughtiness.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
18 Sep 15
In life we get what we give...One cannot take such decisions without actually being in a situation.I guess if it comes to my children , where giving my life would save their I would willingly do so..
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
18 Sep 15
@mkrnex I am sure all mothers would do that because their children are very precious to them..
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• Aurangabad, India
18 Sep 15
That's great! Your kids will surely love you for that spirit.
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@mkrnex (785)
• Bangalore, India
18 Sep 15
@kiran8 I think my mother would give her life to me.But I would like to know can you give your life to your husband!!Before writing this discussion I knew that most of the mother will peacefully give their life to children if they can live happily!!
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@Avimom (65)
• Gurgaon, India
17 Sep 15
Yes this is true not in this scale but if u love any person then your heart tell u that do every thing for that person.
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• Aurangabad, India
18 Sep 15
It sure is.
@mkrnex (785)
• Bangalore, India
17 Sep 15
@Avimom true buddy,dieing sounds like a metaphor most of the times as not in real life.But it is good to hear though!!
@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
17 Sep 15
The celestial part, seems fine during the honeymoon period, but once you run into the snafus of life, things surely go awry.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep 15
At first I thought that those are words only heard from movies, but after having close people who depends solely on me, I would rather die first than to see them suffer...
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Sep 15
@mkrnex give your life= die for someone or something you value the most, that is what I meant
@mkrnex (785)
• Bangalore, India
19 Sep 15
Man if you die first then they will surely suffer as they depend on you?First of all make them independent if economically, if emotionally then I have no answer!