The massage that went wrong

@JudyEv (381739)
Rockingham, Australia
March 16, 2018 4:22am CST
Quite some years ago we went to Thailand on an organised school trip. We travelled well north past Chiang Mia almost to the Myanmar border. There we stayed in a Karen village for three weeks, helping to lay a water pipe to bring clean water to the village. I’ve written about the ubiquitous bamboo which was used for just about everything in the village. Within the first few days my husband, Vince, started having a lot of trouble with his back but we were told there was a local resident who was good at massaging people who had aches and pains. It was arranged for the young man, whose name believe it or not was Sumsuk, to give Vince a massage. Vince wasn’t too keen but he was assured that the treatment would be effective. Our guide taught Vince the Karen word for ‘stop’ in case the massage became too painful. However it hurt so much Vince forgot the word for stop and the young man kept on despite Vince’s yells of pain. Then the young man straddled Vince who was face down and was pummelling his shoulders, at which point the bed broke. So that effectively brought about an end to the session. However within a short time a replacement piece of bamboo had been sourced from the jungle and the bed was repaired. However Vince decided his back was very much better so they called it a day. The photo is a view from one of the roads we travelled on our way to the village.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
16 Mar 18
That must have been quite frightening for Vince, its actually a good thing that the bed broke isn't it?
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Mar 18
Yes but fancy forgetting how to say 'no'.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
17 Mar 18
@JudyEv He would have been in a very compromised position to say no.
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• Preston, England
16 Mar 18
sounds like the massage was a living hell
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• Preston, England
17 Mar 18
@JudyEv it sounds quite funny in a way but it must have been scary as well as painful
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
I can't believe he forgot the word for 'stop'. Sometimes I worry about him.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar 18
@arthurchappell That's very true.
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
16 Mar 18
The picture is so majestic! Sometimes the cure is worse than the ailment!
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
16 Mar 18
@JudyEv So, beautiful country but dangerous health care system.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Mar 18
We saw some really beautiful countryside. Yes, it was a pretty harsh cure!
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
@1hopefulman Yes, exactly. lol
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
17 Mar 18
Massage and Thailand go hand in hand and there are experts out there. There are massage parlours run by women I am told. My husband almost went there but somehow it did not materialise
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
We had a massage back in Bangkok and they seemed very professional. You could have all sorts of different massages.
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@garymarsh6 (23979)
• United Kingdom
17 Mar 18
OH dear Poor Vince. There is nothing worse than a backache. It is very much misunderstood. The pain is unforgiving. What a wonderful photo and what a great experience!
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@garymarsh6 (23979)
• United Kingdom
17 Mar 18
@JudyEv They are very tiny in Vietnam too! I got a 3X T shirt and it still did not fit comfortably!
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
At the end of the time they gave us traditional shirts which they had started weaving when we arrived. They said they had never had to make such large shirts! They were all so much smaller than we were. I really need to scan some more photos from that trip.
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
17 Mar 18
So the massage worked, right? Vince was as good as new after that? lol
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
I'm not sure if it was the massage or not but he came good afterwards.
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
17 Mar 18
@JudyEv Well, let's look on the humorous side of things...his back was probably fixed when the bed collapsed! lol
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
16 Mar 18
Poor Vince, I guess he never said again he had back pain. Much better the pain than the massage.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Mar 18
We had a few funny experiences in that village!
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
16 Mar 18
@JudyEv I guess that this one made everybody laugh, except Vince.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
@LadyDuck Luckily he was able to laugh later.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
16 Mar 18
Poor Man . It is wise to learn the word 'stop' by the massager . It's powerful massage to break the bamboo.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
17 Mar 18
@JudyEv Lol The poweful man Vince
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
Luckily it wasn't an iron bed or he might have broken Vince. lol
@DianneN (254949)
• United States
17 Mar 18
Poor Vince! . What an experience that was. What a beautiful photo!!! Our older son loved Thailand when he was there for work.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
22 Mar 18
@JudyEv The bougainvilleas are magnificent here in Florida. Much closer for me.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
I think it was our first trip overseas so it was all new and different. I remember the bouganvilleas were magnificent.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Mar 18
@DianneN I think Thailand is closer for me - closer than Florida!
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Mar 18
I'm sorry the massage was so rough the bed broke. Beautiful photo.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Mar 18
@JudyEv It looks gorgeous!
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
The drive through some of the mountain country was very beautiful.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
16 Mar 18
That must have been quite the massage to break the bed, how hard was the guy pummeling him? I feel sorry for your husband, did he really think his back was better and would he get another one of those massages?
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
17 Mar 18
@JudyEv Well at least he got some good out of all that pain huh.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
@cintol That's true.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
I don't think he'd have another but his back did get better.
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@teamfreak16 (43567)
• Denver, Colorado
17 Apr 18
Ouch! Thank goodness for the broken bed.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Apr 18
It was fortunate that it broke I think.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
14 Sep 18
@JudyEv That is a horrible experience.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Sep 18
Yes, Vince was very glad when the bed broke and he was able to stop the massage.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
17 Sep 18
@JudyEv I am glad he stopped it. Poor Vince.
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• Cuddalore, India
16 Mar 18
Massaging has more health benefits. Glad to hear vince feeling better after massage treatment .
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Mar 18
A massage can be very relaxing can't it?
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• Cuddalore, India
16 Mar 18
@JudyEv relaxing a lot and lot
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
16 Mar 18
would been better off seeing a chiropractor.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
The nearest was probably about 6 hours away.
@Tampa_girl7 (54714)
• United States
17 Mar 18
What an experience that must have been.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
Not a good one for Vince! But all is well that ends well.
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
17 Mar 18
Oh dear! what a story.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
Luckily he lived to tell the tale - and to laugh about it.
@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
17 Mar 18
Yes it is an adventure as we do not know what we are getting into in an unfamiliar place and also in terms of treatment. Finally it was "divine" intervention that came to his rescue! Lovely photo - siva
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar 18
Yes, it was probably lucky the bed broke!
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
16 Mar 18
I admit my mind went to wrong place when I read the title Poor Vince though. But I'm happy it helped
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
Some titles really get a reader's attention don't they? And I snared one with you.
@deba12 (2946)
• India
16 Mar 18
The pic is nice. Massaging has numerous health benefits. I too suffered from back pain. It happens mainly in winter. Whenever it happens, I go for massaging to get relief. It gives me relief, though temporarily.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar 18
Massages can be very beneficial in many cases. It's a shame the relief is only temporary.