Polarization - Can we reverse it?

@Rollo1 (16676)
Boston, Massachusetts
October 23, 2015 8:27am CST
I am not talking about the magnetic poles, although they do reverse every so often. That will happen in a few thousand years or so. I am talking about the electorate. And although I am speaking mainly to Americans, I think it applies in many countries - our political parties seem to drift further and further away from each other, and as they do, the citizens drift with them until we are living next door to someone, but in our views, are at the opposite end of the spectrum. I really like this particular quote, and it's from a candidate but I don't want to discuss the candidate who said it, just the quote: "The problem with Washington is that we've all become Democrats and Republicans instead of Americans. " I think it's true. We are not thinking about the country as much as we are thinking about our political positions. And this takes a toll on people's characters as well as the nation itself. Once you commit to any ideology as being always right and the only thing you owe loyalty to, you forget that most everyone really does want the best for the country, even if you think they are going about it the wrong way. And because of this polarization, both sides are intolerant of the other. People stand at opposite poles and hurl insults. People defend the indefensible, if it happened on their side - but they demand justice if it happens on the other. I would prefer that we don't discuss particular positions or parties or even issues in the comments. What I want to know is not which candidates you hate, or what political views you despise, but what can we do about getting everyone to think of the good of their country first, and less about the advancement of a political agenda - no matter whose agenda it is. Can we do that?
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@GardenGerty (169453)
• United States
23 Oct 15
We are not training people to think in school any more. It is hard to get past the straight party vote and the demonization of the "other party" if we are not taught to think critically.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Oct 15
I agree. Schools need to stop teaching kids what to think and start teaching them how to think.
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
23 Oct 15
hmm, I have felt like that for awhile, I don't actually feel like I have ever strongly sided with a party. I know my dad had issues with them, sometimes having to switch back and forth to support who he felt was right for a particular spot.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
23 Oct 15
I often strongly side with particular candidates, and mostly side with one party more than another, but the truth is that most elected officials will do what is expedient and profitable for them.
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@GardenGerty (169453)
• United States
23 Oct 15
@Rollo1 and no one person can change anything but must be part of a group that is working for a better results.
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• Centralia, Missouri
23 Oct 15
@Rollo1 I have oft wondered if we'd be better off with Biz people, in charge of a citizen owned biz rather than those with gilded tongues and no sense
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
23 Oct 15
This situation is caused by the Political parties and their obsessive feudal attitudes. You can guarantee that if one party suggests something then the other party will immediately disagree and criticise the whole idea. Whether or not the idea is good, the whole concept of agreeing with the opposition is against their principles. Most political parties, at least the major ones, seem more intent on fighting other parties than running the country.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
23 Oct 15
They fight each other because they want to control, as a bloc, because power means money. If they can sell influence, if they can become rich, then they must act like the borg and everyone fall into the party line. In truth, I think most voters are not as aligned with party philiosphies as they are with party names.
@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
23 Oct 15
What you say is so true. This is what happened to Italy many years ago. Those who were in charge at the government did not care to listed to the opposite parties even if thy had great ideas. If you were not of their party, your ideas were all wrong. This did a lot of damage to my country.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
23 Oct 15
I think it does damage to the country and to its people. It stops all useful debate.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
23 Oct 15
Vote for the best candidate regardless of party.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Oct 15
People find it very hard to stray too far outside of the lines.
• United States
23 Oct 15
t'wouldn't that jest be a blessin'? i fear it'll ne'er come though.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Oct 15
I think it's only going to get worse.
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• United States
24 Oct 15
@Rollo1 yes ma'am, sad but true. i'm thinkin' folks're jest too brainwashed by the media to e'en give their own thoughts - jest listenin' to 'em 's to what's 'good fer you'.
• United States
24 Oct 15
@Rollo1 yes ma'am, sad but true. i'm thinkin' folks're jest too brainwashed by the media to e'en give their own thoughts. blind trust 'n faith.
@connierebel (1557)
• United States
24 Oct 15
I don't think it can be reversed, unless the media (and the government, courts, etc.) stops stirring up trouble, taking sides, and banning whatever they don't like, or that doesn't fit the "party line." If tolerance isn't shown to both sides, it only breeds intolerance on both sides.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Oct 15
Exactly. You can't preach tolerance while practicing intolerance. The sides just get further apart.
@marguicha (230351)
• Chile
23 Oct 15
In my country, the same thing has happened. It had to do with a chnge in the constitution during Pinochet“s dictatorship.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
23 Oct 15
Home is a miniature society that ultimately grows into a country and the world.All that is required is peace in the family. A small role played by individuals regardless of which party reigns supreme is all that is required to get us where we want to go.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
23 Oct 15
Politics is a dysfunction family that is always fighting and trying to hide the crazy uncle in the attic while others are continually trying to point out him out.
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@FourWalls (86628)
• United States
24 Oct 15
No, I'm afraid we cannot. The 70's were called the "me generation," but those "me" seeds weren't fully grown until now. People will not vote for the best person for the job at the expense of voting for (gasp) someone in "the other party." We are a country of minorities and special interests now instead of "Americans. We will never become a unified country until we can stop thinking in terms of ourselves as hyphenated Americans.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Oct 15
I think a lot of what we believed about being Americans is no longer believed. We are too segmented and we've lost the concept of being an American first.
@jstory07 (148731)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Oct 15
I think we should do away with the parties and vote for someone that cares about our country and has the best interest of the people
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Oct 15
It's hard to know who really has our best interests at heart.
@mom210 (9170)
• United States
24 Oct 15
I agree, sometimes the candidates go with a party that fits them closest but we should not dismiss them because of the letter at the end of their name (an R or D or whatever letter) Listen to what they have to say and what they are going to do. We watch both party debates, we eat junk food while we do and and kind of make it something to look forward to and enjoy. Politics does not have to be like pulling teeth, we do need to pay attention to what they are doing and saying so we can keep them in line.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Oct 15
I love the idea of sitting down with junk food to snack on while watching the debates.
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