Did You Know Some Of You Are Counselors And Didn't Even Know It?

@celticeagle (159854)
Boise, Idaho
February 9, 2017 6:39pm CST
I sometimes wonder what some of my fellow Mylotters must think of me. I tell it like it is and share a lot of my personal life on here. That may be something others on here may either not agree with or might find rather pathetic. I used to go to counseling periodically to help me balance myself and cope with my lot in life. But, the free counseling I used to get is no longer available to me. There used to be a program where some counseling facilities had not yet graduates who needed a certain amount of hours of experience counseling in their employee and I would see one of those. They don't do it for free any longer so for the last three or four years I have had to find the counseling services where I could. Even sliding scale and the five or six a year that Medicare will pay for just isn't enough. I feel like I would need to tell my entire story to the counselor for that counseling to really have a handle on who I am, where I have been, why I am the way I am, etc. And can't be done in one or two sessions. Where on here I can give my full life bio and you folks I follow can give me their opinions on my worse of times. Or not as you choose. The cost has gone up too. It used to be about $75 a session and now it is $100 or more. They have some that will do it over the internet now too. Did you know that? Thank you to each and ever one of you who have given responses and your time answering my posts. When I am down and out I think that it really helps to just know others are out there and they care. Some more than others. And, some have experienced similar experience with their kids. It's like going to a group of women and men who have had some similar experiences in their lives. Thank you for your friendship and reading the posts. I appreciate your input in my posts and not thinking to harshly of me or the things that go down. I just love my kids and am doing the best I can to cope with them and their issues.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Feb 17
I agree, everyone here has been a life saver for me more times than I can count. It's awesome to have so many friends in one place to vent to and share our feelings with. =)
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
Yes, it certainly is.
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• United States
10 Feb 17
It is nice to have the shoulders of many to lean on. I am too thankful and grateful to everyone that has listened to my woes, supported me when I was down, and gave me encouragement to go on. Big hugs to you lady.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
Ah, gosh.
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@much2say (53942)
• Los Angeles, California
10 Feb 17
This is why I love it here so much. First I can get things off my chest exactly the way I want to . . . and then I will get input from all kinds of folks. Sometimes I will even get angles I never would have thought of. It's wonderful life therapy just to be here. And thank you for being there for all of us!!
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
There is no judgement and that is great. I get some new ideas on life here too. Like you said, different angles. You're welcome! I'm here for you all too.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Feb 17
@much2say .....We have been though some of it ourselves and can relate to it many times.
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@much2say (53942)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Feb 17
@celticeagle It's almost as if we can understand better than a counselor . . . we get to know each other on a daily basis - the bits and pieces make more sense to us because we know you. We can empathize better too.
• United States
10 Feb 17
I have zero experience with what you are living through so I can't offer advice, just an ear and a shoulder.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
And sometimes that is the best.
• United States
10 Feb 17
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
10 Feb 17
I am sad about the lack (but glad you can find some help on here, I know I do), of available services. It's wrong for insurance to limit it that much, these appointments are as needed as physical medical stuff. And the cost makes it super hard for some to go, like us. I was lucky in that the last place was only 30 odd, but as often as I needed to go (once a week at min), it added up!
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
I think that Medicare will pay for one visit a month and I would need once a week at least at first. I didn't like the last one I went to about a year ago. That's something too. I won't go to some if they aren't very personable. It sure does add up. $3-400 a month is way too much.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Feb 17
@Jessicalynnt ....Yes, indeed. Today is Joan Baggett's birthday. Remember her?
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• Centralia, Missouri
13 Feb 17
@celticeagle oh was she? Yeah I missed mylot the first time, first place I wrote on like this was bubbs
@sallypup (58295)
• Centralia, Washington
10 Feb 17
Just keep on being you.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
I can't change now. No backsies at 65.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
@sallypup .......I wondered.
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@sallypup (58295)
• Centralia, Washington
10 Feb 17
@celticeagle You are not much older than me.
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@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 17
I can't offer good advice but I will try to listen. I'll also try to comment the best I can. Mylot is a great community. We found each other here.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
Listening is so important. Comments of any kind are good if they come from the heart and are positive. Mylot is great!
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@jstory07 (135007)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Feb 17
You are doing good and you should be proud about that.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
Thank you.
10 Feb 17
I agree, Mylot is filled with good listeners world is lacking.
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@celticeagle (159854)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Feb 17
Yes, indeed. We have it here.
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• United States
10 Feb 17
Yes I counsel my dogs everyday.
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