His Heart Broke Into Pieces: Can You Help Him?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
April 4, 2016 10:41am CST
Some people cannot handle the situation in terms of having a relationship. This morning, a friend of mine is so furious about what had happened with his girlfriend. I am not sure if they are still in a relationship since two months ago, my friend broke up with his partner through a text message. The girlfriend didn’t react at all and say nothing with the break up. Not until, my friend saw the profile picture of his girlfriend with a new boyfriend as he claimed.
My friend has its troubled soul and keeps on saying, it is not fair. Why does his girlfriend had a quick phase of having a new boyfriend? I couldn’t say anything but to wonder. They had been more than 2 years in a relationship and found a new love life just 2 months after the break up. In fact, there is no formal break up. What do you think? Does my friend has the right to feel so sentimental about it? Do you think he was being betrayed?
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11 responses
@birjudanak (14316)
• India
4 Apr 16
first of all sorry for your friend break up but this is not true love because if its true they have good understanding as they not break up by message and if it done then its very difficult to find other same but she find it very easily and your friend still in pain so its good your friend leave her on herself...
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 16
@birjudanak You have a point here my dear friend. Actually, my friend was trying to test his girlfriend for the break up situation. Since he felt that his girlfriend had changed towards him. He even felt suspicious when his girlfriend didn't even reacted in the break up per se.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 16
@birjudanak I agree. It was like nothing happened for having 2 years relationship.
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@birjudanak (14316)
• India
5 Apr 16
@Shavkat yes but its not good to breakup easily like this...
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@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
8 Apr 16
I think it is just pride and male ego that has crushed by the action of the ex-gf. lol. 
pardon me. But firstly, your friend broke up with just a text message. I do not think that anyone in a right mind should do that if you value and respect your gf. Now after two months, he felt betrayed? The bf broke up the relationship, the gf moved on. He should moved on. This is what he likes in the first place, right? 
pardon me. But firstly, your friend broke up with just a text message. I do not think that anyone in a right mind should do that if you value and respect your gf. Now after two months, he felt betrayed? The bf broke up the relationship, the gf moved on. He should moved on. This is what he likes in the first place, right? 1 person likes this
@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
10 Apr 16
I think your friend should definitely move on - show the ex that he can be happy too.
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@JudyEv (382146)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr 16
If he broke up with the girl, why is he complaining now? For all the girl knew, the guy could have been in a new relationship immediately. I think your friend is unrealistic and just plain wrong to think the girl should not be going with someone else as soon as she likes. Just sayin'....
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 16
@JudyEv I heard from him that his girlfriend was pushing him away. Since it is a long distance affair, the girlfriend changed a lot. My friend tried to save the relationship, so he test the girlfriend to have a break up. The girlfriend didn't even ask why. After a few months time, my friend known from her that she's waiting to let my friend feel the difference and to lessen the guilt of breaking up him. She waited for my friend to do the moves and learned that she is seeing someone prior to the break up.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
4 Apr 16
We all go through our ups and downs. Your friend just needs to stay positive.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 16
@carebear29 I agree. I think this is the worst pain he had experienced in his life. I am sure he can pass through it.
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@destimona (1910)
• Luxembourg, Luxembourg
4 Apr 16
Nowadays nobody can predict where is true love.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
5 Apr 16
@destimona I think true love does exist with the right person. But then, we really cannot predict who is the right one.
@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
4 Apr 16
Your friend has no one to blame but himself. He didn't even have the courage to end the relationship face to face with his girlfriend but instead use text messaging. Now he is furious because the girl decided to move on with her life? Advice your friend to grow up and stop being childish.
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