"It is only important that I will always be with my family."

@Shavkat (141905)

Philippines

September 29, 2017 10:33pm CST

I am not sure with some of you guys. But I think family is the most important thing in my life. The immediate family will never be turned us down no matter what’s life bring us. I wasn’t so active in mylot because of dealing with my evil relatives. Some of you had read about it and I am so consumed with trying to make the inheritance fair and square. My late father’s siblings are so evil that they cannot hear their words towards us. It is bitter pill to swallow for them to be so greedy. Despite this, I need to support and let my immediate family be loyal to each other. I must say that family is the most important thing in every individual’s life. Do you agree? Why or why not? Image Credit: unsplash.com

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@ilocosboy (45155)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

I must agree because that's what I'm doing. I could be living with good life being myself but I choose with my family.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

I do think that's what we need to bear in mind. They are the most loyal people in our lives.

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@RubyHawk (99367)

• Atlanta, Georgia

30 Sep 17

@Shavkat Your relatives didn't sound loyal to me. Did I misunderstand?

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

@RubyHawk Yes, my dear friend. They are not considering us their family.

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@YrNemo (20254)

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30 Sep 17

Best wishes. Have everything sorted out yet?

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

@YrNemo We are still in the process of negotiating with these evil relatives. The family and I are anticipating the final decision before the end of this year.

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@YrNemo (20254)

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30 Sep 17

@Shavkat Who is going to be the judge? The real court of law of just some elders in the family?

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@YrNemo (20254)

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30 Sep 17

@cacay1 You know his case better than me

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@LadyDuck (502807)

• Italy

30 Sep 17

I remember you wrote about your evil relatives, I am sorry the problem has not been solved. I agree, family is important.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

It takes time for us to decide. The evil relatives are inconsistent with their terms and conditions. Regardless, we also need to lay down our cards, too. I hope it will end soon. It is a good start for a new life for the family.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

@LadyDuck Yes, my friend. Hopefully, it will be settled before the end of this year.

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@LadyDuck (502807)

• Italy

1 Oct 17

@Shavkat You are right, it's time to drop you cards and discuss with them.

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@RasmaSandra (98106)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

30 Sep 17

I agree about family. Unfortunately my family are all in heaven and I am alone. The memories are nice though. Enjoy your family while you can. Hope those evil relatives leave you alone.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

@RasmaSandra Thank you for sharing your life story here. I think I need to enjoy being with my family. I really can't wait to cut the relationship with my evil relatives.

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@RubyHawk (99367)

• Atlanta, Georgia

30 Sep 17

My family is very important to me but if I had mean back biting relatives I wouldn't want to have anything to do with them.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

2 Oct 17

@RubyHawk I am more concern with my immediate family than the other people.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

That's a good description for the evil relatives. They are backbiters. I will stick on to my immediate family and support them all throughout.

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@RubyHawk (99367)

• Atlanta, Georgia

2 Oct 17

@Shavkat That's the best you can do. Take care of those who take care of you.

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@rachz_kisses (3838)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

Yes, it's a big yes from me! Family will always be there for you no matter what, speaking from my own experience.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

I think it is the best gift for us to cherish.

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@shubhu3 (36463)

• New Delhi, India

30 Sep 17

True.

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@rachz_kisses (3838)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

@cacay1 When everyone walks out of your life, it's the time you'll find your family waiting at the corner.

@crossbones27 (53005)

• Mojave, California

30 Sep 17

Agree, they did a harvard study on this for 75 years. That is right followed people around for 75 years and found money had very little to do with it, but personal relationships had every thing to do with people's happiness.

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@crossbones27 (53005)

• Mojave, California

30 Sep 17

@Shavkat Yeah, assuming people's basic needs are met. Can't be to happy if one's basic needs are not being met.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

@crossbones27 For people who lives in a simple lifestyle, they can still be happy even if not meeting some of the basic needs.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

I haven't read about it. It is a good thing that there is an available study about it. It can also be considered the basic needs as described in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs.

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@TiarasOceanView (70020)

• United States

30 Sep 17

So you have given up with their stupid antics Shavkat? Well since I have no longer the family..I do not bother, but you know why it is with me the same evil ones. I hope you did get your fair share.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

They don't exist in our lives anymore. There are some clarifications needed before the final agreement between us and the evil relatives. I can't wait when that time comes.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

@TiarasOceanView I think need that, my friend. Thank you.

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@TiarasOceanView (70020)

• United States

1 Oct 17

@Shavkat I cant wait either for you Shavkat..I know..it is terrible

..but you know I understand..hope it will be final very soon.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Oct 17

I agree that there is nothing more important that family, especially immediate family. A person's true colors show when money is involved. I hope you work things out soon with those greedy siblings of you father.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

I agree. The evil relatives consumed with money matters. The sad part, they are so busy comparing us with them. In the first place, we are not competing with them. Paranoia kills them at this point in time.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

@DianneN Yes, it is. We just ignore it. They are creating their own ghost.

@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Oct 17

@Shavkat So frustrating!!!

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@JudyEv (382498)

• Rockingham, Australia

10 Oct 17

The issue of inheritance seems to bring out the worst in people. I am sorry your relatives are causing you so much hassle.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

10 Oct 17

You said it right. I just take it easy. Let them feel the stress.

@ridingbet (66854)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

oh, so that was the reason why you were not very active here, is because you were with your family. indeed, we must have unconditional love to our family. no questions asked.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

It is also one of the reasons, kabsat. I am trying to balance everything.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

2 Oct 17

@ridingbet I hope, kabsat. We are looking a land property.

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@ridingbet (66854)

• Philippines

2 Oct 17

@Shavkat i hope you will solve all problems arising in your family's life.

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@shubhu3 (36463)

• New Delhi, India

30 Sep 17

I agree with you completely. Our family is really important.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

I do think it is, my friend. We need to be with them as always.

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@shubhu3 (36463)

• New Delhi, India

30 Sep 17

@Shavkat Absolutely.

We are thei pillars.

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@shubhu3 (36463)

• New Delhi, India

30 Sep 17

@cacay1 I understand that.

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@thelme55 (79323)

• Germany

1 Oct 17

I do agree. There is an evil person in every family .

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

Can you imagine, my friend? We are dealing with 8 evil siblings of my late father.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

3 Oct 17

@thelme55 I hope it will, my friend.

@thelme55 (79323)

• Germany

3 Oct 17

@Shavkat so plenty? I hope your problem will get solved.

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@Lizirazo (2390)

• United States

11 Oct 17

Family is so important, most especially immediate family. I stand with my family come rain come sunshine.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

12 Oct 17

I also feel the same way.

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@Lizirazo (2390)

• United States

12 Oct 17

@KrauseHome (36445)

• United States

1 Oct 17

Family is important, but many times hard to swallow and deal with when some of them are not wanting to be acceptable to anything. My husband has become more of a Black sheep in our family thanks for me, and I am a Black sheep for some in my own immediate family. I feel all you can do is Pray about it and hope somehow things continue to work out for the Best.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

At some point, the evil relatives considered as the dark horses. They were trying to push us down. I feel sorry for them. We are just on the good side.

@AmbiePam (121127)

• United States

1 Oct 17

Certainly fami!y is my priority. In the end, they are the ones we can always count on. My sister is very prickly, and not always kind, but I know in the end she would be there for me if I needed her.

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

I do agree that some members of the family can cause pain because of its personality. But then, they still have the sense of knowing what's the real importance of having a family.

@prashu228 (37518)

• India

30 Sep 17

Family is everything. We should not neglect our family..

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

1 Oct 17

A family is the basic foundation of our life. It reflects who we are in the society.

@xiaolisu (957)

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30 Sep 17

Individual will lost direction without a family

@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

30 Sep 17

I do agree with that.

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4 Oct 17

Family members are always there to test your attitude on how you respond to their concerns. It may come as their natural behavior or a planned act. Who knows?

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@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

5 Oct 17

Indeed, my friend. A family is a basic foundation for each member to be molded as a good person in the society.

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