I cannot reach my rebel grandson.

@marguicha (215148)
Chile
September 12, 2016 4:27pm CST
Diego did not come. I had taken great pains to make something special for him and, at the last minute, he said he wasn´t coming. I have been thinking about it and I decided I was not going to feel guilty. It is not my fault and he is not my son. So we ate some delicious potato sopaipillas with Leticia nad saved some for tomorrow as I have some friends for tea. Leticia told me that they could be heated at the small electric stove. I also gave Leticia some potatoes to take to her house. I bought lot of potatoes when I thought that Diego would stay here for 3 weeks. Next Monday I´m invited to a barbecue at Claudia´s house. I will make a big batch of potato salad to take and that will be the end of them.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
12 Sep 16
Why did you call him a rebel son? Anyway, it is good you are concerned about him.
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
12 Sep 16
My daughter left him at my care (his father at first refused to have him). But he never went to school when he was at my home. Ilearned that through a mail sent to me by is teacher. He had lied to me. I never knew where he was during the day.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
12 Sep 16
I don't see why you should feel guilty at all, upset, yes, but not guilty.
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
12 Sep 16
Because I should have kept more calm when I learned that Diego had not gone to school since my daughter left. As it is, I exploded and finally my daughter arranged for Diego´s father to take him. It had been her first choice, but he had refused.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
12 Sep 16
I'm so sorry he and to cancel. Did he say why he couldn't make it?
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
13 Sep 16
He said he was ill. But I am not sure if he really wanted to come.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
13 Sep 16
@marguicha Why wouldn't he want to come?
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Sep 16
It's really frustrating when you prepared something delicious for a person and that person , at the last minute would message you that he/she can't come . But anyway , you can have it for yourself and won't be cooking anymore . Potato salad . I also love that . Care to share with me your ingredients ? Maybe i can have a new twist from you .
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
13 Sep 16
They are made with half flour, half mashed potatoes, a bit of lard an yeast. then you make round cakes, about one finger thick. As it has yeast, you have to do it in advance so that it rises. Then you fry it.
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
13 Sep 16
@SIMPLYD No. You eat these instead of bread, But I will end with the extra potatoes by making a big potato salad for Claudia´s barbecue on September 19.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Sep 16
@marguicha Is that for the potato salad , my dear ?
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@JudyEv (325324)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 16
I'm sorry Diego is being difficult but I guess there is little you can do about it.
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
12 Sep 16
I agree. And it took me some time to accept it.
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13 Sep 16
Potato salad sounds tasty to me! Do make sure to upload a photo of it here when you make it!
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
13 Sep 16
I made them in many ways.
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@GardenGerty (157481)
• United States
12 Sep 16
I am sorry Diego is resisting you. I agree, if you have a lot of potatoes, you must do something with them.
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
12 Sep 16
My daughter will arrive soon. And if she hasn´t been able to do much with him, I cannot do much in a couple of weeks.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
12 Sep 16
Sorry to hear that he decided not to come. You are right you can't let yourself be sad or feel guilty about it. It was his choice not to come even though he knew how much it would mean to you if he did.
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
12 Sep 16
I even bribed him telling him about the sopaipillas
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