Help, I'm Stuck!

@moffittjc (128831)
Gainesville, Florida
April 12, 2016 6:57am CST
On a school field trip to St. Augustine, Florida (the nation's oldest city) several years ago, I chaperoned so that I could spend some time with my daughter. I was grouped with five middle school girls (yes, I survived!), and after a full day of exploring the 450 year old town, the school group reconvened at a large playground near where the buses would be picking us up. When it was time to board the buses and head home. the teachers came up one child short on the count. Repeated counts kept coming up one short. It didn't take us long to figure out who the missing child was, but finding him proved to be a much more daunting task. Finally, after fanning out and searching around the downtown area of the city, a woman came up to us and said there was a kid stuck underneath one of the playground pieces. I went over to take a look with another teacher, and sure enough, it was our missing kid. There was a part of the playground where the mulch underneath had either been dug out or worn away, but it created a small crawl space to get under the playground. This boy crawled in and got stuck. To avoid embarrassing this child any further than he already was, I asked the teacher to gather everyone and head back to the bus, and my daughter and I would stay with the child and figure out how we would get him out of there. After assessing the situation, the only solution was to dig, to create a hole big enough we could drag the kid out. My daughter and I got down on our hands and knees and started digging. It took us a good 30 minutes, but we finally created a space big enough to grab the boy by his feet and drag him backwards out of his captive hole. This particular boy was one of the largest in his class, and considered a "tough guy." Not a bully, mind you, but one of those kids who seem to be completely fearless. But when we pulled him out of that hole underneath the playground, he was balling his eyes out! Not wanting the other kids to see him that way, I gave my daughter some money and told her to go buy a couple of bottles of water, and then I took the boy to the bathroom to clean him up a bit. He had dirt all over him! When we finally got him looking somewhat presentable, we headed back to the bus. I told both him and my daughter not to mention what happened to anyone on the bus, and that we would say he was shopping and had just lost track of time. We got back on the bus and I gave the "made-up" story to the teacher in charge. I said it loudly enough that the other students could hear. I then gave the teacher a look and a nod, and she gave me a nod back, indicating that she understood what I was doing to save the boy embarrassment. Thankfully, after a long day, almost everyone slept on the 1.5 hour bus ride back home. I thought of this story when I ran into the boy yesterday. He is now in high school, and judging by his size, probably a linebacker on the high school football team. Let's hope he's learned his lesson and doesn't go around crawling into tight spaces anymore! With his current size, I don't think I could pull him out of any more tight spots! lol
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@JudyEv (381931)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Apr 16
I can't help wondering if he is left with any feelings of claustrophobia about being stuck in a hole for so long.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Apr 16
If it did, I haven't heard or seen any indication of him having claustrophobia. Maybe he's afraid of playgrounds now though! lol
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
14 Apr 16
@JudyEv It's quite possible! But he was a good kid, I'm sure he learned his lesson. It probably was a humbling experience for him, to say the least.
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@JudyEv (381931)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Apr 16
@moffittjc Maybe he is too thick to have had any repercussions from his silly action.
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• United States
12 Apr 16
I lost a kid in Heidelberg once on a school trip. He had zigged when the rest of us zagged. When he looked up, we were gone. After this, we devised a procedure for anyone who got lost.( it never happened again on any foreign trip). I wasn't really worried, since all of the kids spoke German and knew how to get back to the hotel. It was an interesting experience.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Apr 16
For the five girls in my group I was chaperoning, the first thing we did was come up with our plan for if any of us got separated. We picked one central spot in the area we were in that was easily visible from all over town, and said that if anyone got lost or separated, they would go to this spot and wait. If someone was lost, we knew that was the spot to look. Fortunately, I didn't lose any of my group the whole day, as they stuck together like glue the whole time.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
14 Apr 16
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• United States
13 Apr 16
@moffittjc This is great. The boy I lost had stopped outside of a museum to change the film in his camera (back when kids used cameras that required film). No one noticed. When he finished, we had walked down the street and turned into a restaurant. He didn't see us do that, and did not find us until I sent out hunting parties to look for him. From then on, we had the rule, if you are lost, go back to the last place we were all together. Wait for 30 minutes. If no one comes, go back to the hotel.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
12 Apr 16
Oh boy look out he might need you to pull him out of a tough situation. lol That was so nice of you to save him from being embarassed like that and to take the time to pull him out of there, you and your daughter I should say.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 Apr 16
@moffittjc If she had told anyone I am sure it would have been the talk of the school.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Apr 16
I told my daughter never to say anything about it to anyone, and to this day she has kept quiet about it. Surprisingly, she didn't even tell her best friend, or at least not that I know of.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
14 Apr 16
@Marcyaz You are right, but I find it difficult to believe she didn't tell anyone, including her best friend!
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@MandaLee (3804)
• United States
13 Apr 16
Wow, you were such a helpful chaperone.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Apr 16
I was the only male chaperone on the trip, and I knew someone was going to have to get dirty to dig that kid out. I didn't want any of the teachers to have to get dirty doing it, so I figured I would just jump in and take care of it.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
12 Apr 16
Wow! The poor little guy. That had to have been a horrible experience for him. That was really awesome of you to keep your calm and save him (physically and emotionally).
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
13 Apr 16
@moffittjc LOL. Maybe he will become a magician, electrician, or air conditioner repair man. HAHAHA That was just amazing to me.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Apr 16
He was by no means a little kid, but the space he was able to crawl into, and the area underneath the playground he got stuck in, was tiny compared to this kid. Somehow, he seemed to defy the laws of physics and squeeze more body mass into an area that by all means shouldn't have been able to support such mass! I was impressed with his ability to squeeze through that little tiny opening!
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
14 Apr 16
@mommaj I vote for him to become a magician! The world needs more of them!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
26 May 16
You know.....I always enjoy reading your discussions. But there are times when I think...wow, you're just such a lovely person. I mean I already thought about this not long after we met but the more I read about you the more I think about it. Good on you for doing something so absolutely sweet. Same goes for your daughter! Just everything you both did was very kind.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
26 May 16
Awww, thanks Dani! That was sweet of you to say that! You just made my day! I'm pretty sure you just made me blush!
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• Perth, Australia
31 May 16
@moffittjc No worries.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Apr 16
Most people don't care about saving a child from embarrassment so that was so awesome of you! Your an amazing person to do that for him and I hope one day he thanks you for doing that.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Apr 16
Although he seemed to be well-liked by all his classmates, he was very overweight at the time of that field trip, so I'm sure he already had self-esteem issues due to his body weight, so no need to give the other kids another reason to laugh at him (although I'm sure they wouldn't have been laughing at him in a mean, hurtful way). By the way, when I ran into this kid this past weekend, he was all muscle.
@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
12 Apr 16
30 minutes of digging with your bare arms and fingers - whew! i guess it was a learning experience for your daughter, too.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Apr 16
It was just hard to dig in the small confined space we were in. It took so long because I didn't have a lot of room to maneuver in.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
12 Apr 16
Good for you there.Not easy some time
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@gudheart (12659)
12 Apr 16
That is something that always scares me and not sure I would feel really comfortable letting me kids go out on school trips at young ages.
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@IvySaysHi (4603)
• United States
12 Apr 16
lol was he on the big side as a kid?
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
13 Apr 16
To put it nicely, he was a big-boned kid!
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@JESSY3236 (22247)
• United States
14 Apr 16
That's a cool story. When I was little, we had a field trip to a zoo, and a girl (not me) stuck her hand in the monkey cage. The girl wasn't bully either, but she was a little know it all. She still is too.
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@Ruby3881 (1963)
• Canada
13 Apr 16
How fortunate he was to have you looking out for him. Sounds like you saved his dignity from a crushing blow.
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