Did you know the difference between truth and lie as a kid?

@dpk262006 (58675)
Delhi, India
May 23, 2017 11:37pm CST
When we were kids we perhaps did not know the difference between truth and lie and sometimes we used to lie about something in an innocent way. It is our parents /elders who used to catch us and would tell that it is a lie and we should speak the truth. Did you also use to speak innocent lies when you were a kid? Could your recall any incident? And those of us who have kids or deal with kids, how do you come to know that your kid is telling you an innocent lie, if at all s/he is speaking a lie?
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
24 May 17
My parents were strick when i was a teenager and would usually not allow me to hang out with my friends. But at times I wanted to have some fun I would secretly go and meet my friends and would come up with an excuse to ''fool'' my parents. Lol
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
It means as a teenager you very well knew the difference between truth and lie. It is interesting to know that to meet your friends and to enjoy with them, you used to fool your parents and I hope you were able to trick them in believing that you were innocent.
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
25 May 17
@dpk262006 I think i was able to trick them because they never found out abd besides i was a good child apart from this
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
@Nawsheen If you were otherwise a brilliant child, they would not have doubted your activities.
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• United States
24 May 17
I did know the difference because we were very disciplined about this from my Father. It was very important to tell the truth.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
@TiarasOceanView Whatever may be the reason, you learnt a good moral value and which always helps.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
It means as a child you used to train in such a fashion that you used to speak truth only. I understand that habit of telling truth is still there in you.
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• United States
25 May 17
@dpk262006 Yes dpk, for fear of the hand lol
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
Honestly, I cannot recall our child as a kid, tell a lie. I think that's because as she was growing up, I always remind her that it's a sin to lie. And that if she lies, it can lead into something disastrous.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Jun 17
It is good to hear that you keep teaching your child that telling a lie is equal to sin and she should not tell a lie, come what may. I think your moral values and teachings would help her grow as a better human being.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Jun 17
@SIMPLYD You said it rightly that parents are not less than teachers and children learn their moral lessons first through their parents and family members.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Jun 17
@dpk262006 As parents it is our duty that we make sure they were given good moral values and teachings. We are primarily their teachers.
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@LadyDuck (459122)
• Switzerland
24 May 17
I was told very early never to lie. My father could not stand liars and he told to my brother and I always to say the truth, even when we did something wrong. I told some innocent lies to cover my younger brother, when he messed up something in the house or did something he should not have done.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
Your parents inculcated moral values in you since childhood and which you still carry with you and probably would have transferred those moral values to your next generation. As children I think most of us used to cover up our siblings, if we knew that they had dome something wrong and telling the facts could land him/her in trouble.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
26 May 17
@LadyDuck Yeah, at that point of time we as a child were innocent so as to consider something as a lie. None of the respondents have read the discussion carefully, all have responded to first part of the discussion, there is second part also in the discussion.
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@LadyDuck (459122)
• Switzerland
25 May 17
@dpk262006 So true, I did not consider a lie trying to cover my younger brother.
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• United States
24 May 17
I am sure I did a lot of lying when I was a kid!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
Each one of us would have lied but the point is did we use to lie as an innocent kid or we used to tell a lie intentionally?
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@JudyEv (326127)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 May 17
I think mostly I told the truth but sometimes I would say I felt sick in the hope of being allowed to stay home from school.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
It means you knew the difference of truth and lie and you in fact used to tell a lie about your sickness so as to avoid going to school. Did your parents use to believe your lie?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
@JudyEv It means they used to trust you.
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@JudyEv (326127)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 May 17
@dpk262006 Maybe about once in every five times. I didn't try it too often.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
24 May 17
I would have told , but I don't remember.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
When you cannot recall the incident, then how do you know that you used to tell lies?
@jstory07 (134601)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 May 17
My parents always knew when I lied and I always know with my ids.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
26 May 17
It is fine that your parents knew whether you were telling a lie or not but were you aware about the difference between truth and lie, when you were a kid?
@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
6 Jun 17
Children are like sponge. They absorb whatever is taught to them by adults. Truths. Or lies.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
7 Jun 17
You have right said that children are like sponge and they absorb whatever they are taught or given. It is duty of the parents to tell them difference between telling a lie and speaking the truth.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
29 May 17
i lied when i was a kid; i should consider them white lies.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
29 May 17
Could you recall any instance?
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
30 May 17
@ridingbet How do we know till you share?
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
30 May 17
@dpk262006 i have lots
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
7 Jun 17
Lying is the worst habit one can have @dpk262006 Yes, it is the parents who can check them and explain that one should always speak the truth, no matter what. Once children are assured that they would be forgiven, they would learn to always speak the truth.They should know that no one can truly trust a liar.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
7 Jun 17
Yes, if parents could inculcate good habits in their children and could explain them difference between telling a lie and speaking truth, it will be good for children in the long run. Yes, you are right that children are needed to be assured that even if they have done something wrong and they speak the truth, they would be forgiven.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@Gabugs Yes, all parents should follow these things.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
8 Jun 17
@dpk262006 Hopefully all parents should practice this time and again.
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@shaynas (5488)
• India
27 Jun 17
I think most of us did, though I don't remember any particular incident. Do you remember any?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
27 Jun 17
Yes, most of us used to do it because at that time we did not know the difference between a truth and a lie and its implications. I remember an incident when I spoke the truth and had to face its consequence. In class VII or IX some of the boys bunked the school during second half due to various reasons. Me and one of my best friends went to see an English movie and we were accompanied with my friend's father. On that day a surprise inspection was conducted in the school and those who bunked the classes were listed out. We did not know about it. Next day, our class teacher asked for our verbal explanation for bunking the second half of the school. I remember one of my other friends, told a white lie that he had to go to eye specialists as he had some eye problems. The teacher not only believed him but also suggested one of two home remedies to him for cure of eyes. When my and my friend's turn came, we decided that we would speak the truth, otherwise we would have faked illness and that would have been believed by the teacher. We told that we bunked the class because we went to see an English movie. To our utter shock, the teacher did not believe our version and asked us to get an application written by our respective parents mentioning that they knew that we went for a movie with their permission. As my friend's father accompanied us, he had no problem getting the application written by his father. My mother knew that I went for a movie but my father was not aware. Then I had to explain him the entire position and requested him to write an application, as demanded by our teacher. He trusted me and wrote an application. We submitted the application, then only we were absolved of our absence. It was how a truth landed us in problem.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
27 Jun 17
@shaynas What you have stated, ideally that should have been the case. However, he (the teacher) didn't ask for written application from everyone and targeted me and my friend that too when teacher knew that we were not notorious students.
@shaynas (5488)
• India
27 Jun 17
@dpk262006 well...i feel teacher should have appreciated you for telling the truth than making stories. In fact she should have asked everyone to bring a written application from their parents explaining the reason of absence. That would have been fair.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
21 Jun 17
I was a very innocent kid but when I grow up in my teenage I started to speak lie, a lot of lie but then I got changed and now I don't lie at all
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Jun 17
In our teenage we all speak lies . However, when we grow up further we come to know what is the value of truth and we should stick to it.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
27 Jun 17
@ShifaLk Yes, I am not an exception. . However, I speak truth because thereafter I do not feel guilty conscious.
@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
23 Jun 17
@dpk262006 oh means you did too? Haha Yes that's true... speaking truth is actually the best
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5 Jul 17
hahahah i remember when I had to sneak food to our room and I would say my pet is hungry which was my dog but it was really me lol.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Jul 17
Really interesting to hear that you used to tell a lie to satiate your hunger.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Jul 17
@homebasedbobbie It means that you and your brother both were naughty in your childhood. On the hindsight do you feel that you did something wrong while telling a lie to get some food? I do not think so.
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5 Jul 17
@dpk262006 I know right. It was me and my brother.. ha ha ha ha that became an old joke with our parents and they would laugh at it because they knew what I did lol
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@m_audrey6788 (58482)
• Germany
24 May 17
I really do not thought about it..I just say what I felt and answer what I know is true ..I am so innocent when I was a child
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
I understand that you speak truth since childhood and you know the difference between a truth and lie and implications of telling a lie.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
24 May 17
I cannot recall because I was just kid at that time he he
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
An apt answer to the question. However, you could still try to recall whether you used tell a lie even when you grew up.
@sputnik8 (690)
24 May 17
Yes, I have the notion between truth and lie even during my younger days.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
It is great to hear that you know the difference between truth and lie in your younger days.
24 May 17
hm, interesting, I remember lying quite often as a kid. I don't even know why I did, but i know i very rarely got caught. I think maybe I did it because I knew I would get away with it.. How about you?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 May 17
Welcome to mylot. It means you were aware about the difference between truth and lie and you used to lie and but you used to get away with it. I rarely used to tell a lie. My parents taught me some moral values and one of those was to not to tell a lie.