Do you consider swearing as offensive or bad?

@aju007 (1460)
Thiruvananthapuram, India
February 16, 2016 10:24am CST
Why? We all know its not considered as a good practice to swear with bad words. Today I had a talk with my friend about this. He is kind of cool with swears and do them frequently. I dont like it when he does that and said him not do this. But today he asked me why is it considered offensive? Why is it considered bad in our society? I couldnt answer him. I dont know how to explain it. Its more like a feeling, right? What do you think? How can I answer him?
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
Some people swear because it is their own expression. It sounds not good to hear but some people cannot control in uttering such ill words.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Feb 16
But that expression by them wont give a good impression on others. I think atleast for people like me. I hate them.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
16 Feb 16
I don't think that swearing is ever necessary and that when someone resorts to swearing then they have lost the point of a conversation. They could have used other more accepted words ro get their point across surely?
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Feb 16
Yeah thats it. There is no need of a swear to express their point.
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@sofssu (23662)
18 Feb 16
It just shows lack of good upbringing to me. I guess young people think its cool to use swear words.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
18 Feb 16
You are right. The upbringing plays an important role.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
16 Feb 16
this is part of live.We have swearing all over the TV and movies. Swearing does not bother me.Depending on the subject we are talking about.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Feb 16
Yeah TV and movies have influenced a lot. Even my friends seems to swear in english who usually dont use such bad words in our mother toungue.
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
19 Feb 16
I swear like a trooper! but, I do watch my P & Qs when am with the sensitive. For me if the choice was between swearing like a trooper to vent your anger.. or punch someone on the face.. I'll take swearing any days.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
19 Feb 16
Yeah should look around before you respond like that.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
18 Feb 16
Swearing in writing is fine but too much of it annoys me greatly. I don't like hearing swear words. And how to explain to your friend why you find it so offensive. why don't you give them the meaning of those words and then explain to them why they are offensive.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
18 Feb 16
Yeah I was just thinking about that. I should have asked this at that time itself.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
17 Feb 16
Hi, I think i depends a lot on our upbringing. If we were taught that swearing was wrong and don't do it ourselves , we will find it offensive.It is frowned upon in polite society. I don't care for it myself. Blessings.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Feb 16
Yeah the environment we were bought up does play a great role in this. If this is practice is common among the households they will have an increased probability in copying them. I think I have never been familiar with this. So its kind of frustrating for me to hear it.
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
17 Feb 16
@aju007,Perhaps because it makes the atmosphere nauseating by violating civilized social norms.I,too,know persons who hurl abuses while speaking or talking to someone.They care two hoots what others are feeling.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Feb 16
True, some people just dont care what others are feeling when they hear this.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
18 Feb 16
@aju007 Yes,and when they start uttering filthy words,I leave.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
25 Feb 16
There really isn't anything wrong (exactly) with swearing... Some people use it as emphasis to what they are saying and mean nothing else by it.... Some people use it for shock value and don't mean anything else by it... Once in a while you find someone who does mean something when they swear... You might tell him that while it is okay for him to use swear words when he is with people who have no problem with them, you find them offensive and would prefer he not say them around you. (Don't say something like: Don't say them or I will quit being your friend! I would drop you like a hot potato if you dared me like that and I know many others would, too.) Asking him to make an effort in your presence isn't being too pushy or demanding on the friendship. It would be seen as being courteous towards you. I hope that helps!
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
25 Feb 16
Thanks for the effort. And infact I told him about this in a mild way and he seems like agreed on that and now is quite careful when he speaks, lol
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
25 Feb 16
@aju007 A Someone beat me to that suggestion, didn't they? I should really read what everyone else says on these, but I don't want what they say to taint my thoughts and therefore the way I word something. If it is not in my own words, then I feel like it is not my actual untainted thoughts. Well, as long as it is taken care of in a way you find satisfactory, then I have no more to say about it. You are welcome. Maybe I can help you another time.
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@JudyEv (326098)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb 16
I hope someone comes up with a good answer as I find it hard to give a reason. If in the company of older people, many would find it offensive and disrespectful so that in itself is good reason not to swear in front of older people.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Feb 16
Yes ofcourse, and also its not good to do with the younger people too.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60485)
• Perth, Australia
14 Mar 16
Personally, I don't really care if someone swears unless they are calling me a bad name / word. Because then that literally is them trying to offend me. But otherwise I don't care. Unless it's a child, then that just doesn't seem right.
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@aju007 (1460)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
15 Mar 16
My friend use these words to express his feelings. He dont call names. None will entertain it if he is called names. I dont like both of them.
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• Perth, Australia
16 Mar 16
@aju007 That's fair enough. Not everyone likes to hear swear words.