Balance

@yalul070 (1712)
Manila, Philippines
November 23, 2015 10:48am CST
What you see in the picture is a safety handrail inside a Manila train. The idea is you hold on to the handrail so that when the train moves, you will be able to resist the forces (i.e. crammed warm bodies of passengers) and maintain your standing position. Otherwise, your body will be strewn everywhere and the other passengers will swear at you for the inconvenience that you will cause them. Unfortunately, the handrail to passenger ratio is not 1:1. In this case, you will need to learn how to balance to remain steady. And I'm happy to report that I have been learning this skill. Also, this teaches me a couple of things which may or may not have anything to do with mass and inertia: 1. It takes a lot of concentration to achieve balance. Many things tend to distract you from your goals that you just have to pause at one point, clear your mind and focus on what is important. You cannot do everything at the same time, so you have to prioritize. So if you're riding a train and you don't want to inconvenience others, stop tinkering with your phone. 2. There are many factors that pull or push you to several directions. It is a must that you take control and decide the direction that you're heading. Whether you remain steady or assume another position, what is important is that it is your decision and that you take responsibility for your actions. So if you happen to lose balance and your high-heeled shoe crushes the toe of the woman next to you, say sorry because it's your fault. Sometimes I find it amazing how I can gain insight from my day-to-day struggles as a commuter. What about you? What life's lesson have you learned today?
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
23 Nov 15
I can only say that I am so glad that I don't take the Toronto Subway or buses anymore.
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Nov 15
I see such horrifying train experiences also happen even in the developed countries.
@funtool (246)
• Sargodha, Pakistan
23 Nov 15
Marie you are lucky you are not dependent on subway or buses but you miss a lot of fun. I mean so many people, different personalities, races, ideas, language etc
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Nov 15
@enlightenedpsych2 i don't mind getting in touch with a lot of people, as long as they don't push me lol
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
24 Nov 15
I don't tinker with my phone when i am inside the train . It could be that you were so busy at your phone and somebody next to you is already getting your wallet from your bag already .
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
24 Nov 15
@yalul070 I also play games on my phone while riding a jeepney going home . But , before i do i try to assess all the people inside the jeepney and say a lil prayer that there won't be a snatcher .
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Nov 15
@SIMPLYD that is the danger, my friend. so be careful.
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Nov 15
Oh everybody (except me) has something to do with their phones inside trains here. it's amazing how phones have become an indispensable part of their lives that they cannot wait to come home before they play with them.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
24 Nov 15
Public transport is pretty bad all around the world. I remember the Milan Subway, it was a nightmare.
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
25 Nov 15
i don't know if i should be happy that public transport is also horrible in other places lol. but anyway, i'm glad that you can relate.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
25 Nov 15
@yalul070 Yes, I can relate, when I lived in Italy, I took the subway to go to work every day and it took 40 minutes from home to office. The trains were overcrowded all the time, no places where to sit and not enough handles. A nightmare!
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@boiboing (13147)
• Northampton, England
23 Nov 15
My experience of the Delhi Metro is that once you're on, the last thing you can do is fall over. There are just too many bodies in the way.
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Nov 15
that is also true. you can't possibly fall down because the train is jam-packed. but it also doesn't mean that you can remain steady because the train's take-off is too strong that it will make you move with the train.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Nov 15
It is surprisingly hard to maintain your balance in a train especially when it is starting and stopping.
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Nov 15
yes and it's packed with people that you can't even hold on to something to keep steady.
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@funtool (246)
• Sargodha, Pakistan
23 Nov 15
You are a good writer yalul, you created a good post from an ordinary everyday experience of traveling in a train and we usually don't think what lessons life taught us today. To be frank I didn't think about the philosophy of life today before your post. Now I am thinking which events were think able today
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Nov 15
Thanks Sometimes I really need to learn from my experiences to justify what I have to go through on a day-to-day basis.
@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Nov 15
@funtool mindfulness -- got it. glad to learn a new thing from you.
@funtool (246)
• Sargodha, Pakistan
23 Nov 15
@yalul070 it is called mindfulness in modern psychology, unfortunately I have never been able to make it a part of my life
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Feb 16
thats there are many w ay s for m e to be happy even if I cannot run all over G ods W onderful wo rld.
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@amnabas (14877)
• Karachi, Pakistan
23 Nov 15
Yes little things teaches you so much one should learn from it.
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@yalul070 (1712)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Nov 15
indeed. it's what we call mindfulness according to @funtool