What example did your parent's set

@amadeo (111948)
United States
March 4, 2017 3:26pm CST
Good afternoon.Here is a good one What example did your parents set? My parent's were immigrant.They did not set any example for me. when you have nine children and living in depression years.No time. the only thing will be survival and this is what I did.Everything that I did was on my own with no help. But things worked out fine as I got older and wise. What kind of example did your parent's set for you. The photo is my daughter with my grandchildren
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
4 Mar 17
My parents also worked hard but my mother taught us our prayers and read to us. MY father took us out to work in the garden with him so we learned a good work ethic. We had family gatherings with other members of the family so we learned a lot from that too. We were poor but we really didn't know it. We always had good food on the table and my mom always managed to save a little and taught us the value of money and saving. All three of us are successful, happily married and financially secure. We are friends with each other too which I always figure is the best lesson parents can give. My kids are friends with each other too.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@BelleStar That is a wonderful story there.Great nice to hear this
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• Manchester, England
8 Mar 17
Wonderful @BelleStarr
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@Hate2Iron (15730)
• Canada
4 Mar 17
Lovely photo of your family btw... and I think that the example that my parents set for me was that I could be anything I wanted to be... the stories I could tell lol!!
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@Hate2Iron thank you.May not want to tell.LOL
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
5 Mar 17
To work hard and in the direction of my dreams. To never give up
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
6 Mar 17
@amadeo thanks
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
5 Mar 17
@Nawsheen good advice t here
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Mar 17
My parents set many examples. Generosity to others, the importance of an education, save for a rainy day, reading, music, art, beauty in nature, our religion, the importance of family, the value of a dollar, respect for the less fortunate, gardening, cooking, and to take care of our health. I could go on and on, but no time.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@DianneN you are fortunate to have this up bringing.Many do not.But for me it was a different generation. Thank you for telling us on this.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@DianneN thank you there.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@amadeo I got so caught up in my comment, that I noticed how I neglected to mention your beautiful family!!!
@JudyEv (326601)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 17
Things were certainly different back then. Your parents - and you - must have had a tough time in those days. I'm glad you're settled now - and that is a lovely photo.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@JudyEv yes things were very poor then.We lost our house and was on Welfare for a long time. But one thin I can say.We did not even noticed it.When you have a big family all of us are surviving. Even though my mom and dad were immigrant.They were wonderful
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@JudyEv (326601)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Mar 17
@amadeo Quite possibly many around you were in much the same boat. Sometimes it is only when you look back that you realise how tough things were.
@Kandae11 (53769)
4 Mar 17
My parents did their best - but my mother did the most.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@Kandaee mom always know best.
@snowy22315 (171151)
• United States
5 Mar 17
My parents are pretty shy passive people who withdrew from the world for the most part...other than their day to day work life. I would say I am kind of along those lines as well, as is my sister. The apple doesn't fall that far from the tree.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
5 Mar 17
@snowy thank you for sharing.
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@LadyDuck (460346)
• Switzerland
5 Mar 17
This is a pretty photo Alfredo. My father worked hard all the day, but when he was at home he never missed to teach us to be honest, well mannered and not to waste food and money. My Mom stayed at home, she was the one who taught us to respect the others, to be charitable and to do our homework because we had to learn that we need to work in life.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
5 Mar 17
@LadyDuck thank you.Also thank you for sharing this.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49267)
• United States
5 Mar 17
They taught me so much and set a wonderful example of marriage.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
5 Mar 17
@Tampa_girl there you go and it is a wonderful marriage there.
@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
5 Mar 17
i agree with you.. i more or less set my own way of life
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
5 Mar 17
@hostessman same here and thank you
@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
4 Mar 17
To be responsible, no matter how hard it would be :)
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@Lucky15 correct.Yes.we all have to be responsible for what we do in life
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@paigea (35824)
• Canada
5 Mar 17
Great photo. My parents set the example of getting educated, working hard, being frugal and being involved in the community.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
5 Mar 17
@paigea great advice
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• Peoria, Arizona
4 Mar 17
What a lovely family you have there! Sure you parents set a great example, you can survive even through the rough times! They taught you to be independent even if they did not exactly say it. My mamma taught me a lot of morals, to be good to people, to have an open mind, to explore interests and to be passionate!
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@DesirousDreamer there you good there.I loved it.
• Peoria, Arizona
4 Mar 17
@amadeo Indeed! haha!
• India
6 Mar 17
My parents are typical but I can say they can be the best parents i could have ever got..:)
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
7 Mar 17
@rjitualigal good for you.Nice to hear
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Mar 17
great photo amadeo Im really grateful that my mom and dad tauight me good manners and the golden rule as I have seen manyh who have not the foggiest idea of good manners and will slam a doori in your face or shove yo u back into the elevator when You' are trying to get off with your walker.. rudeness seems the order of the day here n the retirement center but thank Godless some do have good manners and help others here. another female resident and I saw an older resent fall out of his wheelchair and four people just stood there .I and the other r youmg lady helped him back into his wheelchair and asked him if he hurt anywhere. He just really overbalanced and slid to the floor did not injure himself at all.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@Hatley so sorry to hear this.Yes we have many rude people out there.
@jstory07 (135066)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Mar 17
My parents taught me the important of saving money. My mother worked and saved money for twenty years and that was used to put furniture in their home when my Dad retired the first time.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@jstory07 Very nice there Judy.What kind of work did your mom do?
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
4 Mar 17
Both my parents were excellent role models. I am glad that they were my parents.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
4 Mar 17
@marlina you are lucky there to have role models.Many do not.
• United States
5 Mar 17
They taught me to work hard, earn my own money and make my own decisions.
@Poppylicious (11133)
5 Mar 17
Awww, beautiful family! My Mumsy set me the example of how to love unconditionally and always forgive. My Father set an example of how NOT to be. :)
16 Mar 17
Intelligence. Love. Hard work. Independent thinking. Respect and honor. Honesty. My dad was witty and humorous, too. A good provider. My mom is brave and knew her place in the home as mother and wife.