How short should shorts be?

@mnjhun1 (226)
Peru
January 9, 2016 10:34pm CST
I'm half asian and half latina. I've lived most of my years in Asia and from my hometown, people are more conservative than here in Peru. Though I try to adapt or at least get used to the culture, there are just some things that quite bother me. Other than the fact that latinas have bigger body size and evident curves, they are proud to show it in public. I admire their guts to wear tight jeans and low neck tops. If I were to wear that back in my hometown, people would be thinking I'm a hooker or something. But here, it's very normal. Women know they look good and they're owning it, which is great until... I was walking back home from work when I saw two teenage girls walking towards me. I remember so well that it was almost summer, so seeing them wearing summer clothes--very soft and light fabric for the top and shorts--I thought was normal. Just before they passed right by me, they had turned to the right to cross the road. For some reason I looked at them from behind and my eyes almost popped out of my eye sockets. Both of them were wearing shorts, right? One of them was wearing a pair of shorts that was sooo short, you can see her butt crease. That was just as short as an underwear to me. I've seen female singers and dancers wearing those really short shorts, especially those women who dance twerk on trap music. A lot of young people get inspired by the way celebs look and wear. But damn! That girl is only around 13 to 15. I wondered what her parents were thinking. Or, haven't they even noticed what she was wearing? I doubt that parents are unaware of the fact that Peru is one of the countries where men molesting women is something prevalent. But then again, I wonder if parents, especially mothers, like how they see their daughters being proud of their bodies to the point where they expose too much skin at a very young age. Mom is peruvian and yet she teaches us how to be discreet not only in our words and actions, but also in how we look. I bet Mom would tear those shorts and burn them if she were that girl's mother. Anyway, let me know what you think if you were that girl and/or her parent.
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11 responses
• United States
10 Jan 16
Too short. The rule was if you put your hands down to your sides - your shorts should be longer. I do own short shorts, but nothing ridiculously short where it'd show much! And if I do wear short shorts due to the weather being hot - I ensure my top is longer and covers my bum as I am self conscious.
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@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
I'd do exactly the same as u would.!
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• United States
10 Jan 16
@mnjhun1 Like the comment below, younger girls are growing up so darn fast! Many are even wearing make up sooner! And act older now a days also!
@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
@infatuatedbby so what would u do if u see your teenage daughter starting to wear make up and sexy clothes?
@DianneN (247105)
• United States
10 Jan 16
I feel the same as you do. So many young girls have no modesty or decency anymore. My son thought the girls he used to see at bars and clubs were disgusting in their tight, low cut, super short dresses. He and his friends wouldn't talk to them. Where are their parents???
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@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
I don't know if disgusting is the right term to describe them, but.. maybe the thought of how they would flirt and make out from one men to another and another doesn't suit your son's taste. But I guess that's good. He knows he can deserve someone better. I think it will be okay if a woman wears it for her partner alone to enjoy when they're alone together.
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@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
10 Jan 16
Dad would have had a fit if he would have seen that.
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@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
I wish there were more dads like yours in here xD
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• Vancouver, Washington
12 Jan 16
@mnjhun1 That's nasty.
@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
12 Jan 16
@softbabe44 how come?
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@Inlemay (17714)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
shorts say how short they must be - SHORT - however I dont like it when the butt hangs out - eeeek
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@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
They're better off wearing panties instead huh ?
@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
10 Jan 16
If you can see their butt cheeks hanging down then those shorts are WAY too short.
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@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
I thought so too
@JudyEv (326098)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Jan 16
I think such shorts are very provocative and just too short. And while men should keep their hands to themselves, there is no need for women to flaunt themselves as much as some do.
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@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
I couldn't agree more to that. Women have so many ways to look sexy even without exposing too much skin.
@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
I couldn't agree more to that. Women have so many ways to look sexy even without exposing too much skin.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
4 Mar 16
I believe women should be able to wear what they want with impunity However, some women sometimes dress in a very slutty fashion and I don't understand it. They don't look nice or cute or even fashionable. Why do they do this? Their self esteem must be non existent - poor things.
@sallypup (58048)
• Centralia, Washington
10 Jan 16
Girls are growing up too fast these days. They are no longer innocents. I wish they were. I hate seeing lingerie in stores and then realizing that the provocative undies are little ones who should not have figures that would fit in such garments. I don't understand this trend.
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@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
I have to say that parents should keep an eye on that. I met a girl whose mom talked to me one time and said how she kept on telling her daughter not to wear those short shorts but she never listens. I was like, "dear mother! who's got the authority here? u as a mother? or her?" But I just kept it to myself and tried telling her that she might wanna try getting rid of it secretly. xD
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@LLSummer (586)
• Guizhou, China
10 Jan 16
Firstly. I am so exceiting to find someone like you as peruvian. and as you said you are half Asian,haha,I am an Asian. to tell you the truth I am so happy to meet you on mylot.but now it is time for me to answer your question.in my view , as younger women or older they all need to pay more attention to what they wear .if we are going to go out we should wear something conservative in stead of something so exposed. I always feel sick if I meet some girsl like you described.
@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
Nice meeting u too I agree with what you wrote. I guess they can wear those short when they go to the beach xD
@vkm778 (52)
• India
10 Jan 16
we always wear such a clothes in which we feel comfortable..never mind about the people what they think...some people like short clothes while some people like long clothes but we can't wear short as well as long clothes at the same time...just go ahead with our own choice..
@vkm778 (52)
• India
10 Jan 16
@mnjhun1 yes..its also correct never cross the limit...finally we are the part of society & we should maintain the culture,respect etc...
@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
I believe there is a certain limit to everything including the freedom of choice. It's not really about not minding what other people say cuz sometimes those "other people" actually know what they're saying. I don't care if they're women at their 20s, but those young girls are only teenagers. I am no longer surprised why being a teenage mother is almost like a trend now here in Peru.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
As young girl growing up at home we were taught that a woman must cover up and dress in a decent way. We were taught that our bodies are a sanctuary and we should respect them. Mom never bought us revealing clothes and she was very strict. Sometimes as a child I would see our neighbours children wearing short clothes and stuff and I would want that, but knew mom would never allow that. Back then things were non-negotiable with my parents. They lead and you follow. Looking back now, I am very grateful about the values and self-love my parents instilled in me. Yes sometimes I wear shorts now, but in a decent way and cover up all the right places.
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@mnjhun1 (226)
• Peru
10 Jan 16
You're blessed with a great mother. It's good that you respected her decision and finally understand why. And that you being grateful to that, you're mother is blessed with a great daughter as well. She basically taught you self-respect. ^^
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