The Ugly Truth
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (57231)
March 28, 2018 12:50pm CST
No, this is not about the movie "The Ugly Truth" which stars Gerard Butler - I just think that the title suits my post perfectly.
Mrs X found out that her husband was cheating - in fact - she actually saw the two together, and her first reaction was "how could he cheat on me with an ugly woman ?". Now - would you be angrier or less angry depending on who your husband or wife is cheating with - or the person's attractiveness or unattractiveness?
I never gave this aspect of cheating much thought , until I heard it mentioned in the lyrics of a song. My main concern would be his cheating - period. What are your thoughts about this?
My picture is a scene from the Shakespeare play "Othello".
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
28 Mar 18
Oh wow, that's a good question. If he were cheating with a nice looking person - I would feel uglier. If he were cheating with a person I deemed more plain I would wonder what else about me drove him away.
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@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
28 Mar 18
Men and women cheat on their partners for a variety of reasons which never make it right, but my question is; What does a man/woman see in someone who cheats their wife/girlfriend, husband/boyfriend. They should automatically read him/her as LOSER!!
If they are both hitched then two losers belong together.
:-)
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@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
28 Mar 18
@Kandae11 exactly! Which is why I cant admire a married man who hits on me, nor will I fall into desire for him.
:-)
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@snowy22315 (208951)
• United States
29 Mar 18
I agree, I think cheating period is the concern, not what the other person looks like.
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@Marilynda1225 (91115)
• United States
28 Mar 18
Cheating itself would be my issue.
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@Freelanzer (10782)
• Canada
28 Mar 18
As they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if someone want to cheat they will cheat.
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@YrNemo (20254)
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29 Mar 18
I do have a very analytical mind. Hearing of something that goes wrong, I automatically dissect and analyze the cause. In this case, I would automatically try to figure out why the man in the case goes astray, was it because the other woman was better in any way?
I have friends whose husband betrayed them for fatter and uglier women (but those women were wealthier too!).
Many beautiful and nice personality women (Shania Twain was one, re: the first husband) lost their husbands to shabby & messy women. Some men are just hopeless.
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@YrNemo (20254)
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29 Mar 18
@Kandae11 Her first husband had an affair with a woman she made friends with (Shania Twain's very close friend at the time). When the husband of the other woman began to be suspicious of his wife's activities, he began to approach Shania Twain, asking her to help him. She was horrified and didn't believe it at first.
The funny thing is, that man whose messy and shabby wife betraying him, is quite a good-looking guy. In the end, after all the dust settled, he married Shania Twain. The two seem to be devoted to each other after being betrayed by their first partners.
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@LeaPea2417 (40032)
• Toccoa, Georgia
29 Mar 18
I would be upset no matter what they looked like.
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
I never tried about this matter yet because I am still single but if ever I found out that my man cheated on me especially with an ugly woman. , I will surely get angry .
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@Kandae11 yes that is correct
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