Parents Spanking Habit

@wiLLmaH (8801)
Singapore, Singapore
February 19, 2016 8:18pm CST
I am the youngest and I never experienced spanked by my mom. She told me she's tired doing that because she already done all the beatings to my three siblings. Haha! My father is burnt out of that system too and I just received a 2 hits only from him on my entire childhood. He beat me but it really gave me good reason not to throw tantrums again, or forever in front of him. Haha! How painful? Do you know the wooden and plastic back scratcher? It was broken in to two when it lands on my butt. I remember the the feeling! Have you experienced this? What they use to you?
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 16
My father used a leather belt on me.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
23 Feb 16
Ouch...that is tough..
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
23 Feb 16
@wiLLmaH ..still unforgivable because the child's brain is not as developed as that of an adult to understand everything.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Feb 16
That is the most popular one or maybe because it is the most accessible when the parents get really mad at their child. haha.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
20 Feb 16
I did get spanking from my Dad because naughtiness was in me then. Oh well, that was good because I became a better person.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Feb 16
Yep. I think spanking when a child commits a mistake is must.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
20 Feb 16
@wiLLmaH the rod of correction takes away foolishness in the heart of a child. But of course spanking should be done properly, it is meant to correct not to injure the child badly.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Feb 16
@salonga very true. But now some parents go beyond the necessary hitting to the extend that it will kill their child
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
23 Feb 16
Ouch ! That one is wood so it's painful . Our father would spank us with his belt , if he discovers we told a lie or if we siblings quarrel with each other . Ouch also .
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
24 Feb 16
@wiLLmaH Or it could be that the wood was not that hard .
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
24 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD haha! Okay benefit of the doubt.. haha!
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
24 Feb 16
that back scratcher from Baguio was broken in to two.. see how hard my butt is.. hehe
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@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
20 Feb 16
No, I have never been spanked with "objects", no leather belt or anything similar. My father never hit me.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Feb 16
You're such an angel.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
21 Feb 16
@LadyDuck My mom told to my siblings with kids that if they want to spank their child, use hands. For them to feel the pain they are giving to their child.
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@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
20 Feb 16
@wiLLmaH My mother has spanked me a couple of times, she used her hands only.
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@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
20 Feb 16
yep, haha. slippers :))
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Feb 16
Rambo or Islander? hehe
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Feb 16
@Lucky15 ouchie. Does it produced a bruises on the day after?
@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
20 Feb 16
@wiLLmaH beach walk
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
23 Feb 16
I was a well-behaved child, smart and intelligent too. I am naughty, very much so lol but I was also one of those good girls that didn't get caught when they were being bad. Even if they did, their innocent disposition and innocent looking face backed up with their all around good behavior pretty much got me a sure escape... But I did get slapped once by my father in my teens. That slap had ignited my temper more and I had exploded further. lol For the very first time I had shouted at my father. I don't condone physical punishments. I have told him as such that not to do that again. He can yell at me all he want but no hitting. One fierce or disapproving look is enough for me to realize my mistake...
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
23 Feb 16
There is in a teenage years that makes us feel that we are always right and our parents are wrong. Right? Got to zoom your photo. Yeah! You have this innocent/angelic face :)
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
23 Feb 16
@wiLLmaH Yeah!! We are running on hormones then so are easily angered too. Moody and temperamental. lol thanks... Looks can be deceiving you know. Eyes are the ones that tell all your secrets...
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• Preston, England
22 Feb 16
my mum slapped me a lot - my dad threatened me with his belt but never actually used it - the threat was enough
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
22 Feb 16
You bet. my father's angry look is enough for me to stop my naughtiness. Haha! I thought in Western country spanking is prohibited.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
20 Feb 16
I do experience this. Eventually it had changed through the years and parents are not allowed to do this anymore.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Feb 16
Is it? In Philippines it is not allowed?
@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
22 Feb 16
I wouldn't call what we got as kids as beatings at all. But we did get spankings when we misbehaved. As we got older, we would be put on restriction instead which meant we had to stay in our room, no TV and we usually couldn't use our stereo for a couple of weeks.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
22 Feb 16
In Philippines being grounded is not as usual thing to do. Because not too many kids have their own room, have thier stereos or computer/laptop.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
23 Feb 16
@wiLLmaH I can understand that and it wouldn't make much sense to ground anyone.
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@rakski (156303)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
I used hanger for my son but not for his butt, to hit something to make a sound that will get his attention. He has speech and some developmental delays and a little hyper so whenever he have tantrums that I get the hanger so he knows that I am angry already and he will somehow stop. Nowadays, I do not need anything I just need to make sure he hears my voice clearly and loudly. He can understand better now.
@rakski (156303)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
oooohh..... painful. mine is slipper only. I am quite a good girl.
@DianneN (254949)
• United States
22 Feb 16
We never beat our sons. My mother spanked me once with the big black belt, reserved for my two brothers, when I was five. My dad slapped me in the mouth only once when I was a teenager. I had a fat lip from it, and skipped school the next day. However, I deserved that slap.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
23 Feb 16
I was slapped too by my dad when mom informed him that I answered back to her. That is on my teens too. :) One slap is enough for me to learn a lesson. A hard slap! Whew!
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
23 Feb 16
@wiLLmaH Lesson learned! Ouch!!!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Feb 16
I was spanked a lot as a kid. Mom had a board she used as a paddle.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
22 Feb 16
Ouchie! Hehe! :)
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
19 Mar 16
I recall my mother hit me and it is still in my mind. I love her so much but I cannot forget what she did to me when I was still a kid. I sometimes hit the buttocks of my children with my belt when I found out that he is playing games in an internet shop.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Mar 16
i believe it is because you were basically a child that needed not much spanking because you easily learned the lesson of not being well disciplined.
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
23 Feb 16
No objects, but received plenty of beatings from my parent. I have received caning too from nuns...and knuckle braking with wooden foot ruler.