I Still Miss Her!~ Part Two
By celticeagle
@celticeagle (159710)
Boise, Idaho
January 21, 2016 8:46pm CST
One day after I had been back home about a month, just out of the blue, when we were emailing she told me I needed to return the articles I had stolen. What? I had not stolen anything from her. I had borrowed some movies off and on and had always returned them to their shelf within a day. I was always been respectful and careful of other people's things. We discussed it a little bit and all she would say is that she had found an article of jewelry and several movies missing after I had left. I had never even been in her room and she said that's where the article of jewelry had been. And, as far as the movies this women had hundreds of movies and never had catalogued any of them.
We didn't talk again for a few days. She emailed me one day and said that I needed to get these articles I supposedly stole from her back to her immediately or she was going to contact the sheriff. What!? I told her to go ahead because I knew I hadn't taken anything from her.
I didn't hear anything from her. I sent her one last email telling her how hurt I was and that after all these years for her to accuse really was insulting. I didn't want to hear from her again. That as far as I was concerned, under the circumstances, our friendship was over.
I had stayed at this women's previous houses many times and this sort of thing never came up. She had just moved into this house and had had some men help her that she had met online. If anyone stoled anything it was probably them.
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Those who were members of this site back in the early days may remember in 2009-10 when I posted a blog about the demise of a freindship after being accused of...
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@ElusiveButterfly (45939)
• United States
22 Jan 16
Sadly the ones that are most likely to be accused are those that are closest to them. I was accused by my grandmother of stealing and cashing a check that was left on her table. My heart was crushed.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45939)
• United States
22 Jan 16
@celticeagle knowing the devastating effects that Alzheimer's has on a person, I realize that she had the disease at that time but was undiagnosed.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Jan 16
That is sad. I seem to know how that feels.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Jan 16
@ElusiveButterfly ...How devastating. I think my paternal grandmother had this also. Back then it wasn't as easy to diagnose as it is now. And, misdiagnosing is just awful.
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@Sheilamarie78 (2586)
• Canada
22 Jan 16
I'm sad for you. I wonder why she was so sure it was you. That must have been hurtful.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Jan 16
I thought it was a joke at first. I don't steal. Very hurtful. And so many questions I will never have answered.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49202)
• United States
23 Jan 16
What a terrible feeling that must have been , to be falsely accused.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jan 16
Very terrible. After all we had gone through, how we knew each other felt about honesty and ethics. Very sad to think she would up and accuse me of something.
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
23 Jan 16
or she simply misplaced them
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jan 16
@Auntylou ...ANd she even admitted that but, still wasn't sure if I hadn't. Unreal!
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@Auntylou (4264)
• Oxford, England
27 Jan 16
@celticeagle I bet that this is what happened, either the guys misplaced her things or took them
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@MarshaMusselman (38715)
• Midland, Michigan
22 Jan 16
It does make more sense that those helping her would have taken the things. I was thinking before that it could also be one of her daughter's friends, although I didn't know how old that daughter even was. If young, then that wasn't the answer. But, people misplace things all the time.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Jan 16
Her daughter is ill and doesn't have any friends over. She has Limes disease or Lupos or something starts with an L. Don't remember.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Jan 16
@MarshaMusselman ...Yes, for her and her boyfriend who stays there too. Both have weird illnesses.
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@MarshaMusselman (38715)
• Midland, Michigan
22 Jan 16
@celticeagle I thought you bought something for her computer for her and her friends. I guess I may have to read that part over again, maybe I misunderstood or something.
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@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
23 Jan 16
I enjoy a good mystery so I 'm hooked. I feel a bit uncomfortable because sometimes the prince doesn't save the day, and I think or at least assume this is not going to end well, on to part three.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jan 16
No, it didn't. She justified her accusing me and it went downhill from there. Why would she want to strike up a friendship with someone again that she felt might have stolen from her? And, why would I want to be freinds again with someone that would accuse of stealing? Her accusation was insulting.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jan 16
@PainsOnSlate ...It was. I had all kinds of emotions. Even anger.
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@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
25 Jan 16
@celticeagle it must have been a point in your life where your heart was just torn out of your chest.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jan 16
That is a very good way to handle things. I wish she had handled this situation better.
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@Missmwngi (12926)
• Nairobi, Kenya
27 Jan 16
Sorry you got accused of something you did not do. It really hurts when told you did something that you know you did not
@JamesHxstatic (29343)
• Eugene, Oregon
25 Jan 16
How strange and unfair this was for you.
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@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jan 16
Thanks. And it still is strange. Why would she accuse me? I will never have answers and always wonder. I don't think she knows and I think she has some serious problems. I mean that in the nicest way too.
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