Stick to The Discussion

Stick to the Discussion
@Marcyaz (35316)
United States
October 24, 2015 11:32am CST
I have notice in Discussions so many people going off the Subject and not responding to what has been said in the Discussions. Just today I have seen this in about 4 different Discussions. Please keep to the Subject in the Discussions. If you can't then don't respond at All.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
25 Oct 15
I have seen comment threads head off in another direction, but it's all good for the poster as far as interaction goes. But it might be even better to save the idea and write a post on it separately, rather than use up all your ideas on the subject in a comment.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@MarshaMusselman I have had some fun with this discussion and the form it has taken.
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@Rollo1 (16676)
• Boston, Massachusetts
25 Oct 15
@MarshaMusselman Posting does earn you money, but only if people respond. That's interaction, too. That's why I said that it doesn't matter if they go off on tangents, it's all interaction for the OP (original poster). Just writing the post earns nothing. It only earns if people respond to it and the more the merrier.
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Oct 15
@Rollo1 I agree with everything you've said. come to find out, @marcyaz really doesn't care whether people do stick to the topic at hand or not, she was just providing fodder for discussion and whatever tangents took place if any. I don't know whether she'll ever live this one down.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
24 Oct 15
Some do say some whacky things.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
Yes some do say some really whacky things not related to anything.
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Oct 15
but it is so much fun here when they do. unfortunately I don't have the wisdom to come up with some of the laughs like I get from others here
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
24 Oct 15
I am one of those who can write almost anything - in no context to th discusion
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Oct 15
Silly, we are still responding to the apron with Howard..hahaha.i doubt that had anything to do with the discussion..
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
Where is Howard, is he missing in action again?
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Oct 15
@Marcyaz @howard96h....we need you and your apron now to help out Marcy's discussion..hahah
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Oct 15
@Rosekitty It that having some magical powers too
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• United States
24 Oct 15
Okay yes teacher lolz
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
24 Oct 15
Thanks but it is hard to keep up with a topic if people keep going off the subject.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
25 Oct 15
@Marcyaz oreo's,brownies,apron,food of any kind..
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
24 Oct 15
I had kept myself away from responding here... dont know where I stand and may invoke the wrath of the OP But now that a dear friend has arrived, I can have anything here on this box as I am not responding to the OP
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
25 Oct 15
I don't agree with you - I think it's fun when things go off at a tangent. New people coming onto the post can still comment on the original topic.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@MarshaMusselman that is so very true
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
31 Oct 15
@jaboUK I agree totally. It is fun when a comment goes off course and goes on and on.
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Oct 15
I agree with you wholeheartedly, Janet. If a discussion doesn't have any responses related to the topic at hand, then the person could try again with a different approach. The longer we write on these sites the more versatile we should become in saying the same thing but in different ways or words.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
25 Oct 15
This has happened on my discussions before and it doesn't bother me. Normally the original comment is about the discussion but in the process of commenting back and forth, it does get off topic. I learn so much about people this way.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
25 Oct 15
@maggs224 Exactly Maggs - I don't care what direction the comments take as long as they are interesting.
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@maggs224 (2317)
• Alicante, Spain
25 Oct 15
@simone10 I find the same I often learn a lot about people from the comments that they leave. The comments often take on a life of their own when there is a lot of interaction.
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Oct 15
@maggs224 And, if we want the interaction, then I'd think we should be willing to take what we can get. Some members revel (wd?) in this type of interactions and seek them out.
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@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Oct 15
I think that sometimes people have different thoughts on a given subject too. I am not saying that may be the issue in this instance but it does happen at times.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Oct 15
you may be right in that and we should but as in real life we often veer off a little. sorry.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
no problem it was just a thought for a discussion anyway.
@maggs224 (2317)
• Alicante, Spain
25 Oct 15
@bunnybon7 Because I am easily distracted (both off and on-line) I very often veer off too, but I have found that because of this I have ended up in some very interesting places and found out some very interesting things.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
25 Oct 15
am i one of them? i sometimes ramble, mumble(?) and go off topic sometimes since i focus on some points of the discussion in which i can relate in
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
It happens to almost everyone so no problem.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@maggs224 No problem it is just a discussion.
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@maggs224 (2317)
• Alicante, Spain
25 Oct 15
@lady1993 One of my problems is that I get easily distracted an because I tend to read all the comments on a discussion this can happen quiet easily.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
25 Oct 15
Maybe it's because sometimes they put humor to the discussion .
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@valmnz (17095)
• New Zealand
24 Oct 15
I had this happen to one of mine once, it was as if my discussion had been highjacked
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
24 Oct 15
Yep and that is not right to do that.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@MarshaMusselman I usually get many responses to my posts and most of the responses are on that particular subject. I don't think many people hijack a discussion.
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Oct 15
I can see if that's all that is discussed, the other persons thread, that would be annoying, but did no one respond to your actual discussion? When that sort of thing happened on the old site it was as if the readers weren't even reading the post to begin with. Whether that is what is happening for many of the discussion-highjackings here is a question only those doing the highjacking can answer, I suppose. It would probably take a bit of research, or at least jotting down notes when this sort of thing is seen to determine whether that's only the type of responding certain members make on a regular basis. If that is found to be true, I don't know whether blocking those individuals would stop them from being able to comment/respond to our discussions or not. If it would, that would be something those authors that hate this could do. I wouldn't know what I'd think about it until I see if that is a common thing happening on my posts on a regular basis.
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• United States
25 Oct 15
That's the same as it is in real life - it happens all the time, so why not here too.
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• United States
25 Oct 15
some folks jest seem to ride that way. i don't reckon i'd figured't 's some evil plot to derail the original discussion. i'll do my best to refrain...
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
hah no problem it was just a topic for discussion.
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@maggs224 (2317)
• Alicante, Spain
25 Oct 15
I am always pleased to read any comment by you on or off topic you are always a sight for sore eyes as they say. Which just in case you don't know the saying is a good thing :D
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Oct 15
@Marcyaz Ha, got ya!! I did wonder about that though, you had me going for a little bit.
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@maggs224 (2317)
• Alicante, Spain
25 Oct 15
Often by the time I have finished reading all the comments on the discussion and sometimes responding as I read I am in danger of forgetting what the original post is all about in the process. I know that I have posts that have taken on a life of their own in the comments but I actually like it when that happens. I am sorry if people like me give you problems it is not what I set out to do. I just get lost in the fun of interacting with people :(
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
as I read sometimes it is hard to stay on the subject at hand, I know cause I do the same thing.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@MarshaMusselman going off subject is something I do also, I think we all do at one time or another.
• Midland, Michigan
25 Oct 15
It looks like she was joking all along and just being nice to provide fodder for off topic discussion afterall. (Just in case some of this came out in the wash after you stopped by to relay your views here and above).
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@Blondie2222 (28610)
• United States
25 Oct 15
I always try my best to keep up with the subject.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
good glad to hear that.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
25 Oct 15
It's all about having fun and interacting. As long as you're interacting then who cares if you're staying on subject or not. The best types of conversations are the ones where you jump to a bunch of different topics because that just keeps the interaction going.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Oct 15
Ok, I will try to stick to the discussion . . . but first I will need the right glue!
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
26 Oct 15
@much2say Yes the new colors of duck tapes is really pretty.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Oct 15
@yukimori Duct tape indeed! And there are so many cool colors and patterns these days. It would make the discussion look more interesting!
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@yukimori (10192)
• United States
25 Oct 15
My toddler ate my glue. Will duct tape work instead?
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• Preston, England
26 Oct 15
I like elephants too - joking, but yes I see lots of comments of no relevance to the topic under discussion or continuity to what other commentators have already contributed.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
26 Oct 15
I like looking at the elephants also. LOts of people get distracte and go off the subject but it is okay as every comment is good and you can see how some people are.
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• Preston, England
27 Oct 15
@Marcyaz it is better to get an off topic and at tangents reply than no reply as it still boosts our credit
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 15
Thank you, I will try to focus on the topic of the discussion. Happy mylotting...
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
24 Oct 15
Thank you for reading what was written.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 15
@Marcyaz You are welcome. I waiting for your another interesting post...happy mylotting....
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
25 Oct 15
@srisahara Thanks
@gudheart (12659)
25 Oct 15
I have seen it a couple of times, but I think that is the beauty of the discussions as it can bring about different areas and thoughts.
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