Meeting Someone Can Be Deadly

@RasmaSandra (98106)
Daytona Beach, Florida
January 1, 2018 2:10pm CST
A New Year’s night became a murderous night and a young woman made the wrong choice. I found the story of the novel and later on the movie “Looking for Mr. Goodbar” very disturbing. This happened a long time ago but I think it is worth remembering since times have become so very dangerous these days. New Yorker Roseann Quinn who was 27, went to Tweed’s Bar on the Upper West Side in New York City. She was out for a night of fun and perhaps to meet a nice guy. It was New Year’s night when she met John Wayne Wilson, who unfortunately outwardly was a very charming man. There seemed nothing wrong with this very disturbed man, who was a homosexual but didn’t want to admit this to himself, therefore, bring out violent feelings toward women. Quinn left the bar with Wilson and went to his home. It was there that she was stabbed numerous times and sexually assaulted before she died. Before his trail, Wilson hung himself in jail in May 1973. My thoughts are that it was good that he was filled with such guilt but still if someone had noticed that he was like a power-keg about to go off then Quinn would not have lost her life. Judith Rossner wrote her best-selling novel “Looking for Mr. Goodbar” in 1975. It was the story of a similar incident and was to be taken as a warning for women not to go in for one-night stands. The actress starring in the movie was Diane Keaton. Have you read the book or seen the movie? Do you think that today one-night stands are even more dangerous for women?
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
2 Jan 18
no I haven't read the book... but it is a tragic but very relevant reminder to people... especially these days with soo many people usingvthe internet to meet people....
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@JudyEv (382483)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Jan 18
Such a situation is always fraught with danger.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Jan 18
i did read the book and see the movie. i think it is just as dangerous but also it is easier to get help with cell phones and so much these days for women and even more info about these things. but still no one ever knows what is in another persons mind ever
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@RasmaSandra (98106)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Jan 18
That is so true plus these days even all kinds of diseases have spread so much more @bunnybon7
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
1 Jan 18
I have not seen the movoe or read the book. I do think that one night stands are as dangerous if not more dangerous then they were back then. You dont know somebosy when you just meet them and go home with them. Anything could happen.
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@RasmaSandra (98106)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Jan 18
Even as a young woman I could never understand the point of trusting someone after just first meeting @Happy2BeMe I was always careful.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
5 Jan 18
@RasmaSandra One can never be too careful.
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@Kandae11 (57230)
1 Jan 18
Haven't seen the movie or read the book - but yes, there is more danger out there with every passing year.
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• United States
1 Jan 18
I read the book and saw the movie, but that was a long time ago. It shows that women need to be very careful, especially these days. A woman in Fort Worth went home with a man last year from a bar. His girlfriend and another man showed up and tortured her and killed her, then they took her body to a field in a busy area, and tried to burn her body. There were too many witnesses and they were caught and arrested. They were evil, but stupid evil. Sorry, I didn't mean for this comment to be so long. I think women believe it can't happen to them, but it can.
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
3 Jan 18
@misunderstood_zombie yeah. I try to watch just the local news at noon since they talk about local events and charity things.
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
3 Jan 18
That's awful! Sadly its not surprising with how often murders are shown in the news. :(
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• United States
3 Jan 18
@Daelii I normally try to avoid News, but it somehow catches my interest anyway.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
1 Jan 18
Not yet seen it Yes a one night stands usually are dangerous for women and must avoid such way
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
4 Jan 18
I have not read or seen the movie or book but that is crazy dangerous behavior in my opinion, not that there is ever an excuse for someone to hurt another human being.
@jstory07 (148771)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Jan 18
You should never go for one night stands.
@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Jan 18
I have seen the movie which showcased two then young unknown actors named Richard Gere and Tom Berenger. Tuesday Weld received an Oscar nomination for her performance.
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
4 Jan 18
Nowadays it's the internet where weirdos and psychos troll.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
3 Jan 18
I did see that movie. A sad commentary on the singles scene and a dangerous way to meet men.
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
3 Jan 18
I haven't read the books. I think they are very dangerous for people not just because the stranger can kill/harm. . but STDs etc
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