How do you feel when your mom trusts an outsider more than you?
@Swayamsiddha (4354)
New Delhi, India
March 8, 2018 10:50pm CST
Today, at around 8:30 a.m. I was in deep sleep , last night I slept at around 12:30 and I am someone who , once goes to bed gets her sleep one hour after lying down on bed. Unfortunately I didnt get a good sleep also due to another reason and that is ,my conflict with my mom regarding career. Fine, if she is my mom but she has no right to force me into something even if she feels that it is right for me according to her. I am in a generation where there are lots and lots of opportunities for everyone to do something whether online or offline. Sorry I got carried away . So, here my mom worke me up and told me to keep a track of all the people who visit our house for anything they were told to do by mom. I agreed to what my mom was saying. I remained alert and when the garbage collector came to take garbage from my house my sis opened the door, I picked up one trash can and my sis picked another trash can from both the rooms where they were kept and were about to give them to the garbage collector when mybmom came and said , "so you have collected the garbage from my house?" . The man nodded and immediately lied to my mom that he had rung the bell twice and was about to leave the house thinking that nobody was there. Actually he said this because my mom had yelled at him last time for not taking garbage from my house on time. My mom is so great that she ended up trusting him and when he went away he went awy she started fighting with me like an idiot. She blindly started believing a garbage collector's words but not me. What nonsense!!! Has this ever happended with you my myloteers? It really sucks if your mom trusts an outsider and spoils your entire mood and day.
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@LeaPea2417 (40061)
• Toccoa, Georgia
9 Mar 18
Way in the past, I had a similar situation.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
9 Mar 18
Yeah...one thing is she is returning from outside, and must be thirsty as hell. Second thing is, stress because of hormonal problems..she must be nearing menopause, third thing is there must be some other factor like getting daughters married, dowry worries, financial worries, etc. that are getting to her.
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
9 Mar 18
@vandana7 getting us married is definitely not the problem at all. We girls are very young. There is no such problem of marriege. But yes you are right stress due to hormonal problem might be the reason, her menopause time is probably getting closer and yes she might feel thirsty. But this is not the way to behave with your daughters. She was being partial.
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@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
10 Mar 18
Yes it has happened with me and my mother also. My mother and I were not close. I had no respect for her in the end and she had none for me.
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
10 Mar 18
So what is the current status of your relation with her?
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@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
9 Mar 18
my mother does that ALL THE FRICKIN TIME.
and it pisses me off royally.
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
9 Mar 18
Are there any financial, emotional, health or social stress situations? Usually in Indian households grown up girl child means all such stresses. Health may be a possibility because she may be in menopausal situation. Be kind and loving and understanding to your mom. She will love you for it when that hormonal phase gets over. And you will also learn a few things about your own physiology when you are in that stage and be left with fewer regrets after mom passes on.
