If your spouse passed away...

@wiLLmaH (8801)
Singapore, Singapore
October 7, 2015 7:29pm CST
I am sharing the story of the movie ‘Southpaw’ with my husband. The wife there got shot and died while his husband which is a boxer having a out of the ring brawl. He was lost and admittedly have no plans for his life. Why? His wife do all the planning for him and their family. Then my husband look at me and without blinking told me that he too will be lost without me. He couldn’t imagine his life will be. After that revelation.. he hugged me! After some silence, he blurted out “You cannot die without my permission”. Then our room was filled with laughter. Haha!
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• United States
8 Oct 15
This is the best I have heard for a long time William It is so nice to be needed wanted and loved!
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• United States
8 Oct 15
@wiLLmaH I am so happy for you William
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
@TiarasOceanView thanks. Everybody deserves this kind of love. :)
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
My hearts pumps frantically when I heard those words. He always keep fall in love with him again and again. :)
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
8 Oct 15
I actually wrote an article on this subject some time ago, but haven't posted it yet. I don't know if I ever will. Your husband's reaction was lovely.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
Why you will not post it?
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
8 Oct 15
@wiLLmaH If I do post it you will see why.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
9 Oct 15
@jaboUK Okay. I will wait for it.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
8 Oct 15
I haven't seen the movie but I definitely consider doing it. anyway i can't think about anything worse than losing your life partner or a child
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• Romania
8 Oct 15
@wiLLmaH yes some people are like that and it's hard for them to handle changes
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
He is the man who do not like changes. Nice movie. Let me know once you saw it. :)
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@jrlcentral (2605)
• Roxas, Philippines
8 Oct 15
I can't even start to think what would happen to me,,,,
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
that is so sweet. Hope your partner can read your comment.
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@Freelanzer (10782)
• Canada
8 Oct 15
I would rather not think about that. right now as we are enjoying our time together but of course I don't know what I would do without my husband.However, lately, i have seen my neighbors lose there spouses and I was very shocked how quickly they found someone else. And I know as a fact and they told me that they couldn't live without them, but boy did they move on really fast.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
We really cannot tell what will happen next. As saying goes, "we will cross the bridge when we get there".
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@KnehKnah (3582)
• Philippines
8 Oct 15
Hi, my dear! It's nice to see you too here! Re, dying. My dearly beloved says I can't die without asking his permission. Sounds familiar? Ha! Ha! Ha!
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
10 Oct 15
@KnehKnah Isn't cute? It seems that they can't live without us :)
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
Does your husband told you that too?
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@KnehKnah (3582)
• Philippines
9 Oct 15
@wiLLmaH Yes, my dear Willmah! So, I promised him I will.
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@GardenGerty (169505)
• United States
28 Oct 15
Very sweet. i am sure you feel the same way about him.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
28 Oct 15
Only by thinking about it I feel incomplete! :)
@cherigucchi (15932)
• Philippines
8 Oct 15
I believe all of us has to leave ready or not. Its okay to talk about it.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
We really need to sometime face the undeniable future. :)
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@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
8 Oct 15
The best is that at the end you have laughed. I know that my husband would be lost without me and I would without him.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
8 Oct 15
Haha! We need a giod amount of laugh in everyday of our lives. :) Actually, upon hearing that from my husband, I got to think it over. I am questioning myself if I can survive that if that will happen.
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
9 Oct 15
Lol! it shows your bond of relation. I too wish to have a wife like you lol!
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
9 Oct 15
You will find someone that is better than me! Just keep on praying.