A chance missed...
By Toni
@toniganzon (77261)
Philippines
April 22, 2016 10:23pm CST
"I'm here too. I'll visit you there. I get off work at 4pm!" This was a message I got from a handsome man after he saw a video I posted of my son doing a jump dive in Malumpati Cold Spring.
He was my high school crush and he never knew it, or maybe i thought he didn't. We went to the same university too and lived in the same dormitory. Sometimes in the evening we would take a walk to the football field and talked about our university life. But we never had any romantic relationship.
He's a doctor now and he's working in a hospital near the cold spring, but we missed the chance to see each other as we left at 11am. 
Some things are just not meant to be...sometimes.
Some things are just not meant to be...sometimes.20 people like this
19 responses
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@toniganzon Not anymore I guess because you're now attached and he must be too :)
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
Sounds interesting :) Good material for a telenovela LOL!
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@sunrisefan right but I don't like that 
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@toniganzon That's what the fans would be tickled about.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@MGjhaud not sure our schedule would permit. There's. 10/100 chance
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
I wish we had the time to meet yesterday coz we had a lot of catching up to do.
As to my previous feelings for him, it was just a crush. Never wished to end up with him romantically. Our personalities clash. 
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@lilnana1111 (2305)
• United States
24 Apr 16
@toniganzon If it's meant to be, it will happen.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
just when you thought...... it was not meant to be...
... it was not meant to be...1 person likes this
@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@ridingbet at that very moment? NO. The reminiscing happened only when i was writing this article. 
I had to remember our past so i have something to write about.
I had to remember our past so i have something to write about.1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@toniganzon and indeed it is an interesting discussion to talk about and share.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@toniganzon so there were some reminiscing of the past, right? even revealing that he was your crush that time. did that happen?
@gochunehal (782)
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23 Apr 16
Yahh something are just not meant to be.. But whatever happens with is meant to be,and its a great thing.. You remember him is a great thing.. Actually i dont remenber person much, if he was a crush then also ??
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
You forget your crushes? They must haven't left a good impression on you.
@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@gochunehal so why had a crush on them? Uninteresting people never catch my attention
@gochunehal (782)
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23 Apr 16
@toniganzon yah!! All crushes of mine are ok... They were not so interesting...????
@allen0187 (59828)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
There will be other times goddess. Don't worry!
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
I believe so like I believe our time will come someday
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
2 May 16
Maybe he is your soul mate? I have read that we can have many soul mates. And it does not mean that if a person is our soul mate, he will be the one you will marry.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
2 May 16
No way. I'm too old for soul mates and I have found mine already hahaha. He's already married with three kids. And I have no romantic feelings for him whatsoever.
@kevin1877uk (36987)
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23 Apr 16
@toniganzon Maybe you will do, only time will tell on that one.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
Right. Will probably have that chance to meet again someday and do some catching up.
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
2 May 16
oh, you never know destiny. it happens to all of us, but as for me I don't think i can ever have one.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
2 May 16
Why do you say you don't have one. A destiny doesn't have to be a person.
@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
2 May 16
@toniganzon well, i missed my chance too.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
not regretful at all. This just came up because I wanted something to write about.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
there was no kilig factor actually when i got his message. I just felt good knowing we could have met and talked about our past.1 person likes this
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
@toniganzon i was the one who got kilig.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
The message did. We haven't seen each other for ages and it would have been nice if we did yesterday. We would have a lot of catching up to do.
@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
Yeah maybe. Not that important. We both live our independent lives now. It was just good to know we had that chance to meet and could have done some catching up.
@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
Yup.... sometimes... awwww!
But there could be another chance. 
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
23 Apr 16
Let's hope for that. It would be good to catch up with an old friend.
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