There are many fascinating reasons to want to be a medieval person...

United States
January 1, 2017 4:17am CST
However, here is one reason you perhaps wouldn't wish to be. I am watching this show. I think it might be on AcornTV though I can't remember, I'm watching it through my firestick. The name of the show is Medieval Lives and it talks about Birth, Marriage and Death in medieval times. There is a lot to be said about marriage in those times, but the one thing that rather... intrigues me is one about divorce. One way, though there are very few, a man and woman could be separated (in the eyes of the church) from her partner is to claim that he is impotent. This is one instance where I can't say I envy the medieval man's lot in life. In medieval times, a professional (*ahem* harlot *ahem*) was tasked with taking matters into her own hands... She would then testify in front of the court as to the man's ability in that department. I, uh, probably should have made a disclaimer of some sort before going this far.. Whoops? In any case, how humiliating that must have been and how un effective as well. Of course, I suppose there were many dissolved marriages where atleast one party didn't want it to be. Just as well as many unhappy partners who remained married for the sole purpose of the "test" not proving....
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@LadyDuck (502979)
• Italy
1 Jan 17
Well to divorce is easy, to have your marriage declared canceled by the Catholic Church you still have to have a valid reason, impotence is still one.
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• United States
1 Jan 17
Catholicism isn't something I am completely familiar with. My brother in law is catholic, but hasn't been a practicing catholic in some years. So even today one can divorce but it's not considered valid by the catholic church until just reason is given?
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@LadyDuck (502979)
• Italy
2 Jan 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum The divorce is not accepted by the Roman Catholic Church, you are still considered married for the Church unless you can have your marriage cancelled by the Roman Sacra Rota. Some rich people obtained this...
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
1 Jan 17
I can think of many reasons not to want to live in Medieval times, such as poverty, living conditions and life expectancy.
• United States
1 Jan 17
Wasn't the River Thames heavily contaminated in those times as well? Though that would be lopped in with "living conditions." So much oppression for women as well, but even men were governed by the laws of King and Church.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
1 Jan 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum All in all it was not a pleasant lifestyle and far from the romantic depiction in films and television shows.
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• United States
1 Jan 17
@Asylum I still find it fascinating, the things people believed in. The way the church operated, as well, but moreso the way Henry VIII was able to assert himself as head of church for his own whims.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
1 Jan 17
I am glad that things have changed since those times yikes
• United States
1 Jan 17
In the reign of Henry VIII? The physical comforts (A bowl made of jade I believe being one of them) a woman had were taken from her. These comforts were used in the time a woman was giving birth as a spiritual aide during the grueling process.. Yeah, I don't envy women of that time.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
1 Jan 17
I can't really think of any good reason to want to live in those times.. At the Renaissance Festival there was a museum that showed how people used to be tortured back then.. that pretty much turned me off to the idea of visiting that era.
• United States
2 Jan 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum A public whipping would have gotten them off easy. One of the things they used to do is lay you down on a stone, so that it was right under your spine. Then start loading weights on top of you until the stone snapped your spine.
• United States
1 Jan 17
I don't think I want to see that myself. On this documentary they spoke briefly on how adulterers were publicly whipped. I'd heard of it before, but hadn't really thought much on it. How humiliating, though I can understand the reason why they were so publicly beaten. That's another thing, men could beat their wives and get away with it as it was "correction".
@celticeagle (190152)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Jan 17
Life was horrific in the Medieval times. Impotence would be a bummer for farmers who needed the extra help and probably couldn't afford to pay hands to help him.