My only experience at a water park

United States
June 17, 2017 8:45pm CST
I couldn't tell you how old I was. It was before my teenage years but after childhood. Somewhere stuck in that time period where you aren't quite the child you once were but not altogether ready to give up play time and upgrade to more peer pressure, growth pains and acne. Consequently, this would have also been before I moved out of my parents home and into my grandparents home. My dad took me to a water park that had probably been open for a year or two. I had never been but wanted to go and he decided to take me. Not without warnings from my grandparents and mom about keeping me safe. I was still considered epileptic during that time of life, and would not have completely grown out of it until my 18th birthday. My mother was more lax with me and my seizures, I suppose sensing that I knew how to take care of myself and what I should and should not do. My grandparents, and especially my grandmother, were more cautious. That is neither here nor there though. The waterpark was fun, though there were things I wouldn't try and I did get terribly sunburnt and horribly skint when in the wave pool / lazy river type thing. It is an experience that I would like to do again as an adult, but I"m not even sure if that waterpark is still in operation. I wanted to share this story as a way to show that I actually did have good memories with my dad. He wasn't always a good father, and he wasn't always a good s/o to my mom... but I do think he tried. I am still half decided on whether I should call / text my dad tomorrow or not bother.... I Won't mention these other potential relatives if I do. I think I will take my cousins (on my moms side) advice and try to get closure / make peace.. Essentially reach out and see if he even wants to try to mend fences or not.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
18 Jun 17
I am in the same boat as you. Unsure if I should text my "estranged" father tomorrow. Good luck with whatever you decide, you are the only one who can make that decision
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• United States
18 Jun 17
I actually put the ball in his court. I just texted him now and asked him if I could call him tomorrow. He may not get the text until tomorrow as it's 10 pm here. I don't think he will say no, but I also am not sure whether it will be another hour of empty words and empty promises.
• United States
18 Jun 17
@thislittlepennyearns I know my dad drank when I was a kid, and I think he might have smoke pot.. I don't know about anything else, and I definitely don't know of his habits now. It's now 2 pm and no response. I guess that answers that. I'm sorry it seem we have similar crappy situations.
@jstory07 (148749)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Jun 17
Think about it an do what is best for you in the long run.
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• United States
18 Jun 17
Truer words. I put the ball in his court, we shall see.
@celticeagle (189927)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Jun 17
I bet you will be glad later down the line that you did make peace.
@celticeagle (189927)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Jun 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum ......Sounds good.
• United States
19 Jun 17
I called him late yesterday and talked to him. He said he'd like to get together with me, but he also says that every time I call. I think this time he meant it, but let's hope.
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@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
18 Jun 17
If that specific water park does not exist anymore, you can try another one. Think before you decide if you want to text your father tomorrow. Sometimes it's better to do nothing.
• United States
18 Jun 17
I did end up texting him. I asked if I could call him and he never responded. I guess that answers that. Yes, there are other water parks around that might be even more fun. The one I went to (as a kid) wasn't that impressive.
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• United States
19 Jun 17
@LadyDuck I did bite the bullet and call him as well. He answered and we talked. I am hoping we can actually try to mend fences. He wasn't a very good father to me in the past, but my mom has been gone for years and I think it's time to try to mend things. I guess the older I get the more I realize I need to make a conscious effort. Even if day to day, my emotions / mind changes on it. There's too much to be said to make it where others understand the entirety of my decision.
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@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
19 Jun 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum You made a first step, he did not reply, you are in peace with yourself. Try another water park and start to create new memories.
@teamfreak16 (43642)
• Denver, Colorado
18 Jun 17
I won't be contacting my father tomorrow, just as I did not contact my mother on Mother's Day.
• United States
18 Jun 17
Just the way it is sometimes. My mom passed away but I did tell my grandmother happy mother's day and got her a card.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
19 Jun 17
Maybe you and your dad can make peace. I really hope so.
• United States
19 Jun 17
Thank You. I do too. I do have bad memories from my childhood of the way he treated / acted but as the years go by the malice I have towards those memories fade. I just don't want to end up regretting not being able to say goodbye.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
20 Jun 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum I hope you and dad can make peace.
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
18 Jun 17
I wish you luck
• United States
18 Jun 17
Thank You. I appreciate it.
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