Show some respect......... it's the least you can do!
By DJ
@Daljinder (23193)
Bangalore, India
November 12, 2016 11:09am CST
Moral of the day!
If you don't agree with someone's opinion, just be smart about it and don't be rude!
Respect others opinions just as they did yours. Especially, if you want them to continue respecting you and your opinions.
Do not try to change their minds. Especially by force feeding them videos, links, tagging them, sharing posts, etc.....etc... First, you won't be successful. Second, you will look like a kid doing that....who didn't get their favourite toy or someone who can't take difference in opinions.
If the matter is so important to you then like I mentioned before, be smart about it and persuade them through debates and by talking!
But never ever try to shut someone's voice. Just like you, they matter too!
Do not force your opinions on others
By being forceful you will only validate their beliefs and opinions!
(Photo by Pixabay. Edited by Me.)
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22 responses
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
12 Nov 16
Everyone can voice their opinions 
If I don't agree, I won't try to change the persons mind or anything - I'll leave it as that & vice versa
If I don't agree, I won't try to change the persons mind or anything - I'll leave it as that & vice versa5 people like this
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
13 Nov 16
@yugocean Nope I don't argue even if I don't disagree. Some people have different views. But I have before on a stubborn person who was claiming they're right when they're asking a question.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 17
@infatuatedbby So, you prefer "agree to disagree" approach.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Nov 16
Everything has gotten way out of control with that lately. Everyone has a right to their own opinion and it should be left as that. I don't agree with plenty of things but I respect people enough to also respect their opinion.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 17
@LovingMyBabies Very true! Sometimes people can be annoyingly persistent and overbearing even though you are done with the argument and have "agreed to disagree". It is a definite flaw in my book. 
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 17
@topffer The ability to accept and change when you are proven wrong or are presented with facts that make you re-evaluate everything is a good quality. That means you are open to learning! 
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@rebelann (117226)
• El Paso, Texas
5 Feb 17
One way to handle bullies is not to let them know what your opinion is @Daljinder
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
5 Feb 17
@rebelann Sounds simple but not for those who take the aggressive stance. 
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 17
@pgntwo Say if I want LOTS of chocolates, I should first distribute them myself? 
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
12 Nov 16
What a thought... seems something has happend...hehe
seems something has happend...hehe2 people like this
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
4 Feb 17
@amandajay Nah! Nothing happened. I was just wondering about people fighting over Trump. Respectfully disagreeing and debating I can understand. But I do not understand calling each other bad names and telling others to "go die" or"go kill yourself" So very bad abusive language too.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
5 Feb 17
@amandajay What does that tell about them?
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
4 Feb 17
@Daljinder haha yeah some people are like that. We cannot change their attitudes... So sad
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 17
@hereandthere LOL! No, not here. Not personally at the least. I have been reading and seeing people going hammer and tongs over the whole Trump thing here and facebook. So, I thought to remind them about respecting each other and respecting opinions even in the midst of it all.
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 17
@yugocean LOL! You have already decided that yours are the best. The talk is over. The end? 
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
7 Feb 17
@Daljinder Some people want to control everyone, somehow like Trump!!
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
5 Feb 17
@marlina If only some peeps are satisfied by that. If only they understand that it is okay to have different opinions. I get irritated when anyone decides it is their life goal to change my mind about things
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@LadyDuck (502427)
• Italy
4 Feb 17
@Daljinder Let's say that intelligent people discuss, they do not start a battle if there are different opinions.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 17
@LadyDuck ....unless it clashes with another's and doesn;t sit well with them. Then you are in for a battle. 
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
4 Feb 17
@LadyDuck Wait wait! um... it's a one-sided discussion as well as one-sided battle at the same time. Which side is which is open for anyone to choose.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
13 Nov 16
i agree with ya hon. 'tis been most unpleasant here fer the past week.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 17
@crazyhorseladycx Hello there! I know you are on a break right now. Just saying "Hi" if you ever come back . Hope you are having a good time and getting plenty of relaxing time.
Hope you are having a good time and getting plenty of relaxing time.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
12 Nov 16
I agree, just show some respect for other people.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
5 Feb 17
@acelawrites Amen to that! If they could do that, many disputes will end before they ever begin.
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
4 Feb 17
@JustBhem If people could get that, world would be a better place!
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
4 Feb 17
If I am not comfortable I just move on. We have enough of that in our real world. (lol)
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
5 Feb 17
@allknowing I debate until I see the person turn aggressive or abusive. at that point, I walk away coz angry person listen to no reason. So, why waste my time?
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@chooseyourmissy1234 (532)
• , New York
20 Nov 16
I definitely agree with this. People seem to force others into their opinions instead of allowing others to have their own opinions. People see things the way they do due to perception.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
4 Feb 17
@shshiju Very true! A low, wise and strong voice had more weight than 10 loud voices.
A low, wise and strong voice had more weight than 10 loud voices.1 person likes this
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
18 Jan 17
@Daljinder Yes very true. If we travel its good to understand how different countries, their laws and customs can be.
And when I think about it more after you wrote that getting shot for speaking up even if for right things does happen everywhere.
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
18 Jan 17
@Bluedoll Forget being Christian or a woman. just standing up for the right thing would gain you enemies in some parts of the world...... if not brutally murdered.
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
11 Jan 17
@Daljinder Nope! I don't agree! YOU are wrong!
Kidding. I agree with you totally. Too many people get all hyped up and rude when other peoples opinions don't match theirs. I don't know why. The world would be pretty dang boring if we all thought alike.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
12 Jan 17
@Daljinder *gives you that look as if to say* "I know who you're talking about."
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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
11 Jan 17
@VivaLaDani13 Ha! I for one would love if certain people just keep their opinions to themselves. 
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@responsiveme (22923)
• India
25 Nov 16
Well its a "me and mine and myself" sort of world mostly. Anyway nobody can change what a person thinks unless that person decides too..
I like the sunny DJ
Is the blouse ready?
Is the blouse ready?1 person likes this
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
5 Feb 17
@responsiveme You are right. The world is selfish now.
I am now a cute kid for now. Will see if occasion demands it, Suny DJ will make a reappearance.
Yes It's ready but I haven't tried it yet. Winters have already commenced when it came back from the boutique. No way was I going to wear that in the cold lol
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