Diary Thursday 21st July 2016

Photo taken by me – Smudge the cat
Preston, England
July 21, 2016 1:56pm CST
I confirmed to my Mum that I am now definitely on course for finally flying the nest and moving to Preston. I expected anger and tears but she handled it well, and enjoyed looking at the photos I have of the flat I’m moving too in about three weeks. She offered to let me take her computer desk, which she no longer uses. I’m glad of that as my own computer desk is falling apart now. Freecycle came up with some stuff for me too, a heap of packing boxes from someone who recently moved house, which I’m collecting on Saturday and someone nearer to home has a cutlery set I’m picking up tomorrow. I checked with welfare about changing address which seems straight-forward and they may be able to help with the cost of a van for the move too. I went to get some money from the ATM to pay some routine monthly bills only to find the ATM out of action so I had a long walk to another machine before I could do anything. My mum and sister took the cat for a routine check-up at the vet while I was out and forgot to lock all the back doors and windows. Luckily I got back soon after they left. While my mum could be forgiven for such an oversight, it was odd for my sister not to notice either. Realized I’ll really miss the cat when I move house. I sorted through lots of my books, packing some and getting others ready for giving to charity shops or friends. Arthur Chappell
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@JudyEv (382324)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 16
It will be hard getting rid of your books I would think but this is a good chance to have a reorganisation of your belongings.
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• Preston, England
22 Jul 16
I am sorting things out for giving away to friends, charity shops and in some cases just throwing them out - a lot still to go though @JudyEv
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• Preston, England
22 Jul 16
@JudyEv quite a lot that I have no idea how I ended up with it in the first place too
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@JudyEv (382324)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 16
@arthurchappell It can be a bit of a surprise just how much you have accumulated over the years.
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@crossbones27 (52955)
• Mojave, California
21 Jul 16
Sounds like you are all set for the most part. Sounds like a pretty exciting time for you.
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• Preston, England
22 Jul 16
@crossbones27 it is quite an adventure and though sad to be moving -having more free space than ever really appeals and friends are being really considerate
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
21 Jul 16
I feel sorry for your sister because she will have nobody to ignore once you have moved.
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• Preston, England
22 Jul 16
@Asylum my sister needs someone to hate so she'll soon find another target
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
22 Jul 16
How wonderful for you to be able to move out on your own. I know that you will love it. I'm glad that you Mom didn't give you any problems.
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@Mike197602 (15504)
• United Kingdom
21 Jul 16
luckily for me when I moved I had next to no possessions so everything owned fit into my car. Even living on my own I've managed to keep possessions down to the bare minimum and this place already had a fridge, cooker and washing machine so I didn't have to buy them. I gave away my whole book collection as they nearly filled half the garage at my last place and this is a studio so there is no room for anything.
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• Preston, England
21 Jul 16
@Mike197602 I can be quite frugal but my books are often my best friends
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@teamfreak16 (43634)
• Denver, Colorado
22 Jul 16
I can't stand moving anymore. Hope yours goes smoothly.
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@skysnap (20152)
21 Jul 16
I moved withut much drama and while moving most of my jobless days, my sister helped me a lot. I stayed at her place plenty of times. enjoy your new place.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
21 Jul 16
Things are moving along well for you, and I'm glad that your mum took the news so well.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
22 Jul 16
glad you are getting out
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