Shopping Is The Best Way to Unwind. What do you think?

shopaholic
@Shavkat (137261)
Philippines
June 22, 2016 7:52am CST
Some women are so addicted to shopping. For them, shopping is the best way to unwind. Would you agree? I have some few girl friends who really loved buying things in the mall. Credit cards are being used when they purchase things. A girl friend of mine is in debt for such past time activity. She maxed all the money for shopping. At present, she pays her due in monthly basis. And she is also whining about the arguments with her husband about overspending of money. As she claimed that shopping is a way for her to feel relax. Is it really a lifestyle syndrome to do shopping? Photo Credit: pixabay.com
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
22 Jun 16
I wouldn't say that shopping is relaxing at all. In fact, I hate shopping!
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Jun 16
@marlina, you are right, shopping is not relaxing, but tiring.It is waste of time.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@marlina I hate shopping too. I don't like roaming around the mall. It is too tiring for me. @cacay1 I totally agree with you, my friend.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
18 Sep 16
@marlina Seconded. I only go shopping when I need something.
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@LadyDuck (460454)
• Switzerland
22 Jun 16
For me shopping is stressing and not at all relaxing. I think that for some women it is an addiction, like gambling for men.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@LadyDuck I also find it tiring too. If some of my close friends will have this kind of plan, I will just apologize and go home.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@responsiveme I guess this is what makes them feel relieved from stress?
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• India
22 Jun 16
@LadyDuck for me too but my husband loves to shop and so does my father.
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• United States
22 Jun 16
It is if I have the money to do so lolz
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@TiarasOceanView It is fun to swipe the credit cards.lol How are you? It has been a long time.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@TiarasOceanView It is nice to hear that. Keep smiling!
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• United States
22 Jun 16
@Shavkat It is fun, but not fun to pay afterwards lolz..fine thank you so much for asking Shavkat..hope you also are doing okay my dear friend. Nice to see you as always.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Jun 16
Shopping is also like a disease hard to stop hehehe.usually girls have this as outlet to unwind.This is not my style to unwind, but to go to the sea and enjoy watching the waves of the vast ocean , It seems they want to rock my world.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@cacay1 I like the idea going to the seaside and listen to the waves.
@JudyEv (326777)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jun 16
I know many women like to go shopping but it doesn't work for me. I would not really be happy buying clothes that I didn't really need.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@JudyEv I can't buy things that I don't need. It is a waste of money.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
That is the trouble with some people who could not control their desire for shopping using credit cards. Later they would realize they had spent so much for those material things, then they worry about paying it.
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Jun 16
@acelawrites, that is insanity do shopping emptying the credit card only to suffer debt hard to pay. Debt of a credit card doubles every 2 years.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@acelawrites I agree. I also cannot understand some people who used to do this kind of lifestyle. At the end, they are feeling regretful. @cacay1 That's the reason I never avail any credit cards. I don't like to fall into temptations.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
Shopping has not been one of my favorite thing to do even I am a woman. I just buy things that are necessary. I do not care if I wear same clothes for different ocassions. I love casual wears and if I have a dress, those are gifts from my boyfriend, same with gadgets too. My only vices are books and travels.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@Shavkat It is the same with me. I am not really into fashion. So once everyone see me in new clothes, all of them release an expression of "Wow!"
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@annierose Close friends will notice you. Well, I think we just need to be practical. I am into fashion trends too.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@annierose I guess there are only a few woman like you. Some are so materialistic and cannot find ways to control oneself. I also don't mind wearing old clothes. As long as I am presentable in the eyes of people.
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• United States
22 Jun 16
Shopping helps me relax but I don't want to go in debt either so I moderate spendings I could afford.
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• United States
23 Jun 16
@Shavkat We should because being in debt, won't make us happy!
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@infatuatedbby That's the downside. I don't want to be in that position too.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@infatuatedbby I guess we really need to set limitations in shopping.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
I hate shopping but my girlfriend like shopping
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@tech40 I am sure you are supportive. But we can let them slow down in buying things.
@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@Shavkat Yeah I can't do anything because it's my girlfriend likes! :) so I'll just sit and wait haha
@sofssu (23662)
22 Jun 16
Nope I hate shopping.. I do it on;line if I have to.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@sofssu I think it is more convenient to buy online.
@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
22 Jun 16
This happens.My friend is addicted to shopping lol.I am a mediocre in this .
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@shubhu3 For me not to be bored with a friend having a shopping spree, I will entertain myself looking at this person how she so impulsive in buying things.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
23 Jun 16
@Shavkat That's great.My friend since we live a little far away,so whenever she does her shopping she usually use to tell me andeven at times send the photos of the things she has bought.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@shubhu3 She is really kind enough to share it with you. I guess that makes her happy in shopping. We just need to be supportive.
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• India
23 Jun 16
too much of shopping is addiction which is not good she should have other alternatives to relax
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@abhinalstrikr I hope she will realize that.
• India
27 Jun 16
@Shavkat sooner or later
• Philippines
24 Jun 16
I don't like shopping... It's not my way to unwind. I'd rather sleep.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@racchz_kisses I like sleeping too. lol
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• Philippines
27 Jun 16
@Kinnian03 (192)
22 Jun 16
I dont know about unwinding lol i sure feel tired but happy as hell when im done with the mall.. but i guess it make sense i know it sounds so materialistic but i enjoy it so much lol pretty stuffs makes us happy
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@Kinnian03 I guess it is a way to make you happy.
@nonersays (3329)
• United States
22 Jun 16
I don't find shopping very relaxing. I find it frustrating and it can make me sad. I don't buy things on credit unless it is a NEED. And we rarely have the cash for things that are not necessary, so shopping just makes me want things I can't afford and so don't buy.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@nonersays I agree. It is frustrating sometimes if we don't have extra cash for it.
@succeednow (1633)
• Singapore
27 Jun 16
You right that shopping is the best way to unwind for some people. That's why another word (or rather words) for shopping is "retail therapy".
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
28 Jun 16
For some people, it works for them. A simple reward for oneself makes them happy.
@JESSY3236 (19056)
• United States
23 Jun 16
In a way it can, but it will be a bad thing too because overspending money.
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
23 Jun 16
the best way to unwind is not spending too much money or not spending money anymore. no headaches!
@xtedax (109)
• Quezon City, Philippines
22 Jun 16
We are different from each other in so many ways. Some find shopping exhilarating and satisfying, while others prefer the comfort of their own homes. I consider myself the latter. I'm more of a home bud, and I would only go out to shop if I really needed something from the store. I guess your friend is already a shopaholic. I dunno if it's a real medical condition. But I guess it's what you call someone who is addicted to shopping and maxing out their credit cards to shop.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@xtedax I think it falls to a psychological problem and it depends on the severity. Well, I am also home buddy person. Most of the time, I just dribbling my fingers on the keyboard.
@puddleglum (1380)
• United States
22 Jun 16
Shopping actually makes me a little bored and uptight, which is a weird combination.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@puddleglum It is really boring especially if a person your are with is so slow to decided on what to buy.
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• United States
22 Jun 16
@Shavkat So true!