Mind the silence

@Lucky15 (37374)
Philippines
July 14, 2016 7:37am CST
During my silence, i am screaming. Sat down in a chair, where the table.is good.for four, and near the door. Best spot to contemplate. With a background song about moving on, my brain is moving too, wandering. Thinking of how lovely the cathedral is, with foreign tourists in front taking pictures. Then a tricycle caught my eye, oppss! Almost hit that parked motorbike. A man got in, who never bothered to hold the door for the two ladies next to him. Ahh, why some can not do that. With the crew of the fastfood i am.in, i saw the garbage bag filled with leftover fries. Sigh. During my silence, i can hear friends laughing and having fun while eating, something good is happening too. I should do this more often, stay in silence and just listen and let your eyes wander and have the brain do some talking. "Why are we embarrassed by silence? What comfort do we find in all the noise?"--- Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie
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@jaboUK (64350)
• United Kingdom
14 Jul 16
It's interesting to sometimes just sit and people watch.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Jul 16
I love to sit and people watch. I could spend a whole day in one area just watching. It is peaceful and very relaxing. I am never in a hurry at the airports or cruise terminals.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
@ramapo17 maybe i should.do that more often
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
And wonder what is on their mind too ;)
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@just4him (318791)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Jul 16
Wonderful contemplation. We need to sit in silence once in a while and yes, let our brain do the talking.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
16 Jul 16
I agree with you Valerie. People are so interesting and sometimes very funny without having them say anything to me.
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@just4him (318791)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Jul 16
@Lucky15 Yes it can.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
And brain can have a chat with our heart too.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Jul 16
sometimes its nice to be still and listen and watch the world go by, it quiets me and soothes.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Jul 16
@Lucky15 yes it can be fun to be quiet and just listen and watch
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
16 Jul 16
I agree 100% @Hatley.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
I agree pat ;)
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@LadyDuck (482845)
• Italy
14 Jul 16
I love silence, I do this many times. I sit in a bar or a restaurant and I observe the others, it's interesting.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
Indeed interesting ma'am and that wandering mind wonders ;)
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
16 Jul 16
@LadyDuck It is nice to know there are other people in the world that are like me. I find it interesting and peaceful and sometimes very funny.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
16 Jul 16
@Lucky15 Yes it does.
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@Shiva49 (27500)
• Singapore
14 Jul 16
The world around us is getting noisier by the day Silence is golden but can be deafening too for some. I can be alone but never feel lonely. It is good to take a breather to pause, ponder and reflect - siva
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
16 Jul 16
@Shiva49 Some people think I am crazy as I tell them I like silence. My husband doesn't understand me. I worked with the public all my life and I really appreciate silence sometimes.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
We can really be alone but won't e lonely ;)
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@Shiva49 (27500)
• Singapore
16 Jul 16
@ramapo17 I think even among couples who love each other very much, it is better to spend some time alone to understand ourselves better. I used to do that at my workplace too, go earlier than others to plan my schedules - siva
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@Daljinder (23235)
• Bangalore, India
14 Jul 16
I already do that. I prefer silence and am not even a tiny bit embarrassed by it.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
Grab the book dj..it is lovely ;)
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@DaddyEvil (158718)
• United States
15 Jul 16
Yup! Although, your avatar looks like it is ignoring everything said, right now...
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@Daljinder (23235)
• Bangalore, India
15 Jul 16
@Lucky15 ~ will do ~
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
You are very reflective and very observant. There is peace and more understanding in silence. I am also a quiet person and I love to observe more.
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
Same here ;)
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@koopharper (7601)
• Canada
14 Jul 16
Sometimes it's fun (and maybe educational) to watch the world go by without participating.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
Educational indeed. And not all can take silence
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@jstory07 (145618)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Jul 16
I like the silence sometimes so I can sit and think.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
And silence can be our friend ;)
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Jul 16
Silence is like mediation.I medicate quite a bit.I supposed this could count as silence.I do not mind.This is good for your health?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Jul 16
@Lucky15 yes,it does.You know the saying.Silence is Golden and it is
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
I think it is calming and remove those worries. Making us healthy ;)
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@DaddyEvil (158718)
• United States
15 Jul 16
@amadeo And some thoughts are deeper than the ocean... Not only calming, but much is also going on under that calm surface...
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
15 Jul 16
what neat observations during that time
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@DaddyEvil (158718)
• United States
15 Jul 16
@Lucky15 I agree. (smile) @Jessicalynnt Eyes wander, brain wonders and thinks,... then eyes look again. (grins)
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
Eyes wander and wonder ;)
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• United States
14 Jul 16
a thought provokin' piece, my friend. fer myself, i value the silence's much's the air i breathe :)
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• United States
16 Jul 16
@ramapo17 i admire ya fer such, i fear i'm most intolerant'f all that sorta "noise" but'm perfectly't home next to a roarin' waterfall :D
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
16 Jul 16
@Lucky15 It is funny that I love silence but I also love going to the Nascar races and football games. It is called selective noise.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
I never love the noise, you can not think that much with all.of the noise ;)
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@antonbunot (11144)
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jul 16
I was silent for almost a month . . coz I was grieving. I am back and though still in grief, I am here to say I missed you all.
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@DaddyEvil (158718)
• United States
15 Jul 16
@antonbunot My sincere condolences to you and your family, julito.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
Oh..yes. i miss seeing you here. What happened?
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
@antonbunot aww. Sorry to hear that. ;(
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@paigea (36174)
• Canada
14 Jul 16
I do love silence. My husband just left, the TV is now off and I like it. I do like to sit in a public place and just watch, and sit and think too. I have never wanted an ipod or any thing like that to have constant noise in my ears.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
16 Jul 16
I agree with you about the ipods or TV's. When my husband goes anywhere the tv goes off immediately. If I want noise I put on an oldies station on the tv and enjoy my favorites from the past.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
There is serenity in silence ;)
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
15 Jul 16
Yes silence can be golden, but it can also bring about a scream, because us humans do not seem to be bread for silence.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
18 Jul 16
@Lucky15 So we had all better start making some noise.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
16 Jul 16
I agree ;)
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
18 Jul 16
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• Dallas, Texas
14 Jul 16
You have found your inner self. From meditation and observation you can witness many wonders as a spectator looking across a room filled with people in conversation. Then there are times I only wish I could hear the silence. Unfortunately I have a serious condition called Tinnitus. Sound tends to ease the severity of this condition. I once was able to hear the silence. I have actually cried during a moment of silence. I guess I was really stressed and the tears were my way of letting go of it.
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• Dallas, Texas
14 Jul 16
@Lucky15 , I certainly appreciate your kindness. I feel that being quiet in one's mind, is the key to inner calm and then there are times for music, laughter and of course some noise.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
@lookatdesktop oh yes sir...everything has a time ;)
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
Oh.. never thoughtof that and sorry to hear about your.condition sir In silence..that moment, i felt disappoinments.
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@DianneN (247157)
• United States
14 Jul 16
Beautifully stated. Silence is golden.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
That some can not see how precious it is ;)
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@brokenbee (11796)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
I usually do that, too when I am alone. There was a time I was seated at a fastfood chain and there was a man with a young woman and then the man kept looking at me, seems uncomfortable. Lol!
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
@brokenbee ah..you initiated it. Haha
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
Oh..you should ask tip from me...am a suki(loyal) lone eater in fastfood. Haha
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@brokenbee (11796)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
@Lucky15 nope, he was the one who seems uncomfortable. Maybe because I was looking at them. Lol maybe that's his other woman. Ahahaha
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Jul 16
Sometimes I hate the silence and sometimes I like it.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
Oh..it is a love and hate relationship ;)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Jul 16
@Lucky15 Haha. I guess so.
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• Philippines
15 Jul 16
Hahaha I do that when my friends are talking something I can't relate. Instead of giving them the 'what-are-you-talking-about' look, my eyes would wander around and my mind would go with it.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
Let your mind.wonder and wander ;)
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• Philippines
16 Jul 16
@Lucky15 Hahaha!
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