Do you have a habit of scrutinizing your own self for the sole purpose of becoming better?

@annierose (21977)
United States
September 4, 2016 6:50pm CST
Good day to all! I have been not here for quite a few days. I was eaten whole by a lot of paperwork and deadlines. I honestly missed Mylot. During those days, I was also reflecting on a short story that I have read. I have been planning to do short story reviews on my blog. It was all about a relationship between siblings. As I was doing my review, I could not help thinking of my own relationship with my siblings, with my actions, and with my thinking. A self-reflection habit is a must for each one of us. It helps us recognizing our own strengths and weaknesses. It also gives us a room to spot our wrong- doings and stop whatever unwanted behavior we possessed. Do you have a habit of scrutinizing your own self for the sole purpose of becoming better?
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@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
5 Sep 16
They say one's self should be their biggest critic. I think though it should not be too much as it would dampen you self confidence which is necessary in most things in life. There should be a balance on criticizing one's self over building self confidence.
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• Philippines
5 Sep 16
agree. sometimes you feel so inferior that you're unaware of your own good traits and abilities until someone tells you.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
5 Sep 16
@hereandthere We need an honest friend to tell us that side of ours.
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@Ritu96 (897)
• Sonipat, India
9 Sep 16
yes.i also have a habit of scrutinising myself and thus i come to know about my short comings and can improve a lot
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
10 Sep 16
Are you enjoying your life now?
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@Ritu96 (897)
• Sonipat, India
12 Sep 16
@annierose yes, things are settled in my life and their is flexibility too
@Ritu96 (897)
• Sonipat, India
12 Sep 16
@annierose yes, things are settled in my life and their is flexibility too
• Philippines
5 Sep 16
Takes me longer to realize how bad I am doing to the point of even talking to myself not to do this and that. it takes a lot.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
5 Sep 16
We need to be open-minded. I have observed that some people are only open to praise but not into criticism.
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@LadyDuck (502979)
• Italy
5 Sep 16
I usually think about what I did in the past to see if I can do better in the future.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
6 Sep 16
Lately, I have been doing a lot of reflections.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 16
Yes, I'm always trying to improve myself.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
6 Sep 16
I salute you.
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
18 Sep 16
yeah, I agree. I'm my biggest critic, biggest admirer and a lover
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
20 Sep 16
@JudyEv (382811)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Sep 16
This is certainly a good idea. We can learn a lot by thinking about how we have dealt with things in the past.
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@annierose (21977)
• United States
5 Sep 16
I agree. From there, we will grow.
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