Would you offer your couch to anyone?

@sol_cee (38669)
Philippines
March 23, 2017 7:59am CST
On the textbook I'm using for my class, I came upon the term 'couch surfing'. I've heard a few things about it before but wasn't interested enough to dig deeper. So to prepare an interactive, anti-yawning/anti-snoring English lesson for a group of 20 year olds, I actually registered an account on its website to complete my couch surfing experience. I didn't know that there are many people in the Philippines who offer their free couch/sofa/extra bed to tourists who are looking for free accommodation. Some hosts even take their guests out, if they aren't busy, to introduce local food and scenery. Hospitality is abundant. Everyone's happy. Though I have mixed feelings about this, I can't wait to listen to my class' opinion about sharing a room with a complete stranger. How about you? Would you offer your couch to anyone? Photo is of Starbucks' Cherry Blossom Frappuccino you can take a sip with. For free.
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@JudyEv (382271)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Mar 17
If you search for 'couch surfing' on this site, you'll find a number of posts that I've written about our experiences as hosts. We have had a lot of young and not-so-young people stay with us over the years. It has been a positive experience for us.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
Oh yeah. I remember you posted something about those three guys. Gotta read the others.
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@JudyEv (382271)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Mar 17
@Marty1 Haha. Your poor sister! It's a lovely thought and very kind of you but a refugee family might be a bit different to a couch-surfer.
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
23 Mar 17
Cool! Can I come stay with you for awhile? Just kidding....
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
24 Mar 17
My daughter in law and son opened their home to women who had late term abortions and couldn't afford a hotel in Manhattan to recover. Those women were so grateful. Personally, I would only over my home to family and close friends.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
@DianneN I didn't know that.
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
I'm sorry but why did those women have late term abortions?
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
24 Mar 17
@sol_cee NYC is the only place to have them legally. Most of these women had 8-10 children already, were poor, raped, ill, etc.
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@allen0187 (59828)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
As long as the necessary background check has been done and the visiting tourist shows that he/she isn't an ax murderer, I'm down for it. I'm from the Philippines but haven't done this though. Some friends have done it though and yes, they do take their visitors to some of the spots and places that would make these tourists feel like locals.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
Are you planning to accept guests?
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@allen0187 (59828)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
@sol_cee not at this time.
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
where are your friends based - metro manila or the province?
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@skysnap (20152)
23 Mar 17
I'd say that if it's couchsurfing gig then yes I would surely offer it for others.
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@skysnap (20152)
23 Mar 17
@sol_cee yees once.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
@skysnap how was it?
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
Have you tried?
@epiffanie (11327)
• Australia
24 Mar 17
Yes I would, if they clean, do the garden, the laundry, the cooking and other chores .. but my husband won't agree to that .. so there could be a problem ..lol
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
So couch surfers shouldn't be talking to you at all? You know, negotiate? Lol
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@epiffanie (11327)
• Australia
25 Mar 17
@sol_cee Not to me .. but they can talk to my husband ..
@AnthOcean (407)
23 Mar 17
yes, i would offer it conditionally i.e. after proper investigation that this person can be trusted, if i have extra couch with extra rooms and if this person prefers my house
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
That's cool. Can I watch TV too?
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23 Mar 17
@sol_cee ofcourse, Why can't you. Just that you should have the channel in my tv
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
@AnthOcean where's the remote control?
@Nawsheen (28761)
• Mauritius
23 Mar 17
Maybe i would do it but only after having throughly checked the person's identity.
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@Nawsheen (28761)
• Mauritius
24 Mar 17
@sol_cee oh yes. And nowadays its so difficult to trust people. There was a couch surfing incident lasy year where a nepalese host actually killed an american traveler who was staying with him. The way she was murdered too thats too heinous to describe
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
@Nawsheen That's terrible!
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
Sometimes referrals can be helpful too. Unless they can fake it.
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@prinzcy (32299)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 17
Probably not. I'm not that trusting and can be a bit paranoid at times. That won't work for me.
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@prinzcy (32299)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 17
@sol_cee Homestay is more common here. I don't think I've heard of such concept in my country. Not that I know of anyway.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
@prinzcy what does homestay entail?
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
Is couch surfing common in your country?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Mar 17
My husband and I have opened our home many times to people that needed it-for free. Usually it doesn't end well since it's not easy living with other people but we try to help when we can.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
You're such good samaritans.
@silvermist (19701)
• India
23 Mar 17
@sol_cee,Thank you for that sip of Cherry Blossom Frappuccino .That was really nice.Especially as it was free. I do not think I would offer my couch to anyone.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
It's almost spring here, hence the sakura. What Starbucks' seasonal flavors do you have in your country?
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@LadyDuck (502608)
• Italy
23 Mar 17
To share a spare room with tourists is a very common practice. @JudyEv shared her experience about this.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
Yes I actually went over her previous posts about couch surfing.
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@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
23 Mar 17
My daughter was couch surfing for one summer. She stayed for a week or two with her siblings and then moved on to the next. It was supposed to be for a week to 10 days....but ended up being for almost three months.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
She overstayed! lol
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
@Morleyhunt so it's a special overstaying agreement.
@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
24 Mar 17
@sol_cee she didn't stay anywhere for more than two weeks.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
24 Mar 17
Yes, I think it would be interesting. My husband does not though.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
Conflict of interest. lol
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
@paigea maybe you can convince the husband? lol
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
25 Mar 17
@sol_cee Exactly. I have read about the visitorsJudy has written about and it sounds interesting.
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@Dena91 (17039)
• United States
23 Mar 17
No that is something that doesn't interest me too much.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
Some others think the same way as you.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
23 Mar 17
No I would never offer my couch to a stranger. I don't think it is safe but I think it is very kind of those who do open their homes to others this way.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
I would also hesitate to let someone in my house while I'm at work. First because it's a mess. Lol
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
24 Mar 17
No, not me. My house is my private space, not for sharing.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
24 Mar 17
@sol_cee Not sure, but I know the young ones like to couch surf in other countries.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
I wonder how popular couch surfing in your country is.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
@scheng1 young ones and their guts!
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• United States
23 Mar 17
I would if I want to get rid of a couch better than going to a landfill But I would accept a couch from anyone unless I know who it belonged to & I like it which has not been the case
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• United States
24 Mar 17
@sol_cee No I haven't
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
How about couch surfing? Have you tried it?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
hmmm, no, not me.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
Because?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
@sol_cee i just like staying on my own couch.
@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
23 Mar 17
I am too paranoid to allow strangers into my house. There are many creeps out there.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
I'm not as brave as the others. Afraid even of my own shadow. Lol
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
23 Mar 17
I'm an introvert, so I wouldn't, unless it was someone in case of emergency or for very limited time. Safety makes me wonder if it is a good idea. But I think it is wonderfully kind of the people who host in the Philippines - I would like such an arangment I think if I knew that they weren't violent or criminal.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
It takes guts, really. Something that I'm afraid I don't have enough. lol
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
@FayeHazel I was also surprised myself. lol
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
24 Mar 17
@sol_cee Alas! But what a cool experience. SO interesting that this is a common thing in Philippines
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