Would you correct people?

@Madshadi (8840)
Brussels, Belgium
February 10, 2017 4:05am CST
If someone doesn't speak your language, would you correct him whenever he makes a mistake, or would you simplify your language in a way that he will understand you better? I personally do the later. If the purpose is to communicate then it doesn't matter if it's done properly or not. Besides, some people may not like to be corrected. But some of the people I know disagree with me. They think that the language should be spoken properly regardless. So people who don't speak it well should put more effort in learning it and be corrected as they speak.
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• United States
10 Feb 17
*latter Well, I guess that answers that question.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
In a creative way lol
• United States
10 Feb 17
@Madshadi I try to correct people in a kind and informative way. I would want to be corrected if I was mis-spelling or not saying a word correctly.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum Me too. That's how I made progress in my English language
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• United States
10 Feb 17
I think the effort counts. If its something 'rude' the person is saying, I'd say help them correct it so they can fix themselves in the future. If its nothing harmful, let them be?
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• United States
10 Feb 17
@Madshadi I don't often correct people either unless they're ones who are learning and want to be corrected. There are some who you correct and they get offensive.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
11 Feb 17
@infatuatedbby sometimes you can't tell to which group the person you are correcting belongs. So its safer not to correct in my opinion.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
There are specific situations like that when we find ourselves obligated to correct others. But in general, I don't correct them.
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@dodo19 (48119)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Feb 17
Like you, I just try to simplify the language and use simple words that they may be able to understand. It wouldn't seem quite right to correct them.
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@dodo19 (48119)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Feb 17
@Madshadi Exactly. So long as we can communicate and get the main idea across, that's what matters.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
at the end the main purpose is to communicate.
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@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
10 Feb 17
I like to correct them but not in a bad sense. It is just to help them improve, just like if i messed up in my second language i like when they correct me for me to know how to say the word right.
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@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
10 Feb 17
@Madshadi Of course. Correcting in a rude matter isnt a very good thing to do. Might make them think you are mockng them and that is not nice at all. Especially for those who really try to speak the new language.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
Yes in a nice way
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
10 Feb 17
If we correct to make them uncomfortable or embarrass I think we should not do it.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
I agree. You never know how that person would react
@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
10 Feb 17
@Madshadi sometimes even if your intention is good but some people don't like to be corrected... it's their pride that makes them angry
@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
@ilocosboy true. Always better to be cautious about these things
@miesse2 (226)
• Canada
10 Feb 17
For me it depends who I am talking to, I would never correct someone I do not know as I would hate to make them feel self conscious but some of my friends speak more French and I would correct their English so they would know how it was said or proper grammar for future. I would never be mean about it though, I've had a friend laugh in my face at a mistake I made in pronunciation in French and I will no longer talk French in their vicinity
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
That was not nice of your friend. I might correct friends. But I would never laugh at them if they make a mistake.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
@miesse2 it is good that you are trying. It would be better if you had supportive friends who speak that language though
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@miesse2 (226)
• Canada
10 Feb 17
@Madshadi no it wasn't nice of them at all but at least I try a unfamiliar language, just not around them anymore
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@maezee (41985)
• United States
10 Feb 17
I never know if correcting people is what they want. Does that help while learning? English is such a difficult language.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
And so is almost every other language I think. And as you said, you never know if that is what people want.
@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 17
I think there is a place for both. You can tell if someone would like to have their mistakes corrected but it isn't a good idea to continually correct a person.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
you summed it up nicely
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
10 Feb 17
I avoid correcting people unless they ask me to help them with the language
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
I agree with that one.
@stapllotik (1935)
• India
10 Feb 17
I should know thoroughly right that what iam correcting
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• Finland
10 Feb 17
I agree with you not correcting if it's just communication but if I can't understand at all maybe try other language if I know it well enough
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Feb 17
Yeah that's another way to do it. If you can communicate in another language which you both understand
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