My first for the year of 2017

@amadeo (111948)
United States
January 1, 2017 8:37am CST
Good morning,the dinner was successful not. Oh!the dinner was fine.My guest was supposed to bring desserts not. I did not mentioned anything about it.Mike told me to keep quiet.Not After clearing off the table and Bob said what for dessert? I do not know ask your girlfriend as she puzzle looking at me. You were suppose to bring dessert.Was I.yes you offer to do so. Luckily I had a loaf of cranberry nut bread.We had this with whipped cream. These people never bring anything.Another story. Was I wrong in saying that you forgot the dessert? She never apologize or anything. We have friends for so many years.Time for her to wake up. Mike was a little miffed but calm down saying your right. The evening was not ruined as we all sat down and enjoy dessert and conversation. We will be leaving for brunch soon.This will be much better.LOL image is public domaine
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18 responses
• United States
1 Jan 17
If they are truly good friends I see no problem saying something to her...now if they were just casual friends I probably would not mention it. Next time she says she will bring something tell her not to bother.....
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@AbbyGreenhill they are good friend.But will take your advice on the later.lol
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• United States
2 Jan 17
@amadeo This way no surprises for anyone.
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@suziecat7 (3350)
• Asheville, North Carolina
1 Jan 17
I agree with you here. Some people just don't think.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@suziecat7 Maybe she doe not how to think LOLme bad.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
1 Jan 17
Very rude of forgetting the dessert and not apologizing on top of that. Fortunately, you had something at home.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@marlna yes we had cranberry nut bread.She does not remember saying this.She can be a little demented at times.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
1 Jan 17
You were right to say, if they are good friends they must know if they did something wrong.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
2 Jan 17
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@LadyDuck thank you and did.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
1 Jan 17
Oh yes, I would have said just what you did. Glad you had a dessert you could use.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
2 Jan 17
@amadeo Yes, good idea.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@Jabo yes and a lesson learned to have a back up?
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@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
1 Jan 17
I would tell them too especially if they ask what is for dessert...how rude that is on its own... I understand, old friends are just that...
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@PainsOnState right and thank you.
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@crossbones27 (48542)
• Mojave, California
1 Jan 17
You tell them! People, they be funny, get invited to dinner but do not bring anything.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@crossbones she never of all the years we have known them to bring anything but themselves.LOL
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@Juliaacv (48653)
• Canada
1 Jan 17
I think that I would have said the same thing. When a host or hostess is advised that they don't need to provide a certain dish or the end course in this instance, then you shouldn't disappoint. I hope that you have a nice brunch out. I'll be making our brunch here in a little while.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@Juliaacv the brunch was good.Lot of food .Real Italian brunch lol
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• Midland, Michigan
2 Jan 17
I've never thought to try any nut breads with whipped cream. I like those type of breads just with butter. Another option would be to not offer any dessert. That may wake her up especially if she loves dessert. Then if she asked where the dessert was you could reply with the quizzical look she gave you and say something like: "Oh, I thought maybe you forgot and left it in your car".
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@MarshaMusselman that is a good idea.But it will be awhile.I love the line there.LOL
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@blitzfrick (2890)
• United States
1 Jan 17
I have friends that I visit now and then. Sometimes but not often, I'll take something. They are so nice, always offer me coffee and usually a little meal before I go. Such good friends, to tolerate me, who has almost zero social skills.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@biltlzfrick we always take something when we get invited.Hostess gift etc.
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• United States
2 Jan 17
@amadeo How polite of you! I'd never make it in polite society! I don't know how I missed out on acquiring social skills. My mother was polite. She used to tell me before I'd go visit my little friends, "Act nice." Like I wasn't really nice and had to put on an act. Sigh, I guess she was right, once again.
@Poppylicious (11133)
2 Jan 17
If they always 'forget' maybe you should stop inviting them round!
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@Popplicious.No this is the first time she offered anything.She is a very selfish person.
@NJChicaa (116301)
• United States
1 Jan 17
That's strange that they offered to bring something and then didn't.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@noni1959 or they are a big joke.LOL
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@NJChicaa oh!well guess we have to bite our tongue.lol
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@noni1959 (9901)
• United States
1 Jan 17
I know a gal who will insist on bringing something and then never will. She uses excuses of being too busy at the last minute or she figured there would be enough from everyone else. Some people are just takers and not givers.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
1 Jan 17
They asked and told them so there is nothing wrong with that.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@Happy2BeMe thank you.I do not feel bad at all.Just miffed a little
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@Tricia53 (90)
• Bellevue, Nebraska
1 Jan 17
That is sad that she didn't bring it when she said she would. Next time she offers to bring something I would stop everything and say ... are you sure you are able to bring it? If you really are then I will not make anything just in case. This way there is no question as to what you are expecting from her. this way she has no excuse of not hearing you or not saying she didn't know.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@Tricia53 I agreed there.Glad we do not see them too often.They are one of our early friends when they moved here.
@jstory07 (135135)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Jan 17
I think I would have done the same thing. Maybe they forgot.
@noni1959 (9901)
• United States
1 Jan 17
No. You were not wrong. It seems that's their pattern not bringing anything. Always have a backup dessert handy.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@noni1959 yes you are right.In matter of fact we mentioned this ourself to have a back up plan.Next time we will
@teamfreak16 (43419)
• Denver, Colorado
1 Jan 17
How hard is it to stop at the store and get some ice cream? Geez.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Jan 17
@teamfreak16 that is for sure.Scott she does not remember saying this.spaced out chick.LOL
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@shaynas (5488)
• India
3 Jan 17
I think you did the right thing, mentioning about the dessert.