Do you get annoyed if you take time to read someones post, but they don't do the same?

@gudheart (12659)
June 21, 2016 8:27am CST
I personally don't get offended or annoyed as I know how hard it can be sometimes to keep up with notifications when we have a busy life and work as well. I do however don't like the ones that literally don't read any posts and just create posts, but I am happy to say there are not many that do that here anymore. Are you understanding or do get annoyed?
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jun 16
The people who only create posts and never interact by responding to others posts will never generate earnings. Much of myLot is prid pro quo.
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@gudheart (12659)
21 Jun 16
I agree, I think they realise shortly after that they are not earning much and leave the site not knowing the real way to earn!
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@akalinus (40396)
• United States
21 Jun 16
I think people lose interest if someone post and never respond. There are too many other conversations going on to waste time on someone who only posts discussions and does not get involved with other people.
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
@akalinus I agree, no point wasting time on them!
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jun 16
I think sometimes it depends on many things. Such as the language and different culture can be a barrier for people to read and comment some discussions. As they have no idea about what it is about, and they can not say something to it.
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• United States
22 Jun 16
@youless Hey I remember you. I think I remember you from 2008! Long time.
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
That is true, did not think of that before.
@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
@Druscilla034 I was not here then, so much be Youless you are talking about :D
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Jun 16
There is no question of getting annoyed. I respond to such posts which appeal to me and I could contribute something on those posts. When I start a post, I do not expect every follower to read and respond to my post, it is their choice, I leave it to them.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
23 Jun 16
@gudheart - Thanks dear. I do not believe in getting annoyed or doing anything which could raise my B.P.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
23 Jun 16
@dpk262006 I'm trying to think of things that might raise BP. :-)
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
That is a great view to have :D
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• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Jun 16
I do understand that real life happens to all of us. We cannot all be here 24/7. We all do the best we can here and I get that 100%.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jun 16
@gudheart I am the same way. =) I always get to everyone eventually.
@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
I am the same. I have such a busy life with work etc that I don't always have time to respond straight away, but I do eventually respond!
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• Raipur, India
21 Jun 16
I do feel bad sometimes because of the fact that some posts simply get ignored and other posts like good morning/night gets a lot of attention. Whenever I post something which I really put a thought to gets ignored.
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
I can understand that, it is happened to me before too.
• Raipur, India
22 Jun 16
@gudheart I guess we all have felt them same when we are starting out.
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• India
21 Jun 16
I never mind, if someone did not read my work, as reading others work give me a pleasure, other people have their own preferences
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@gudheart (12659)
21 Jun 16
That is a nice way to look it at it :D I agree.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
I don't really get annoyed but certainly I don't read anymore the posts of those persons who do not know how to return favors.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@gudheart Yes waste of time because our purpose here is interaction and of course we want interaction in our own posts also after interacting in others
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
I can understand that. Is waste of time really isn't it.
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@vandana7 (98658)
• India
22 Jun 16
No. Not at all. But I have to admit, I don't manage to read all posts of my friend. Off and on. I am kind of busy right now. But I do intend to keep in touch with all my friends here. :)
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
I am the same it is hard to find time to do so.
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@Vjvals (906)
• Roseville, California
22 Jun 16
Many will give a response when you comment but will not read your post in return (these are from people that chose to follow you first and not the other way round, so I guess they want your responses mostly No I don't get annoyed because I know that human nature is basically self-centered for one and the other is that I always have the mindset to each their own and I'll handle it in my own way.
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
True, each to their own.
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• United States
22 Jun 16
I am not following any members on here, so I don't get notifications. But that's really the reason why I'm not following anyone...I don't like all the notifications. I just browse myLot and answer random discussions whether I know the person or not. That way, there's no hard feelings. I particularly enjoy hanging out in the "new user" discussions and "discussions with no responses." I do it to help people out. We all know how it feels to start a discussion and it just SITS THERE with no responses...and then you go to bed hoping some people will answer it while you're asleep....and then you wake up and you see that STILL nobody has answered your discussion....so you get all mad and start throwing things around your room. (J. Kidding) But I DO know how it feels.....so usually when I see a discussion just sitting there with 0 responses, I'm the best gal for the job. I guess I just do it to be helpful, plus, I'm a little paranoid about answering the bigger, more popular discussions with tons of responses...always afraid I'll repeat someone else's response because I'm wayyyy too lazy to read thru them all.
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
That is a interesting way to interact :D As long as it works for you :D
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
21 Jun 16
I don't really get annoyed, but I don't understand it, either.
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
I do understand to a point, as not everyone as time to reply and read everyone one's post but I think there should be a good balance between the two.
@akalinus (40396)
• United States
22 Jun 16
@gudheart The important thing is to do it when you can. Life happens and we can't be here all the time.
@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jun 16
Ya I do get annoyed sometimes but that's very rare. :)
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
I can see why. Yep at least is a rarity.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
23 Jun 16
@gudheart Yeah. :)
@rina110383 (24495)
22 Jun 16
I don't mind at all. I stopped creating posts in April. So, I just respond to some. I don't mind if they don't comment back.
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
Why did you stop? I think it is important to also carry on posting some too, otherwise we can't comment on many posts :(
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@Kinnian03 (192)
22 Jun 16
I dont think id go as far as "getting annoyed" unless youve actually constantly tried talking to this person and he/she never replies back but you still see that person post other stuffs lol
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
Yep, it can be slightly annoying if that happens.
23 Jun 16
@gudheart i believe the whole point of this thing is to be active and to engage with people.. i only joined a few days ago and im honestly enjoying it.. the people here are sooo nice and they have such good concept in life none of them fu€k boys in IG and FB hahaha
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
22 Jun 16
I'm not annoyed, but will be thankful if they read our post, rather than creates a post, but in my mind is, if they are really busy, they won't be here, even to create a new discussion, sharing and commenting will be value
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
Yep, it is nice that sometime took time to reply or comment.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
22 Jun 16
@gudheart No I do not get annoyed.In fact I do not think about these things.
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
That is nice to hear :D
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• United States
22 Jun 16
I don't let myself get annoyed by those who only post and never read or comment.
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
That is the way to be :D
@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
22 Jun 16
If i realize soomeone is just creating post after post and not reading most posts, l will only read or reply very few of their posts, whay should their post be interesting if/when other people`s posts are not interesting to them?
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
Yep, I agree. I usually only respond to posts from comments I receive as I don't have time to search.
@Marchy (99)
22 Jun 16
It's okay for me because I'm also not sure if I'm making an interesting discussion. I also just read the discussion where I can relate.
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
That is okay. As long as it interesting to yourself I am sure others will also find it interesting.
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• Philippines
22 Jun 16
I don't mind at all. I enjoy reading other posts. I guess that what it's all about, having fun and interact more.
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@gudheart (12659)
22 Jun 16
Yep I agree, it all about the fun of interacting :D
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